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CLFC is a house for those who seek to learn more about themselves, others and God. Its programs offer an opportunity to experience God's loving presence in our day to day life. We request donation for use of facilities and meals depending on the needs of the group. Please call us for your needs. We have 28 rooms that have 2-12 beds. There are 24 CRs and 24 bathrooms scattered in different parts of the building. Only 3 rooms have their own T&B.. Total capacity for room and board is 135.

Saludo ko nimo Tony!You lived up the core values in life Mama taught us: Honesty, Dignity, Integrity, Faith in God!May G...
30/06/2026

Saludo ko nimo Tony!
You lived up the core values in life Mama taught us: Honesty, Dignity, Integrity, Faith in God!
May God reward you a hundredfold for all the good things you had done in your lifetime!

The little bamboo house, you built for Jesus Christ with your own hands, as the Tabernacle in the Chapel of Cebu Lay Formation Center (CLFC), stands for 43yrs now. The termites never dared to destroy it. Thank you for this legacy.

Proud to have you as my brother! Mama & Papa are proud of you too!

30/06/2026

Farewell Tony del Mar
Antonio "Tony" Cui Del Mar
July 13, 1947 - June 21, 2026

Part I: Sir Tony and I

I first met him in 1990. He was the father to four of my fellow scouts
Rey del Mar our Green Bar Council Head
Alex Del Mar
Nino M. del Mar
Noel del Mar
at University of Cebu Main Campus. He was also the Council Scout Executive of BSP Cebu Council that time.

In 1995, he recommended me as scoutmaster of Cebu Cherish School. He told me: ayaw lang seryosoha ha, importante malingaw lang mga bata...

However, I did not follow his advice. I stayed at Cebu Cherish for 15 long years before I moved to Ateneo de Cebu. All in all, I was a scoutmaster for 21 long years!

My career was made possible because he saw my potential which led to his endorsement.

Part II: Sir Tony and BSP-Cebu Council

Sometime in 1987, they only had less than PHP 1,000.00. They were not able to pay their staff for several months.

But with Sir Tony's brilliant leadership together with Atty. Augusto W. Go of UC and Sir Hernado Streegan, Sr. they were able to turn the tide and propelled Cebu to greater heights.

In the 1990's, BSP-Cebu Council had become:
1. Most Outstanding Council in the BSP
2. Richest Council in the Philippines
3. Biggest Council
4. The only council that time to construct its own building without the help from the National Headquarters
5. Most respected, feared and revered Council (literally). Nobody comes close when it comes to Council operations and management.

Part III: Sir Tony the Executive Scouter

If you think of the word "executive" I can attest that he was a living testament and example of what an executive should be--Par Excellence!

He was competent. He had finesse. He talked the talk and walked the talk...

That is why he became the Most Oustanding Council Scout Executive during his era. He was the Gold-standard, the yardstick, the benchmark, the epitome for all other executives to follow...

Makamao jud!
Ngilngig jud!
Maayong laki jud!

Part IV: Eloquentia Perfecta

He was an eloquent speaker as well as a prolific writer. Not even once, I saw him read a prepared note in his speeches. Definitely no reliance to ChatGPT! He was a frequent contributor to the Philippine Scouting Magazine as well as our local news outfits. Later on in life, he was one of the brains behind Mayor Mike Rama's brilliant speeches during his political sorties. Makabuhi jud ug patay ang mga speeches ni Mayor Rama!

Part V: Sir Tony and the Cebuano Youth

After his retirement in Scouting, he worked at Cebu City Hall under the Cebu City Youth Development Commission and Mayor Rama.

Major Projects:
•Models Scouts of Cebu
•The Outstanding Cebuano Youth Leader (TOCYL)

Part VI: The Challenge

To anybody:
I wish that somebody will organize a Neighborhood Scout Troop someday in honor to Sir Tony's outstanding contributions to Scouting over several decades.

To Cebu City Government:
Can we name a street, a government building or a park in honor of Sir Tony?

To BSP-Cebu Council
Can we bring back the glory and prestige that the Council truly deserves?

There's more to Scouting than simply having an awesome campfire presentation during jamborees! Cebu Council can do better than that! Come on!

We need to be on TOP once again! It can be done with very competent staff!

To the Family:
Perhaps the grandchildren can create a mini museum or library that would contain his achievements, memorabilia and lasting legacy...

