24/02/2025
🍞Daily Bread🍷
_*The Discipline of Forbearance*_
*Ephesians 4:2*
*Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love*
Sometimes back I watched a video clip on social media. In the clip, a uniformed and armed soldier was being harassed and slapped by a civilian. Apparently, the soldier owed the civilian a few thousand shillings (worth less than 1USD). The civilian was so enraged and oblivious of the harm that the soldier could inflict on him if he chose to. And yet, the soldier quietly endured the embarrassment, pain and public ridicule without fighting back. Whether it was because of his professional discipline or not, I was astounded by his forbearance.
Forbearance is the quality of being patient and tolerant, especially when dealing with difficult or annoying people. It involves showing restraint and self-control, even when faced with provocation or adversity.
In the Bible, we see examples of forbearance in the lives of:
- Moses, who patiently endured the complaints and rebellions of the Israelites in the wilderness (Exodus 17:1-7).
- David, who refused to retaliate against King Saul, even when given the opportunity (1 Samuel 24:1-22).
- Jesus, who endured the cross, despising its shame, and prayed for His persecutors (Luke 23:34).
Forbearance is essential for daily living and interactions within and without the Christian community. It helps us to:
- Build stronger relationships by showing patience and understanding towards others.
- Avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes.
- Demonstrate the love and character of Christ, even in difficult situations.
- Grow in spiritual maturity and humility.
To cultivate forbearance, we can:
- Ask God to give us a heart of patience and love.
- Practice self-control and restraint in our daily interactions.
- Seek to understand and empathize with others, rather than reacting impulsively.
- Reflect on the examples of forbearance in the Bible and seek to apply them to our own lives.
Dear God, help me to cultivate the discipline of forbearance, that I may reflect Your love and character in all my interactions.
*Mitchell*
*CIC Mbalwa*