07/12/2026
A couple of weeks ago, our son Mendel left for Belgium to spend his summer as a counselor in a Jewish day camp. Like so many young Chabad rabbis-in-training, he chose to use his vacation not simply to travel, but to serve others and help Jewish children grow in their Judaism. (I know—Belgium isn't a bad place to spend the summer either!)
When we spoke shortly after he arrived, one thing stood out immediately. He told me there were many visible demonstrations and symbols connected to the ongoing tensions in the Middle East. More than once, he and his friends were shouted at simply because they were visibly Jewish. Today, while visiting Amsterdam, they experienced even more hostile comments.
As a parent, it's never easy to hear that your child has been the target of hatred. But what filled me with pride wasn't what happened to Mendel. It was how he responded.
While sightseeing through Amsterdam, visiting historic sites, an old synagogue, and the Anne Frank House, Mendel and his friends noticed a Jewish man standing in a public square. They walked over, introduced themselves, and asked if he would like to put on tefillin, the small black leather boxes worn during weekday morning prayers as a way of strengthening our connection with G-d.
He happily agreed.
Afterward, they broke into song, singing Am Yisrael Chai—"The Jewish people live"—and began dancing together in the middle of the square.
Mendel sent me a video. In the background were Palestinian flags waving. In the foreground were young Jews smiling, singing, helping another Jew perform a mitzvah, and celebrating their shared heritage.
That image has stayed with me.
What do a group of teenagers do when they're given free time in one of Europe's great cities? They don't just look for the next tourist attraction. They look for another Jew to help perform one more mitzvah.
They are young men on a mission.
This week begins the period on the Jewish calendar known as the Three Weeks, when we remember the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem and the painful exile that followed. Our sages teach that the Second Temple was destroyed because of sinat chinam—baseless hatred between fellow Jews.
If baseless hatred helped bring about destruction, then its opposite must help bring about healing.
The antidote is ahavat chinam—baseless love.
It's choosing kindness even when it isn't expected.
It's caring about someone you've never met before.
It's reaching out to another Jew simply because they are family.
A pair of tefillin offered in a city square may seem like a small gesture, but it carries a profound message: "You matter. Your Judaism matters. We belong to one another."
That is what has always inspired me about Chabad's approach. The mission isn't simply to teach Judaism. It's to love another Jew enough to share it.
Perhaps that's also a lesson for all of us, whether or not we ever stop someone to put on tefillin.
Is there someone you can encourage this week? Someone who feels forgotten? Someone you've never really gotten to know? Can you do something kind simply because another person deserves to feel seen and cared for?
Hatred can be loud, but love has always proven stronger.
Every act of kindness, every mitzvah, every expression of Jewish pride helps bring a little more light into a world that desperately needs it.
May we each find opportunities this week to replace indifference with kindness, division with connection, and fear with faith. May our acts of love bring us one step closer to the day when peace is no longer an aspiration but a reality.
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