02/07/2026
Too often, we can’t give at the level we want, so we give up. Or we press on, but we’re weighed down with feelings of inadequacy all day.
We study the saints and we want to be like them. We want to make it to the parish for that holy hour in front of the Blessed Sacrament, go to daily Mass, give enough to the poor to change someone’s life, share faith with people…
All while doing adequate self care, working out, counting our calories…
All while getting our to-do’s done for today…
All while being as peaceful as possible for our families.
We want to hit all those goals, but we fall short.
Here’s my challenge: Be gentle with yourself.
Now, before you conclude “Chris is too soft!” Note: Jesus talked about what He was like one time in the bible and he only used two words to describe himself: “meek and humble of heart” (Matthew 11:29).
Scripture, prophesying about Him, said that he wouldn’t break a bruised reed. Think of a stalk of grain that’s bent in such a way that it can’t produce grain. It’s tapped out. It’s so on the edge of breaking that one hard step and it would never come back.
It also says that “a smoldering wick he will not s***f out” (Isaiah 42:3)—a candle that’s so close to going out that the slightest breath would kill what flame remains.
Jesus is all powerful, but gentle enough to keep that reed, and that flame, alive.
If there’s a voice inside of you that says “succeed or don’t bother,” that’s not the voice of the one spoken about in Isaiah 42:1–4 and Matthew 12:18–21.
If you only have five minutes to pray, don’t let your ideal of a holy hour this morning crush your spirit.
If you don’t know how to preach eloquently, share your faith anyway.
If you only have five dollars to give to the poor, start there.
Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
If you don’t have much to give…just bring HIM what you have. Just give what you got. That’s all He wants.
(I'm not sure who made this image originally, but I love it!)
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