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Grade11 and Grade12 HUMSSCanan High SchoolEHSVEC
19/09/2024

Grade11 and Grade12 HUMSS
Canan High School
EHSVEC

18/09/2024

Proverbs 18:21
Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof


Your speech will either help or hurt you (Pr 10:14; 12:14; 13:2-3; 18:6-7,23). If you are older, it already has! Many have ruined their lives by not ruling their mouths. Others have been honored for their kind and wise tongues. Your speech will bring either blessing or cursing from both God and men, in both time and eternity. Do you love good speech or bad speech? Your future will be impacted heavily by your choice and habit.

A tongue can kill or save others’ lives. A false witness can cause the death of an innocent man, or a comforter can restore a dejected man by an uplifting word. A slanderer can kill the reputation of a good man, or a wise counselor can guide a young man through the dangers of youth. A seducing woman can ruin a man’s life, or a godly mother can teach her children the truth. Speech definitely affects others, but that is not the lesson here.

The tongue also affects speakers. The death and life in the power of the tongue are the effects of your speech on yourself. You learn this by the second clause, which teaches that those loving their use of the tongue will eat either the fruit of death or life. You also know this by the context, for the previous proverb reads, “A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled” (Pr 18:20).

Consider the love of speech, which is a key in this proverb. Even evil men can say good things when it is to their greedy purposes to do so, and good men slip from time to time and say things they should not (Pr 23:6-8; Eccl 10:1). But only good men truly love good speech, and only evil men truly love evil speech. The law of the proverb is based on what kind of speech you love – the speech you commit your heart, mouth, and habits toward.

When you see a man failing in life, he likely did not rule his tongue. You can see the failure in his marriage(s), with his children, and in his profession. Criticism and harshness cost him affection. Exaggerations and extreme words cost him trust. Complaining and whining cost him influence. Arrogance and disrespect of authority cost him promotions. Too many words cost him listeners. Backbiting and talebearing cost him respect. Foolishness and jesting cost him honor. Unkept promises made him a liar. He is ruined.

He committed su***de with his tongue! He ate the fruit of death! He used the power of his tongue to his own destruction. He would not rule his spirit or teach his tongue wisdom (Pr 16:23; 25:28). Therefore, both God and men punished him for his verbal folly. God turned to be his enemy, and men avoided him and cut him out of their friendships and profitable endeavors. He used the power of his tongue to his own destruction and death.

Other men rise like cream to the top, because they rule their speech. They limit words (Pr 10:19; 17:27-28). They use gentleness rather than bluster (Pr 15:1; 25:15). They speak only the certain words of truth (Pr 22:17-21). They never talk against a man not present (Pr 16:28; 26:20-22). They study and think before speaking (Pr 15:28). They are always thankful. They seldom speak up unless asked (Pr 18:13; 29:11; Jas 1:19). Their gracious speech wins the hearts of men and women – they are soon friends with the king (Pr 16:13; 22:11). They are a tree of life to others and to themselves (Pr 10:11; 13:3; 15:4).

When a woman is a failure, she likely did not rule her tongue. Harsh and critical speech, nagging reminders, snotty retorts, or constant suggestions destroyed her husband’s affection – she killed her marriage. Her children cannot wait to get out of the house, because the overbearing and continual criticism is too much to bear. She is odious! She has no friends, because everyone hates an odious woman. She committed marital, domestic, and social su***de with her tongue. She ate the fruit of death. She is dead.

A gracious woman is always honored (Pr 11:16). The rule is simple and absolute – a woman that rules her tongue will have many friends and a glorious reputation. She has the law of kindness in her mouth, and she only speaks when she has something wise and important to say (Pr 31:26). She never speaks to hear herself talk, to offer trivialities, to correct minor details, or to make sure she contributes more than others in a group. She has a meek and quiet spirit – one that hates talking without a noble purpose (I Pet 3:3-4).

Young man, learn sound speech before it is too late. Keep company only with gracious and wise men, who rule their mouths. Reject every man with a foolish and loud mouth. Learn Solomon’s wisdom about teaching your lips (Pr 4:24; 6:12; 8:13; 10:31-32; 15:28; 16:23). You can greatly enhance your future by learning good speech for all occasions.

Young woman, you should learn and practice the same things. If you do not, you will have difficulty finding a man that will ruin his life by marrying you. An odious woman is a terrifying threat to men, and a young man can discover you with his ears. You must despise idle chatter, giggling, foolish talking, opinionated debate, or other odious traits.

