06/03/2026
During Father Steve’s last Mass at St. Joseph, he spoke about the Most Holy Trinity and their relationship with one another. In the Trinity, we see that we are truly made for community. He says, “the Most Holy Trinity, they are constantly at work and in relationship, God the Father loves the Son, sacrificed His Son for salvation. God the Son loves the Father by His perfect obedience on the cross. And the Holy Spirit is a fruit, the expression of the love between the Father and the Son.” In the relationship among our God in three Persons, they set an example of what our relationships could look like. Father Steve highlights three main traits of a Trinitarian love: equality, sacrifice, and purpose.
In our relationships, does there always have to be a power dynamic, or is it possible to treat each other as equals with respect, dignity, and mutual love? We see this in the Trinity where the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit form an equal triangle. There is no hierarchy in the Trinity; they are all equal.
Another trait of Trinitarian love is sacrifice. “God, the Father's sacrifice, His most prized possession, is His only Begotten Son, right? And the Son obediently sacrifices Himself for our salvation, and the Holy Spirit is that advocate that constantly is at work in our lives.” Because it is through sacrifice, it is in denying ourselves, losing ourselves, that we are saying that it is not just about ourselves anymore. In losing ourselves, we are choosing to make space for another.
The third trait is purpose. What is the purpose of our relationships? It is to be disciples of Jesus. As we are perfectly loved by God, so are we called to love as He has loved us. Though we may not be perfect, the love that God sends through us is. In our faith, we are called to imitate the love of our Triune God in our relationships. So we ask ourselves, “What am I missing? What do I need to work on?” so that we can carry out God’s love for us and reveal it to others.
In your life, which relationships do you have that allow you to experience all three traits? Which ones need some more work?
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