13/05/2020
May 14, 2020
Today's Gospel: John 15:9-17
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GOSPEL REFLECTION
Guide Question: Is the love I know and understand the same love Jesus speaks about?
Jesus taught us to “Love one another”, a simple yet very precise commandment. Though seemingly easy, I find this commandment difficult to adhere. Difficulty comes when the person is “unlovable”. How can I love my enemies, indifferent officemates, blabbering neighbors. But then again, as Jesus said simply, love one another - no exceptions, no biases.
It took me sometime to embrace fully Jesus’ commandment. Until one day, an officemate of mine started talking behind my back. This bothers me greatly, that I told our Human Resource Officer of this nuisance officemate. This issue becomes bigger and was even escalated to our Legal Officer. It was nearly Christmas then when the incident happened. Oddly, all I could hear over the FM radio that time is the song “give love on Christmas day”. One night, as I was reflecting over the issue, I prayed to God, Lord how can I give love or how can I love the person I hate, in short unlovable. It really pains me to love somebody who caused me ache and discomfort.
But God is so amazing, that He made me realized, that I too once, twice, or so many times, became unlovable too. But God did not question my being “unlovable”. He continued to laud me with so many blessings: good health, family and even my career despite of who I am.
One morning, as I was heading to the office, I happened to see this officemate of mine. Heading towards where she stands, I prayed. Lord, allow me to love this unlovable person, the way you love me when I was once unlovable too. When I stopped at her, I have come to realized that my hatred was gone.
The gospel reminded me that loving one another, lovable or unlovable, is not difficult at all.
Belinda Abalunan
YFC DavNor Provincial Couple Coordinator