09/10/2025
I spoke with a friend today, he is battling cancer. He is a strong Christian man, a Veteran, a husband, and a father. I don’t want to reveal his identity so I won’t share more than that except to say he is always involved in ministry and Christian based charity. I shared some scripture with him that has helped me over the years when my wife had cancer and other times when I felt defeated or discouraged. Over the next three days, I would like to share that Scripture with all of you.
Today, we start with Deuteronomy 31:8 “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”
As men, life can be hard. We are taught early on to shoulder our burdens quietly. Keep our emotions in check, and never complain. It is an impossible task. Life will kick you while you’re down and spit on you for trying to get back up. That is where the enemy really likes to get in your ear. He will tell you that you are alone and will never have help.
But Praise God! The enemy is a liar.
“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you.” There is nowhere you can go that God has not already seen and He is with you every step of the way. Let’s be honest, our burdens may be too heavy for us. I hate the phrase “God will never give you more than you can handle.” That is not scripture. That is foolish pride. But brothers, I can tell you this: God will NEVER give you more than he can handle.
“I will never leave you; nor forsake you. We serve a Faithful God don’t we? No matter how we fail, His promise is that we will ALWAYS have Him in our corner to strengthen us, to relieve our burdens, and yes even heal us from cancer.
In 2013, my wife, fiance at the time, was diagnosed with cancer. A tumor the size of my fist. We were at a Tuesday night service with friends. We had never been to this Church before. During his sermon, the Pastor stopped mid sentence. He pointed at my wife and said “I don’t know what’s going on, but God says He’s got it. You're healed. The following Friday she called me in a panic. She said “It ruptured!” I said what ruptured? She said “My tumor, it opened up and this black tar stuff is coming out!”. I did my best to calm her and told her to call her Doctor. THey gave her some directions and essentially said if it doesn’t stop, go to the ER. Well it stopped. About a week later on Thursday, we had the appointment for her surgery. They got her into a pre-op room, where they did a sonogram to make the marks of where the tumor was and where they needed to cut. The thing is, THERE WAS NO TUMOR! IT WAS JUST GONE! Now I don’t know how God decides when or where to do a miracle. I cannot fathom how He decides who to heal and who not to. What I do know is He can, and sometimes He does. That is a Faithful Go. That is a GOd who walks with us and does not leave us nor forsake us when things get hard.
“Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” There is always hope in God and in Jesus. I’ve lost both parents in the last year. We were a very close family. When my dad passed I was afraid. At 45 years old, I did not feel equipped to be a man without the ear and advice of my dad. But I got into Scripture and I got on my knees and God was there to whisper quietly in my ear. “He’s with me now, but he gave you everything you needed before he left you. Do not be afraid. Again when my mom died, God was there. Reminding me to be strong and not discouraged.
If we only look to Him, all that we need will be provided in our darkest times. He will never leave us; nor forsake us.
Heavenly Father, we come today asking that you help us to put aside our manly pride, that we can lean on you and always remember that You are a Faithful God, who loves us and will never leave us to struggle on our own. Lord, we thank you for walking before us in the darkness and beside us at our weakness. We humbly ask your blessings lord that we can be a light to lead others to you through your presence in us.
Amen