23/08/2026
"The family is the holistic Church. And if that family is broken, then the Church of Jesus is also broken."
Today, Fr. Dennis speaks to us about a reality that affects us all—the state of our families and, consequently, the state of our Church. Why do we see so many challenges in the Church today? Because the Church is composed of families. And when families are broken, the Church suffers.
We see fathers and mothers who are absent from their children's lives. We see parents who are physically present but emotionally unavailable. The result is a lack of guidance for the young. Children grow up without proper direction, without a strong foundation of faith and values.
Many people today shy away from commitment. They do not want to get married in the Church. They prefer a wedding with many guests, but they are not married in the eyes of God. This leads to an easy way out—when problems arise, relationships are easily broken. Marriage contracts are torn apart without a second thought.
Fr. Dennis observes that many only seek happiness and pleasure. But when sacrifice is required, when the Church's teachings demand something from them, they abandon their faith. This leads to a life of emptiness, sometimes even leading to drugs and other destructive behaviors.
But why does the Church continue despite all of this? Because Jesus Himself established it. He built His Church on Peter, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. However, the family is the domestic Church. When the family is broken, the Church is weakened.
The father is the pillar of the home, and the mother is the light. Fr. Dennis laments the presence of "kabits" and infidelity that destroy the family. The family is the holistic Church. If the family is broken, the Church is broken.
Yet, Fr. Dennis expresses gratitude for couples who remain faithful and intact despite the challenges. They prepare their relationship with respect, nurture, care, and a vision for the future. They endure hardships and do not give up. Their example is a beacon of hope.
The Lessons We Carry:
First, marriage is a vocation. It is not just a contract but a sacred calling. It requires commitment, acceptance, and listening. Fr. Dennis reminds us that God gave us two ears and one mouth. If you cup your hands over your ears, it forms the shape of a heart. This means that when we truly listen, the words enter our hearts. Listening is an act of love.
Second, our words must bring life. Our mouths should speak blessings and loving words. We are called to build each other up, not tear each other down. A home filled with kind words is a home filled with God's presence.
Third, do not give up. Despite the challenges, we must not surrender. Marriage and family life are not easy. They require sacrifice, patience, and grace. But with God at the center, every struggle can be overcome.
Let us honor our families. Let us build our homes on the foundation of faith, love, and commitment. Let us listen to one another, speak words of blessing, and never give up on our vocation. For a strong family means a strong Church. And a strong Church brings glory to God.
Happy Sunday! 💚