Old man, you are already eating the fruit of your mouth. The only hope you have is to confess your sins of speech to God and men, speak only gracious and wise words when asked, and beg God for the wisdom and strength to rule your unruly tongue. Learn Paul’s advice for you to be sober and grave, so cut out jesting and foolish talking (Tit 2:1).

Old woman, you have likely scarred your husband’s heart. And your children, while not telling you, rejoice when they can get away from you or end a phone conversation. How many crave your presence and pursue conversation with you? If the number is low, you have a speech problem. Follow the advice given to the old man and trust God for mercy.

Reader, your words will bring death or life in this world and the next. Jesus said, “But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned” (Matt 12:36-37). Death and life are in your tongue. Choose life!

17/09/2024

Proverbs 17:18
A man void of understanding striketh hands, and becometh surety in the presence of his friend.


Impulsive risk takers are fools. Without thinking, they make financial commitments they should not make. Puffed up by pride, they want to appear wealthier than they are. Shortsighted, they cannot see that promises made today may be more than they can pay tomorrow. In order to impress friends, they co-sign loans or guarantee performance in other ways. Wise men seek to reduce risk, but these pompous fools do not understand.

Striking hands was the custom of shaking hands to confirm a man’s commitment, though often it was simply clasping or gripping another’s hand. The striking or shaking verbs are extraneous to the act – a hand of one person is touched solidly to the hand of another person to establish a transaction or promise an intention. In the context of this proverb, the hands are clasped to guarantee financial backing for a friend with poor credit.

A surety is a guarantor. The fool guaranteed his friend’s debts by shaking the creditor’s hand and promising to pay if the friend does not. Though the lender would not accept the friend’s assets or character, the financial fool boldly flaunted his economic power to complete the deal. Many wives and children have learned too late that family assets and future income were promised to another in just such a hasty moment of financial folly.

Helping a friend in need with a little financial backing is one thing. Over-committing by taking on excessive contingent liabilities is another. An appeal from a lazy friend and proud thoughts of closing a deal can form a powerful temptation. Solomon warned his son about losing his bed from such deals (Pr 22:26-27). He told his son to get out of such commitments with the desperation of a deer trying to escape from a hunter or a bird from a fowler (Pr 6:1-5). Co-signing is a great financial danger (Pr 11:15; 20:16; 27:13).

Many politicians and governments violate this simple rule. Wise men reduce financial risk and minimize contingent liabilities. But men running for office are sorely tempted to promise great things. How else can they buy votes? Since they cannot bribe each voter, they instead promise future benefits to each voter, even though the total cost of such benefits is financially and/or politically impossible. They are either run out of office for not keeping their promises, or they resort to deficit spending to fulfill their obligations.

The lesson is simple. Do not co-sign loans, unless the amount is small, the situation desperate, and it is for a real need. Other lessons are evident. Hate debt. Reduce risk. Stay insured. Avoid contracts. Fear leases. Limit promises. Love cash. Hate credit. Exalt savings. Maximize your credit rating. Warn your friends against borrowing.

Consider the greatest story of a surety (guarantor) in the universe. God was the creditor. Sinners were the debtors, and they could not pay or buy their freedom. God’s holy nature required they each die and spend eternity in the debtor’s prison of the lake of fire. But a Prince stepped forward and promised to pay for them. Did He mean it? Yes! How? By dying for them! “By so much was Jesus made a surety of a better testament” (Heb 7:22).

Reader, you are a sinner deep in debt to Almighty God. If Jesus is not surety for you to guarantee your righteousness to God, then you will pay for your sins in eternal torment (Rev 20:10-15). Run to Jesus Christ and beg for Him to be your surety by repenting of your sins, believing on Him as the Son of God and only surety for sinners, and doing what He requires to make your salvation sure (Matt 7:21; II Pet 1:5-11; I Thess 1:2-4).

16/09/2024

Proverbs 16:25
There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Every man thinks his way is right, because it feels right and seems right. But God warns that such thoughts lead to death. Most men love their opinions too much to change, even if the Bible condemns their ideas and thoughts as sinful and self-destructive. There is only one criterion for truth and wisdom, and that is the will of God revealed in the Bible.

