17/05/2026
Word for Every Day, May 17, 2026
And Jabez was more honorable than his brethren: and his mother called his name Jabez, saying, because I bore him with sorrow. And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me! And God granted him that which he requested
(I Chron. 4:9-10).
Like a beautiful gem, the Lord drops this glorious testimony in the midst of these genealogies. In Jewish culture of old, it was the mother who usually named the child that was born. The name "Jabez" means “sorrow," which evidently pertained to the fact that something very grievous had happened in this family; consequently, Jabez, like untold millions, was born into a situation over which he had no control and which spelled hurt for him.
Most children never climb out over a negative childhood. In other words, if they are abused at an early age, it scars them for life. In fact, only the Lord can address such a problem, thereby turning bitter waters into sweet. So Jabez had two strikes against him even before he began, as do most in the world.
But Jabez turned to the one Source Who could change the situation, and it was God. Beautifully enough, that privilege is available to every human being in the world, that is, if they will only take advantage of its potential. There is nothing that the Lord cannot change. In fact, the very First Miracle that Jesus performed in His earthly Ministry was the changing of the water to wine at the marriage feast of Cana (Jn. 2:1-11). The Holy Spirit designed this in order that all may know and understand that despite adverse circumstances, or how bad they might be, the Lord Jesus Christ, as He changed the water wine at Cana, can change any situation, if men will only call on Him and believe Him (Mk. 9:23).
All too often, however, men look to other men for help and get what help man can provide, which is little or nothing. If we call on God, as stated, there is nothing that He cannot change, nothing that He cannot do.
The prayer of Jabez was as follows:
1. "Bless me": We learn from all of this that the Lord desires that we ask Him to bless us, and in every capacity. In fact, He is a blessing God. He wants to bless financially, domestically, physically, and, above all, spiritually. We have but to ask Him!
2. "Enlarge my coast": The word "coast" actually means "border." In other words, Jabez was asking the Lord to get him out of this problem into which he had been born. Most people never break out of that which imprisons them, because they look to all the wrong sources. Only the Lord can enlarge your borders. He only waits for you to ask Him!
3. “That Your hand might be with me": The way this is given speaks of the Right Hand of God, which is the Hand of blessing and power. It can be judgment or it can be blessing. For Jabez it was blessing, because Jabez put his trust in the Lord. If you will put your trust in the Lord, it will be blessing, as well, for God is no respecter of persons.
4. “That You would keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me": This, in effect, is the same prayer that Jesus told all of us to pray when He said, "And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil" (Mat. 6:13). Actually, all the "blessing" depended on Jabez being kept from evil, which the Lord Alone could do. Jabez realized that, within himself, he could not bring about this place and position of freedom from evil. But the Lord could bring it about, and the Lord did.
As Believers, if we are to have the "Blessing of Jabez," we must, at the same time, depart from all evil, which can be done only in Christ and our Faith in what He did for us at the Cross (Rom. 6:3-5).
The Bible plainly tells us that "God granted him that which he requested." He will do the same for anyone who, as Jabez, will dare to believe Him.
That means that you can pray the prayer of Jabez. The Lord, in fact, had it placed here that we might follow suit; however, He buried it in these genealogies in order that only the hungry and the thirsty would find it.
Believe the Lord, and allow Him to prove Himself to you, exactly as He did to Jabez so long ago!
The Expositor's Word for Every Day. Baton Rouge, LA: World Evangelism Press, 2005