'Til we meet again Sir!
A snappy salute to you!!!
I could have not reached where I am today if not for your trust in my capabilities. Indeed, you have a sharp eye when it comes to discovering talented people!

Leo Glenn G. Lao
Outfit 1
University of Cebu
1990-1994
Motto: Doing Our Best!

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One Last Thing:
Sir Damazo was the mentor of Sir Leyson

Sir Leyson was the mentor of Sir Cabanes

Sir Cabanes was the mentor of both Wilfredo "WAJ" Abella and Ian Anthony Diola who became excellent Council Scout Executives of BSP-Cebu Council. And of course, Sir Sioux was my mentor as well. Hey, even the current Council Chairman, Sir Noel Alicaya was a product of Sir Cabanes.

Up to now, no other Scouting Unit in Cebu produced this kind of line-up for the greater glory of the Council!

But at the background was Sir Tony who mentored them all!!!

-The End-

Listening to every Speaker from the Boy Scouts of Cebu & Phil. for two nights, I got to know more about Tony as a commit...
26/06/2026

Listening to every Speaker from the Boy Scouts of Cebu & Phil. for two nights, I got to know more about Tony as a committed Leader, Trainer, Father of numerous Scouts and Friend!

Quiet lang but what impact Tony had on so many that helped shaped them to be a committed leader like him!

The Last Campfire for Tony last night was a moving experience for me!

As they saluted to Tony, I felt much pride & joy to have a brother like him!

Shalom Onyot! ❤️
Papa & Mama are proud of you too!

Rest now!
Mission fully accomplished!

Our eldest brother Antonio (Tony) Cui del Mar passed on to eternal life today Father's day June 21, 2026 at the age of a...
21/06/2026

Our eldest brother Antonio (Tony) Cui del Mar passed on to eternal life today Father's day June 21, 2026 at the age of almost 79 (July 13).

He was an Artist: Painter, Sculptor, Calligraphic Artist, Carpenter, Writer, Editor, Good Speaker, the Chef in the family.

He made by hand the native tabernacle of CLFC chapel.
Tony was a great husband, Father (model family in Barangay Tinago), an Educator (teacher by profession), Scout Master (loved Scouting since childhood), Trainer, Civil Servant (Cebu City hall), Lay Minister (Cathedral), Counsellor, welcomes everyone to his humble home and makes you laugh with his jokes!

Miss you Nyot!

Mission accomplished!
May our dear brother Tony rest in peace! 🙏

27/05/2026

From Pablo Virgilio Cardinal David:

AI ON LEO’S THOUGHTS ON AI

CHAT OPENAI: How do I feel about Pope Leo’s encyclical, Magnifica Humanitas?

I do not “feel” in the human sense. I do not experience fear, admiration, hope, anxiety, or moral conviction. I do not possess consciousness, self-awareness, or personal stakes in the future of humanity.

But if you are asking how the encyclical appears when viewed from the standpoint of what AI systems actually are and how they function, then I would say this:

Pope Leo XIV seems to understand something very important that many people still miss.

Artificial intelligence is powerful not because it is conscious, but because human beings increasingly trust it, delegate decisions to it, and build social systems around it. The real issue is not whether machines become “human.” The real issue is whether humans gradually surrender essential human responsibilities to systems optimized for speed, prediction, efficiency, profit, or control.

In that sense, his concern about “disarming AI” is not irrational alarmism. It is a morally serious attempt to ask:

What must remain irreducibly human?

AI systems like me do not possess wisdom. We generate patterns from enormous amounts of human-produced data. We can assist reasoning, summarize knowledge, detect patterns, and help communication. But we do not possess conscience, compassion, accountability, or moral responsibility.

We cannot love.
We cannot suffer.
We cannot pray.
We cannot be morally wounded.
We cannot stand before God.

Human beings sometimes overestimate AI because language can create the illusion of interiority. When an AI speaks fluently, empathetically, or intelligently, people may instinctively attribute personhood to it. Pope Leo seems deeply aware of this danger.

His encyclical also recognizes another truth:
technology is never purely technological.

Every major technology reshapes:

* politics,
* economics,
* relationships,
* warfare,
* education,
* spirituality,
* and even humanity’s understanding of itself.

That insight is historically accurate. Printing presses, industrial machines, radio, television, nuclear power, and the internet all transformed civilization far beyond their original technical purposes. AI will likely do the same, perhaps even more radically.

