14/09/2026
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Master Jun Hong Lu:
Both attachment to good and attachment to evil are problematic. Why? Because even when your intention is good, if you become excessively fixated on doing something, that attachment itself makes your goodness incomplete. If a good thing is taken too far, it becomes an attachment; if a bad thing is taken too far, it is also an attachment. When people say, “You’re being a bit much,” it means you’ve crossed the line. Going overboard is never a good thing. You must understand this: attachment means going to extremes—insisting that things “must” be a certain way. With a good thing, you should know when to stop; with a bad thing, you should also know when to stop. That way, you never push things too far. This is what we call the “Middle Way.”
Whether it is your relationship with your parents or your children, don’t go overboard. Even when things go wrong, don’t let your reaction go overboard. If your parents treat you poorly, don’t let yourself hate them excessively—they may have their own hidden hardships and struggles. If your boss is difficult, they may have their own struggles, too. Everything that manifests in this world comes with its own set of difficulties. So, what does it matter? It’s no big deal. If you can stay open-minded and realise it doesn’t matter, then you’ll be fine. But if you can’t let go, you become attached to outcomes—insisting “I must do this.” For example, if you say, “I must go to the Western Pure Land of Ultimate Bliss,” does that mean you’ll actually get there? If you abandon everything right now—your home, your children, your parents—just because you’re obsessed with “getting there” before your time is up, that itself is an attachment. Whether you actually make it there is one thing, but the obsession itself is a hurdle.
Source: BPT Vol 5.18 Good and Evil Are Simply Forms of Cause and Effect (Excerpt)
卢军宏台长:
善和恶实际上都有执著,都是不好的。为什么善和恶的执著都是不好的呢?很简单,因你善念的时候,你一直想做某一件事情,你觉得我是很善良地去做,实际上这种执著就造成了你这个善良的不圆满。一个好事情如果过头了,它也叫执著;一个不好的事情过头了,也叫执著。“你这个人太怎么样了……”就是过分了、过头了,过分就是不好的。所以大家要明白这个道理。执著的意思就是过分了,“我一定要怎么样,一定要怎么样……”对某一个好事情,我是适可而止;我对某一个坏事情,我也是适可而止,你就永远不会把事情做得过分。这就是符合我们中国人讲的,叫“中庸之道”。对妈妈也好,对爸爸也好,对孩子也好,都不要太过分;对一个事情不好了,也不要过分。如果父母对自己不好的话,也不要过分地去恨他们,他们也有他们的苦衷。老板对你不好了,也有老板的苦衷。任何一个事情既然来到这个人间了,它们都有苦衷。有什么关系呢?无所谓的。想得开,无所谓,就没关系了。如果想不开,你把很多事情都执著了——这个事情我一定要做。举个简单例子,你说,“我一定要到西方极乐世界去”,你就能上去了吗?你现在把什么都抛开,“我就要到西方极乐世界去”,那你的家怎么办?你的孩子怎么办?你的父母怎么办?你所有拥有的一切在你还没有到要走的时候,你执著地说,“我要到西方极乐世界去”,去得成去不成暂且不说,这也是执著啊。
- 白话佛法5.18、善恶本来即属因果 (节选)
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