Reader, you have strong opinions of how life should be lived and things done. Your thoughts that seem so right come from parents, habits, culture, teachers, friends, religion, various media, experiences, and most of all, your deceitful heart and wicked imagination (Gen 6:5; Jer 17:9). But these sources, far apart from divine truth, all lead to your death.

The first clause describes one way of one man. This is a man’s personal opinion about a particular matter. He is confident his opinion is good and right, because he came up with the idea and has enormous bias to justify himself and defend his thinking. He has thought about the issue, and he is comfortable and quite content with his thinking on the matter.

The second clause describes the end, or result, of one way of one man to be the plural ways of death. There are many ways men can die, and each man’s own arrogant thinking is able to get him there easily and surely. When the foolish ideas of individual men are combined, they result in plural ways of death. Learn to hate your thoughts (Ps 119:113).

Because every man is very vulnerable to arrogant thinking and errors, Solomon repeated this proverb to emphasize the value of its lesson (Pr 14:12; Phil 3:1). He also included several proverbs with different wording for a similar lesson (Pr 12:15; 16:2; 21:2; 28:26). He knew you would foolishly think your ideas are noble and wise. Humble yourself now.

A wise man learns not to trust his own thinking and to seek God’s will on every matter (Pr 3:5-6). He then avoids the world’s seductive ways that lead to death (Pr 12:26; Ps 1:1-6). He humbly confesses his ignorance, prays for God to search his heart and thoughts, and judges every opinion by clear Bible doctrine (Pr 30:2-3; Ps 139:23-24; 119:128).

Self-deceit is blinding and damning. It leads you to destruction, but you cannot detect you have lied to yourself, because you are in love with your thoughts (Pr 18:2; 26:12,16). No one can give reasons to persuade you, because their ideas are inferior to yours. And once you commit yourself to a course of action, you are too proud to admit any error (Ps 36:2).

Popular thinking on matters of truth and wisdom is always wrong. The majority is in love with themselves and each other, but God considers their most noble thoughts to be an abomination (Luke 16:15). He plainly declared that most men take the wide gate and broad way to destruction; only a few take the strait gate and narrow way to life (Matt 7:13-14). God knows the thoughts of men are vanity – worthless trash (Ps 94:11), and you should think the same of them – whether your own or another man’s (Ps 119:113).

King Saul of Israel had an idea, and it seemed right. Instead of slaughtering and wasting all the good animals of the Amalekites, he would allow the people to keep them for an offering to Jehovah. But Jehovah had already stated they were to be slaughtered. So Samuel the prophet condemned his thinking as witchcraft and idolatry (I Sam 15:1-35).

Saul of Tarsus thought with himself to do many things contrary to Jesus of Nazareth (Acts 26:9). Notice that he thought with himself, which is the sin of this proverb, because he had no internal check on false thoughts. You need an outside opinion that is perfectly right to correct your thinking, and God’s will in the Bible is perfect (Ps 119:128; Is 8:20).

The Bible is a fabulous gift from God to His children, for it contains the true wisdom of the infinitely wise God. You can correct all your evil and foolish thinking by learning what the Bible teaches on every subject. It is able to make the man of God perfect (II Tim 3:16-17). It can lead you through any difficulty (Ps 119:105). It is pure truth and wisdom.

After using the Bible as your first standard for right thinking, your next safeguard is to consult wise and successful men. There is safety from your vain ideas in a multitude of wise counselors (Pr 11:14; 12:15; 15:22). But only a few men are humble and wise enough to subject their ideas and opinions to the examination and criticism of others.

Men have ideas that seem right to add to God’s word. These rules make their worship vain (Matt 15:7-9). It does not matter if the rules are conservative or liberal, or how romantic the concept. Paul condemned anything outside God’s word, because God rejects all inventions (Rom 14:1-6; Col 2:16-23). The kingdom of God is righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost, not a better idea from a creative Christian (Rom 14:17-18).

Where are the great men of God, who will accept nothing but what is clearly laid out in Holy Scripture? Where are the men who will accept only the old paths of the faith once delivered to the saints (Jer 6:16; Jude 1:3)? Where are the men who listen closely for correction from the Holy Spirit through His word, “This is the way, walk ye in it” (Is 30:21)? Where are the men who will reject and crush all efforts to add to God’s word?

Reader, do you think you have the way to heaven figured out? Does your church seem right because it is beautiful, large, or growing? There is only one way to heaven, and it is the Lord Jesus Christ apart from any man, priest, pope, or system. He said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me” (John 14:6).

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