04/11/2026
From the Desk of Father Gabriel
I am leaving the Parish at the end of June after serving you for seven and a half years. I arrived on November 26, 2018. It had been a difficult time for me and I had already requested another assignment. I was turned down but Providence assisted me on my journey here. At the end of a Priest Conference we were informed that Msgr. Gerry would be stepping down and that any one who wanted to apply to come to Bay City should do so. I turned to the priest who rode with me to the conference and said, “I’m going to get it…” He said, “Oh, are you going to apply?” “No, I am going to get the assignment.” Call it intuition or what you will, but I was convicted by the Holy Spirit that I would indeed get the position and that is what brought me here. It is never easy for a priest at a new assignment, especially for one who succeeds a well loved outgoing Pastor. Priests who have been at parishes for many years have provided their presence and guidance and parishioners are accustomed to their routine. So when someone new comes in, there is adjustments made on the part of the parishioners and the priests. Sometimes changes are necessary because of finances, disorganization or problems in administration. And when changes happen, no one really likes them: the parishioners or even the new priest in charge. But what is needed to keep the parish healthy and effective? Are there some things that have not been managed properly? And when does one begin to make the necessary changes? Sometimes, waiting to correct things is no longer an option. I never came here with a game plan or thinking about what will change…no…I simply came and saw that some things needed my attention immediately. Changes were made and people were not happy, but they were made to get us back within the correct perimeters. I would have been a fool to make changes just to make them. I made them because they were necessary.
This assignment gave me a mission and purpose that was necessary and that brought me joy once more in my priesthood. You have been what began to heal me. It has been a lot of work and I have done my best to work alongside you. I never wanted to be one of those priests who told people what to do; I have always believed it necessary to also share in the work. I was told early on that this community was hungry for the Word of God and it lifted my spirit as I love to teach and explain. The scriptures must be accessible and easy enough to understand or else very few would be able to grow in their faith. Jesus comes to save us all and begins by preaching the Word of God first so that everyone has the same opportunity to know who God is; there are no favorites, we are all worthy of knowing the God who loved us first and brought us into existence through this same love. Who could have foreseen Co-vid coming down the road two years into my time here? Or that we would lose Msgr. Gerry around the same time? This decision to step down has been a long one for me. What finally convinced me was that I began to feel a shift interiorly and began to feel more limited in what I would be able to accomplish and what I could not. Primarily, 55 years of working out of my 63 years has caught up with me. I am tired and now my health seems to justify this decision although I didn’t need to be justified. I think of my father who died at 67, only 4 years away from where I am; now I am not my father, but it does make me wonder at times how many more years will I have left?
All of this is new to me and I have had to make some life changes too. I bought a house because I will need a place to stay when I leave and I had to have it in place before I left. I have applied for Social Security as my income will be limited. I don’t know what will come next. I would love to do missions or retreats in the future. I plan to help other priests with help at the parish when and if I am able; although I could never celebrate 4 masses on the weekend anymore, it is too much for me. I have preached in English and Spanish at all my masses for 18 out of 19 years now, including the daily masses. I am not sure if that will continue. I would like to write, and get back into art again. I think I would enjoy visiting different parishes and having workshops on how to present and costume Christmas Pageants and Living Stations of the Cross. And I would want to continue to teach in some capacity. I am convinced some will be happy that I am leaving; I harbor no ill will towards them. Truly I don’t. I don’t personally know of a single priest who has not had tension with at least a handful of parishioners. Nevertheless, I am grateful for my time here and for all of the experiences that have shaped me; yes, even the challenging ones. What does the future hold? I am not sure, except that God is already awaiting us there.
God Bless You,
Fr. Gabriel
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