06/23/2026
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One of the most famous Christian sayings isn’t something Jesus ever said.
“Love the sinner, hate the sin.”
The problem isn’t only that Jesus didn’t say it...
It’s what we’ve done with it.
Too often, “love the sinner” becomes the story we tell ourselves… while “hate the sin” becomes the experience we give everyone else.
“We love you” is one sentence.
“We love you, but…” is often where love gets buried beneath everything we really wanted to say.
Yes, God hates sin.
Including mine.
Including yours.
And no, loving people like Jesus is not “loving them to Hell.”
Love doesn’t require silence about sin. It requires that truth never become an excuse for contempt, cruelty, or pride.
Jesus called people to repentance.
But notice His pattern:
Grace first.
Dignity first.
Love first.
He loved people so deeply that repentance became an invitation they accepted, not a weapon they feared.
God didn’t send Jesus into the world to condemn it.
So maybe we should stop acting like He sent us to do it.
Jesus showed patience toward people trapped in sin.
But hypocrisy?
Religious pride?
Self-righteousness?
Those were the sins that made Him flip tables.
So before we obsess over “their” sin, Jesus offers a simpler starting point:
Check the mirror.
“First take the plank out of your own eye…” - Matthew 7:5
Ever notice how our urgency to confront someone else’s sin can burn like wildfire… while our urgency to confront our own barely produces smoke?
That isn’t spiritual courage.
That isn't standing up for your convictions.
It’s hypocrisy with a Bible verse.
So... if we truly hate sin,
we can begin in the mirror.
And stay there awhile.
Christian love was never meant to be love-with-fine-print.
It crosses lines.
It absorbs discomfort.
It refuses to reduce people to props for our false righteousness.
Imagine if Christians became known for loving people the way Jesus did.
No fine print.
No asterisk.
Just costly love that makes people curious about Christ.
But if our faith is known
more for who we condemn
than how we love…
we’re not leading people to Jesus.
We’re shutting the door in their faces.
Matthew 23:13