05/07/2026
El Roi: The One Who Sees Me - Genesis 16:1-16
God has always seen you and always will. One time, when my son was around 2 years old, he was playing in his room on the other side of the house, and I heard a little voice calling my name. At first, his little voice rang out in a usual sing-song way. I replied to his call, but he couldn't hear me. Then, a second time, he called out, this time a little less calm. Finally, I heard my name again, but this time it was a question. After that, I heard the little pitter-patter of bare feet running through the house with his voice raised, now shouting out for me. Coming to meet him, I saw a little boy with tears streaming down his face running into my arms. " I couldn't find you," he said. To which I replied, "I'm here. I've been here the whole time. I heard you every time you called my name."
The story of Haggar is remarkable. She had no say in her life. She wasn't even Jewish; she was an Egyptian handmaiden to Sarai. When Sarai couldn't give Abram a child, she gave her servant, Hagar, to Abram. When Sarai learned Hagar was pregnant, she was harsh and abused Hagar out of jealousy, which led to Hagar fleeing her mistress.
Young, seemingly alone and pregnant in the desert (no doubt in despair), Hagar is greeted by the Lord, and He asks where she was going. She explains her situation, and the Lord tells her to return to her mistress, but He also gives her a promise: “I will increase your descendants so much that they will be too numerous to count.” What a grand promise given by God to an Egyptian slave girl. To this, Hagar replies, “[ El Roi] You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “I have now seen the One who sees me.”
Often, we find ourselves in difficult, unfair situations where we feel alone and unseen. However, if the eyes of our Loving Father were on the life of this Egyptian girl, you can rest assured He is watching you. The words of my precious son have stayed with me all these years, as I have journeyed through my own deserts. Sometimes, fleeing what I felt was unfair. Our struggles and pain can tempt us to forget where God is, where He always is: with us. He didn’t go anywhere. He is the God who sees YOU.