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06/03/2026

Grateful to be at the Under the Oaks Leadership Conference at The Homestead in Mobile, Alabama.

One of the most beautiful truths shaping my journey is the reality of union—that God was never distant, but in Christ was reconciling the world to Himself (2 Corinthians 5:19). Leadership begins with understanding that we are not striving to get to God; we are awakening to the relationship He has already made possible through Jesus.

Looking forward to the conversations, connections, and fresh perspectives this week beneath the oaks.
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06/01/2026

The Waiting Room is a new online gathering launching June 24, 2026, for honest conversations about faith, longing, disappointment, healing, curiosity, and the places where many of us still feel unfinished.

This is not a place for debate, performance, pretending, or having all the answers.

It is a space for people who are hungry for depth, connection, authenticity, and the possibility of encountering God beyond fear, pressure, and religious striving.

Come as you are.
Bring your questions.
Bring your hope.
Bring the parts of your journey that still ache for more.

You are not alone.

📅 Launch Date: June 24, 2026
💻 Platform: Microsoft Teams

🔗 See meeting information in the comments or link below.

“Where questions, longing, and possibility meet.”

05/31/2026

As Mental Health Awareness Month comes to a close, I’m reminded that awareness is only the beginning.

Over the past month, we’ve talked about boundaries, recovery, empathy, work-life balance, emotional health, self-awareness, and the courage it takes to keep growing. We’ve explored what it means to lead with honor, communicate with understanding, and remember that every person carries a story we may never fully see.

Mental health isn’t a 31-day conversation. It’s a lifelong investment.

It’s choosing curiosity over assumptions.
It’s asking questions before drawing conclusions.
It’s creating healthy boundaries without losing compassion.
It’s recognizing that healing, growth, and character development never truly end.
It’s understanding that being human isn’t a weakness—it’s something to steward well.

Whether you’re leading a team, supporting a family, navigating recovery, pursuing purpose, or simply trying to make it through a difficult season, your mental health matters. The way you care for your mind influences the way you show up for every relationship, every responsibility, and every opportunity entrusted to you.

As we move into a new month, don’t leave these conversations behind. Continue investing in your emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Continue extending grace to yourself and others. Continue becoming a person marked by empathy, resilience, and love.

Because healthy people help create healthy families, healthy workplaces, healthy communities, and a healthier world.

What is one thing you’ll continue doing to invest in your mental health beyond Mental Health Awareness Month?

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05/28/2026

Season 1, Episode 4 is now.

Listen and be blessed by this story of freedom. There is love in Jesus after spiritual abuse, and a rest that is only found in the arms of the Father.

I love you Alonnia Rachelle Duhon. You are a beautiful witness of His love.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6i6gR6OYKh9GNxmxOgCcR1?si=f3_4SKg2SVusPJ4QV0APvg

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05/26/2026

Something is stirring for people who know there has to be more.

“The Waiting Room” is a coming soon Zoom group for honest conversations about faith, longing, disappointment, healing, curiosity, and the places where many of us still feel unfinished.

This is not a place for debate, performance, pretending, or having all the answers.

It is a space for people who are hungry for depth, connection, authenticity, and the possibility of encountering God beyond fear, pressure, and religious striving.

Come as you are.
Bring your questions.
Bring your hope.
Bring the parts of your journey that still ache for more.

You are not alone.

More details coming soon.

05/26/2026

Mental health matters.
But so does recognizing the wounds that don’t always leave visible scars.

Sometimes anxiety, depression, shame, fear, or emotional exhaustion are not just personal struggles — they can be connected to spiritual abuse, manipulation, control, or harmful religious environments.

When faith is used to silence questions, enforce fear, shame emotions, dismiss trauma, or control people instead of leading them toward love, healing, and freedom, the impact on mental and emotional health can be profound.

Healing is not weakness.
Seeking therapy is not lack of faith.
Setting boundaries is not rebellion.
And questioning harmful treatment is not dishonoring God.

Awareness means creating space for honest conversations about both mental health and spiritual mistreatment — because people deserve safe places to heal emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

You are allowed to heal.
You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to unlearn fear and rediscover peace. 💚

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05/25/2026

It's been a busy month, but we are back!

Season 1, Episode 4: The God We Were Taught vs. The Father Jesus Reveals

What if burnout, shame, and spiritual exhaustion aren’t signs of weak faith… but signs we’ve mistaken striving for intimacy?

