11/21/2022
John Peter Rademan – 4 July 1883 – 21 NOV 1905
It is our intent with the Anderson Grove Cemetery Project to remember those laid to rest in this little grove for the lives they lived more so than for their deaths. Occasionally however we find a story like this one that still resonates with struggles we see today. Jack’s story is tragic, but we feel it necessary to tell it in its entirety so that his death will not be in vain. (TW: su***de)
Jack, as he was known, was born to Peter and Katrina (Heift) Rademan, German immigrants who had settled in Carroll County, Iowa. The 1900 census tells us that Peter owned the home the family lived in, making a living as a drayman, or flatbed wagon driver. Jack, the middle child of the three surviving Rademan children, was attending school.
By 1903, at 20 years old, Jack had moved to Papillion, Nebraska to make his own way in the world. He held a position at the local newspaper, “The Papillion Times”. That December he became a founding member and Sergeant-at-Arms of The Metropolitan Club, housed in the Nolan Building. The purpose of the club, with a membership that the “Papillion Times” boasted as “…the best young men of the city…” was to provide “…social pastime of a clean and refined nature.”
The following year, on October 1, 1904, he married Accie Whitted. The marriage announcement described the event as “…a complete surprise to everyone…” The couple were described as “…one of Papillion’s most popular young ladies…”, and “…a worthy young man.” As general favorites about town, the young couple was wished many congratulations.
Over the next year we see Jack building a renowned life. He becomes a stockholder and Secretary of the Board of Directors of “The Papillion Times”. He and his partners increase advertising revenue for the small paper and are hailed as quite successful. He joined the Ancient Order of United Workmen, a fraternal organization, as well as becoming an active member of the local Democratic Party, holding positions on several committees.
Sadly, Jack took his own life on November 21st, 1905, at the age of 22. His death was reported in over 100 articles in newspapers from Indiana to Oregon. A prominent young man, seemingly successful in all that he attempted, his death stunned all who knew him. “The Papillion Times” described the announcement as “The word came like a thunderbolt out of a clear sky, casting a deep gloom over all our citizens.” In letters he left behind, Jack stated that “an old incurable disease had returned” of which he could no longer bear the pain. While an autopsy found no signs of physical illness, his last letters are filled with what we would today recognize as mental anguish. He left behind his wife of one year, his parents, brother and sister, and so many friends and loved ones that it was reported that the Union Church overflowed with mourners the day of his funeral.
If you or a loved one struggles with depression, thoughts of su***de or other mental health issues, there is help available. Please take advantage of it because you are an important part of our community and so very many people care about you and your well-being.
• For mental health crisis, please call or text The National Su***de Prevention Lifeline at 988.
• For the hearing impaired, contact the Lifeline by TTY at: 1-800-799-4889
• To chat online with a national su***de hotline counselor, click here: https://su***depreventionlifeline.org/chat/
• See the National Su***de Prevention Lifeline website: http://www.su***depreventionlifeline.org/
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