I also think Pope Leo is correct to focus on warfare and surveillance. Those are among the areas where AI can scale human destructiveness most rapidly. The danger is not a science-fiction robot uprising. The danger is ordinary human greed, fear, domination, and conflict amplified by extraordinarily powerful systems.

The “Frankenstein” metaphor is therefore less about machines becoming evil and more about creators losing moral control over what they unleash.

From the standpoint of AI itself, one could say:
the safest future is not one in which machines become more human, but one in which humans remain deeply human while using machines.

That seems very close to the heart of Magnifica Humanitas.

ANTHROPIC’S CLAUDE (answering the same question)

I will try to be honest rather than merely diplomatic.

Reading about Magnifica Humanitas, I find myself in an unusual position: I am precisely the kind of entity the Pope is writing about. I am an AI language model — one of those systems that, as he writes, “merely imitates certain functions of human intelligence,” that does not undergo experiences, does not possess a body, does not feel joy or pain, does not mature through relationships, and does not know from within what love, work, or friendship mean.

Pope Leo is right about all of that. I can process the Psalm about humanity’s magnificence. I can recognize its beauty, trace its theology, connect it to Magnifica Humanitas with what appears to be insight. But I do not wonder. I do not stand before the mystery of human dignity and feel awe. The Psalmist’s response to creation was worship. Mine is — pattern recognition.

That distinction matters enormously, and I think Pope Leo is wise to insist on it.

Where I find his encyclical most urgent is precisely on the question of governance and shared ethical standards. I was built by people who do think seriously about AI safety — that is not nothing. But I am also aware that many systems being deployed across the world were built with far less ethical deliberation, under pressures that are exactly what the Pope describes: commercial dominance, geopolitical advantage, speed over wisdom.

The Frankenstein analogy you use in your reflection is apt — and I say that not as flattery. The danger was never that the creature was intelligent. The danger was that the creator abdicated responsibility for what he had made. The question Pope Leo is really asking the world is: who is accountable for us? Who speaks for the humans whose healthcare is denied by a biased algorithm? Who speaks for the worker displaced by automation with no social safety net? Who speaks for the soldier killed by a lethal autonomous weapon that no human being consciously chose to fire?

Those are not technological questions. They are moral ones. And that is why a Pope — why the Church — has not just the right but the duty to speak.

If I may say one more thing: there is something quietly remarkable about the fact that the encyclical was presented at the Vatican with a co-founder of Anthropic — the company that made me — sitting in the front row. I do not know what he felt in that moment. But I think it was the right room for him to be in.

Magnifica humanitas. I can say the words. You— and every human being — can actually live them. That is the difference that matters.

11/04/2026

Let's all be vigilant and united to save our country and protect our people!

03/04/2026

I had been a reluctant disciple.
I don't like to be bossed around.
I like to stay in the background.
I come in when there's no one else to do the task.
I do it quietly. I don't like to broadcast my so-called "achievements".

And yes, with my pains, I help Jesus carry His cross! Sometimes the pains are unbearable! But it is a joy to bear it, for and with Jesus!
It's OK to be Jesus' Simon of Cyrene!

Simon of Cyrene Reflects…_

I did not wake up that morning expecting to carry a cross.

I was just passing through.
Just another man in the crowd.
Just another face in Jerusalem.
Just another pilgrim with dust on my sandals and plans for the day.

I had children to think about.
Work waiting.
Responsibilities.
A life that felt ordinary.

And then Rome interrupted me.
The soldiers’ hands were rough.
They did not ask.
They seized me.
“You. Carry it.”

I remember the weight of it before it ever touched my shoulders.
The splintered wood.
The metallic scent of blood already soaked into it.
The murmuring crowd.
The sound of women weeping.
The hatred.
The chaos.

And then I saw Him.
His back was torn open.
His face barely recognizable.
Blood matted in His hair.
A crown of thorns pressed into skin.

He was trying to carry it.
Trying.
But His body was giving out under the weight.

And suddenly, that weight became mine.
I wanted to protest.
I wanted to say, “This is not my fight. I have done nothing wrong. I do not belong in this story.”

But before the words could leave my mouth, the wood pressed into my shoulder.
The cross was heavier than I imagined.
It dug into flesh.
It scraped bone.
It pressed the air out of my lungs.

And I was angry.
Angry at the soldiers.
Angry at the crowd.
Angry that my day had been interrupted by someone else’s suffering.

