30/10/2024
XTalkInspired01: "SINGLENESS."
Yes, I Know the struggle โบ. Ilang beses ka na bang natanong ng mga ganito? "Bakit ka Single?", "Wala ka pa bang boyfriend/Girlfriend?", "Lumalagpas ka na sa kalendaryo, di ka pa ba mag aasawa?" and I know it is very toxic, minsan pa nga nakaka irita na pero minsan nalulungkot ka at mapapa tanong na lang, "Bakit nga kaya?"
Here are some of the reasons why singles chose to stay single.
1. Single people have major priorities in life na hindi na nila ma sisingit na magka relasyon pa. Ito yung mga single na independent. YOLO type tsaka yung mas importante ang ibang bagay kaysa sa jowa, Kontento na sila na maayos ang family, work at lalong lalo na pag financially literate ka pa. โบ You worked so hard, deserve mo maging masaya kahit single ka.
2. Choosy yung iba. Don't make me wrong, we all want the best person for us just as the Lord wants us a worthy person to have kaya choose wisely kaso sadyang yung iba, talagang iba din ang hinahanap. Huwag mataas masyado ang standard, ipanalangin mo. Mas masarap mag mahal pag bunga ng panalangin.
3. Ayaw lang talaga. Ito yung mga taong nag daan na sa madaming heartbreaks kaya ayaw na mag ulit kasi tingin nila pare parehas lang silang mapanakit pero sana wag po lahatin, I met good men and women that deserves our love. โบ Remember, the Lord is so close to those who are heartbroken. Psalm 34:18, โThe Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.โ
4. Walang nanliligaw kahit ready na. In this season na wala pang nagkaka interest sayo, focus on building your character, your dreams, your hobbies and especially in serving the Lord. Matthew 6:33 says "Seek God above all else." His love is right. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and don't forget the promise in the verse's final portion: and all these things shall be added unto you." Wag kang mag madali, wala ngayon? Malay mo next year or sa mga susunod na taon. God is giving you time to extend and share your love to Him, to His church, to your family, to your job and all that is within you. Self love also is good, mas makikilala mo ang sarili mo pag mag single ka and when the perfect person comes in, masasabi mo ng ready ka because the Lord molded you as a strong and worthy person to be loved and to love.
5. Strict si Mama at Papa. Aba syempre! -- shout out nga po sa mga kabataan diyan. AGAIN, DON'T MAKE ME WRONG AND DON'T BASH ME. As a young adult, malinaw saakin why the parents don't want their children to be in relationship (BF/GF) during their youth kasi mapusok ang kabataan. Hello? Ilaan mo po muna oras mo sa pag aaral. Being a kabataan, napakadaming distractions at isa na diyan ang being in a relationship tapos di pa nakapag tapos? AGAIN DI KO NILALAHAT pero marami rami kasing mga kabataan na napapariwara ng landas kasi mas inuuna mga jowa nila bago pag aaral. Hindi nagpapagod ang magulang mo para sayangin mo oras mo na mag focus sa jowa mo, Okay? Do your part as their child din naman, they just want a better life for you. Sa mga kabataan naman na may relasyon na? Hiwalayan niyo na--- char! Haha. AS LONG AS you are on track sa studies? Di mo nakakaligtaan ang mga trabaho at roles mo sa family/bahay? Di naapektuhan ang ministry, grades, mental, physical and spiritual aspects? At may good motives kayong dalawa? Pwede basta alam ninyo ang limitationa but focus still to your priorities. โค
Madami pang reasons pero ito muna ma shashare ko. Ladies and gentlemen, HINDI KASALANAN MAGING SINGLE, TANDAAN MO YAN. We are privileged to serve the people with all that we have, mahalin ang kapwa, do ministry with the Lord, focus on your goals, be happy and be ready. Let me leave you this very inspiring verse,
Isaiah 43:4
Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for you.
YOU ARE PRECIOUS IN THE EYES OF THE LORD, Wala kang rason para mag "SanaOl" kapag may mga kasama kang taken, the right man will come at the right place. Pray and wait for it. Kung wala ka namang balak mag asawa, okay lang maging single as long as you are doing your ultimate goal in life---Serve the Lord, the people and be happy..
I AM PROUD TO BE SINGLE! โค
Shalom and God bless you! โค๐