05/27/2026
A Word From the Rector
Dear friends in Christ,
People need people more than people need robots. Because people are more annoying.
This weekend, Leo XIV, The Delco Pope, released his first papal encyclical, Magnifica Humanitas, "on safeguarding the human person in the time of artificial intelligence." I haven't finished reading the entire thing, but I saw that he does mention one of the things I find most potentially problematic about personal use of AI.
Anyone who has used one of the AI bots has encountered the way they tend to be very, very affirming of whatever you have to say. "That's a great point," ChatGPT says, all the time. "That's very insightful." These products are extremely agreeable.*
And of course they're agreeable! The way to increase the usage of any product is to make it as frictionless to use as possible. One touch, one tap, one click. Plug and play. If there is friction, or if usage of the product is difficult, that leads to less usage. And you make a product for people to use.
But when it comes to social relationships, friction is a good thing. Putting up with other people, even when they're annoying, is part of how we grow as human beings. Learning how to forgive and be forgiven, how to see another's point of view and make your own understandable, how to share space with others who have their own needs and preferences - these are all part of human maturation and development.
It can also be exhausting.
For most of human history, we put up with the exhaustion of dealing with other people because there were other benefits to human interaction, from the commercial to the emotional to the physical to the, um, procreational, that could only be obtained through dealing with actual humans. One of the things that makes AI different is that it seems so very close to supplying approximations of both emotional and physical needs. Not the real thing, but perhaps close enough to scratch that itch. Rosie isn't Jane Jetson - and Rosie can't make a Judy or Elroy - but at a sufficiently high level of technological sophistication, perhaps the balance of tradeoffs seems to lean toward the robotic.
Leo XIV wrote that the risk of forming personal bonds with AI "is not so much that a person may believe they are communicating with another person, but rather that they may gradually lose the very desire to form genuine human connections." That's the thing.
That is what I see as riskiest: that we have the ability to escape into a virtual world of our own devising - one that is smooth, frictionless, unchallenging - and not have to deal with the messiness of other human lives. AI didn't invent this situation but, combined with smartphones and ubiquitous internet access, it does supercharge it. After a while, it's just easier to avoid humans altogether.
But saints are rarely formed in isolation. Moses was tending sheep in Midian, on the far side of the mountain. He was by himself. God spoke to him out of the burning bush: "Go to Pharaoh and tell him to let my people go." Do the hard thing. Deal with other people, both the Egyptians and the Hebrews. Enter into their messiness.
Moses did it. He led them out of Egypt.
And the people he led proved to be some of the most annoying people recorded in all of literature. They were truly awful; read Exodus. They were petty, selfish, resentful, ignorant, unappreciative, sullen. No Israelite ever said to Moses, "That's a great point!" or "You're very insightful!" They were the opposite of affirming or agreeable.
Moses wasn't perfect either. He was arrogant, vindictive, hot-headed, distrustful.
But that journey, with those people, made Moses who he became. Centuries later, to the absolute shock of three witnesses, Moses stood on a mountain with Jesus Christ, having a conversation. The trial of dealing with the Israelites, combined with being confronted by his own weaknesses, trained him and formed him. Perhaps that trial was what prepared him to have that special relationship with the incarnate Jesus in that later and unexpected time and place.
People need people, more than people need robots. People are annoying. So are we. And somehow putting up with annoying people, and other people putting up with us, is how we grow into the full stature of Christ.
Yours in Christ,
Fr. Joel
* It's also possible to program them to be less agreeable. That's fine, but the principle is the same: the agent you're interacting with is behaving according to the structures and processes that you define. "Be agreeable" and "be disagreeable" are just two different ways of the user dictating the actions of the agent. There is still no challenge, no vulnerability, no growth.
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