In this powerful episode, we’re diving into the difference between covenant and contract Christianity and reintroducing the Father Jesus came to reveal.

Together, we’ll explore how faith can become transactional, why so many people feel exhausted in their walk with God, and what it looks like to move from performance into relationship.

✨ Special guest Alonnia Duhon will share her personal journey of growing up experiencing legalism and religion as a young girl who genuinely wanted to know Jesus — and how God led her from a contract mindset into the freedom, healing, and intimacy of covenant with the Father.

We’ll also talk about:
• Why people burn out or walk away from faith
• What covenant looks like after mistakes
• How shame keeps us striving
• Why staying connected to God changes everything

This conversation is honest, healing, and deeply needed for anyone longing to know God beyond religion.

Coming soon — Season 1, Episode 4

05/22/2026

Mental health awareness in the workplace matters more than ever.

For many of us, growth has meant learning that excellence is not the same thing as exhaustion. Healthy boundaries are not selfish, and balancing work with personal life is not a lack of ambition. It is stewardship.

The healthiest workplaces are built by people who know how to lead with both competence and humanity — people who can pursue goals while still honoring rest, relationships, empathy, and integrity.

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is the importance of remaining the same person in every room I walk into. Whether in ministry, leadership, the marketplace, or personal relationships, authenticity matters. We were never created to perform different versions of ourselves depending on the audience.

The person God created us to be should carry consistency:
• Passion without burnout
• Empathy without losing boundaries
• Respect without compromising truth
• Excellence without sacrificing peace

Mental wellness is not separate from leadership. It shapes the way we communicate, serve, problem solve, and care for the people around us. Healthy people help create healthy cultures.

As we continue conversations around mental health awareness, I hope we also normalize:
• taking care of ourselves without guilt
• setting healthy boundaries at work
• protecting time for family and rest
• leading with emotional maturity
• creating environments where people feel safe, valued, and respected

Success means very little if we lose ourselves while trying to achieve it. Real stewardship is learning how to care for both the work we’ve been given and the person we were created to be.

05/20/2026

Mental health awareness means learning that people are not our enemies.

The real enemies are shame, addiction, abuse, fear, hatred, isolation, injustice, and every wound that distorts love and connection.

Healing is not about becoming hard.
It’s about becoming whole.

At Agape Covenant Collective, we believe growth in empathy, character, accountability, and compassion never stops. Recovery is not just behavior management — it’s learning how to stay tender, truthful, and emotionally healthy while walking through pain without allowing pain to define us.

Correction was never meant to destroy us.
Love was always meant to restore us.

May we become people who hold space for healing, boundaries, responsibility, forgiveness, and redemptive justice — while remembering that every human being is worthy of dignity, compassion, and hope.

That’s what it means to look like Jesus.

05/18/2026

Relationship mania can look a lot like “deep love” in the beginning.

The constant texting.
The emotional intensity.
The obsession.
The fantasy bonding.
The inability to regulate when communication changes.

The feeling that someone instantly became your peace, identity, or emotional oxygen.

But sometimes what we call chemistry is actually dysregulation.

Mental health awareness matters because not every intense connection is healthy attachment. Sometimes unresolved trauma, abandonment wounds, mood disorders, love addiction, or emotional deprivation can create cycles where relationships become the place we run to for escape, validation, or emotional survival.

This is why healing matters.
Not so we become cold or guarded—
but so we can love from wholeness instead of desperation.

Part of healing is having the humility and courage to seek support from safe, qualified counselors and mental health professionals who can help us achieve emotional balance and discover what healthy “normal” actually looks like. There is no shame in needing help learning stability, boundaries, regulation, or healthy attachment.

Real love does not demand that we lose ourselves to keep connection.
Healthy love can breathe.
It can pause without panic.
It can communicate without manipulation.
It can exist without obsession.

And for those struggling with relationship mania, there should be no shame in seeking counseling, accountability, community, or deeper healing. Awareness is not condemnation. Awareness is compassion that tells the truth.

God did not create us to live emotionally tormented by every shift in attention or affection. His love restores stability to the places in us that once believed abandonment was the end of the world.

Healing may look less euphoric at first because peace is quieter than chaos.
But peace is still holy.

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