14/07/2026
Kapag hindi nade-deal ang lust habang single ka pa, malaki ang posibilidad na dadalhin mo rin ito sa marriage.
Marami ang nag-aakala na, “Okay lang ’to. Kapag kasal na ako at may legal na akong partner, mawawala rin naman ’yung lust.” Pero hindi gano’n ang nangyayari.
Marriage doesn’t automatically heal a heart that was never surrendered to God.
Kaya nga marami kang maririnig na testimonies ng mga married couples na akala nila mawawala ang p**n addiction o lust issues pagkatapos ng kasal. Pero ang nangyari, mas lumala pa. Kasi ang problema hindi kakulangan ng s*x. Ang problema ay puso na nasanay maghanap ng counterfeit satisfaction.
Nung single pa ako, ginawa kong commitment sa Panginoon na maging malaya sa p**nography. Hindi naging madali, pero by God’s grace, almost 2–3 years akong p**n-free bago kami ikasal.
At sobrang grateful ako sa Diyos dahil ngayon, nae-enjoy namin ng wife ko ang intimacy nang hindi kailangan ng p**n sa buhay.
Minsan sasabihin ng mundo, “Kailangan mong manood ng p**n para matuto ka sa s*x.” That is not true.
P**n is not education. It is distortion. It will lead you to destruction.
It teaches selfishness instead of selfless love. Performance instead of covenant. Fantasy instead of faithfulness.
Ang s*x ay hindi ginawa ng Diyos para maging entertainment. It was made sacred, and as an expression ng pagmamahalan ng mag-asawa sa loob ng covenant ng marriage. (Hebrews 13:4)
Kung gusto mong magkaroon ng healthy marriage someday, huwag mong hintaying kasal ka na bago labanan ang lust.
Fight it now.
Flee from it.
Honor God now.
Train your eyes, your mind, and your heart now.
Because the purity you pursue today becomes one of the greatest gifts you can bring to your future spouse.
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8)
Are you willing to pursue purity for God, and for yourself, and for your future family?
PS: I am extending my Discipleship group. Schedule is Sunday, 2 pm at CCF Center. If you want to be mentored, comment "mentor" and I'll send you a message.