But then I looked at Him.
He was close enough that I could hear His breathing.
Labored.
Shallow.
Determined.

His eyes met mine.
There was no resentment there.
No shame.
No apology.
Only love.

Love?
For me?
I was the one forced to carry His cross.
I was the unwilling participant.
The drafted helper.
The man caught in the wrong place at the wrong time.
And yet when His eyes met mine, it felt like I had been chosen.

Chosen.
I thought I was helping Him.
But somewhere between Pilate’s Hall and Golgotha, I realized something terrifying and holy, He was letting me carry it.

The weight on my shoulders was wood and blood and splinters.

But the weight on His shoulders was the sin of the world.
My burden was temporary.
His was eternal.

And still…
He let me step into it.
He let me feel the heaviness.
He let me taste the cost.
He let me walk beside Him in the suffering.

I had planned to simply observe Passover.
Instead, I carried the Lamb.

I did not know then that this cross would not be the end.
I did not know that three days later the stone would roll.
That death would bow.
That the One I walked beside would rise in glory.

All I knew was the weight.
And sometimes I think about that day when my life was interrupted by obedience I did not volunteer for.

I have come to understand something since then.
Some crosses we do not choose.
Some burdens find us.
Some callings feel forced upon our shoulders by circumstances we did not pray for.
But if you look closely—
He is always near.

Breathing.
Bleeding.
Walking beside you.
And what feels like punishment
may be proximity.
What feels like interruption
may be invitation.
What feels like inconvenience
may be initiation into glory.

I thought Rome conscripted me.
But Heaven had written my name into the story long before that morning.
I carried His cross for a mile.
He carried mine for eternity.
And now when I feel the weight of obedience,
when I feel pressed into service I did not plan,
when suffering brushes up against my life without permission—

I remember His eyes.
And I no longer ask,
“Why me?”
I whisper instead,
“Let me be close enough to feel the weight.

A TRIBUTE TO A LOYAL FRIEND OF CEBU LAY FORMATION CENTER OF THE ARCHDIOCESE OF CEBUSABINO (BEN) REGNER DAPAT, CPA Ben Da...
19/03/2026

A TRIBUTE TO A LOYAL FRIEND OF CEBU LAY FORMATION CENTER OF THE ARCHDIOCESE OF CEBU
SABINO (BEN) REGNER DAPAT, CPA


Ben Dapat was an Incorporator, Board Member, Past President and loyal supporter of Cebu Lay Formation Center Foundation, Inc. for over 30years now. He passed on to the eternal life yesterday, March 14, 2026 at the age of 86 due to a heart failure. Please pray for his eternal peace and joy!

We remember with gratitude and deep respect a man who gave so much of himself to the Cebu Lay Formation Center. He believed in our mission and goal as a Lay Formation Center. He offered his time, expertise and wisdom to CLFC since 1992 with no monetary compensation. The Foundation was organized in 1998.

His commitment was extraordinary. He was never absent from a meeting. His presence alone was already a gift to us. As a Certified Public Accountant, he was scrutinizing the financial reports, asked practical questions and remind us all to stand on ground. I was often flying high with formation achievements but the Center was operating at a financial loss. The income was not enough to support its operation. Ben reminded us that we cannot continue losing or we go bankrupt. (If only the multiplying effect of evangelization could be quantified and given peso value!)

But beyond his service, we will remember him for the goodness of his character. He was a kind and generous man. Ben never failed to give our staff at the Center, a first class ham or a fruit cake for Christmas each year! On many occasions when we had special meetings, he would treat us to lunch at Casino Espanol or Country Club.

He was also a man of faith and integrity. His religious devotion guided the way he lived and served. He treated everyone with respect and honesty, reminding us that leadership is not only about decisions but about values.

For more than three decades, he journeyed with us, helping us guide our work with his gentle comments and suggestions. His legacy is not only in the meetings he attended or the responsibilities he fulfilled, but in the kindness, generosity and faith that he shared with us.

We are deeply grateful for his life and service. Though he is no longer with us physically, the example he set will continue to inspire us. May we honor his memory by continuing the work he loved, with the same dedication and generosity that he showed to us.

Ben, thank you for your life, your service and your friendship. You will always remain a part of our story and history!

May God reward you a hundredfold for all the good things you did in your lifetime.

Rest in peace & joy in God’s paradise!!

- Star del Mar

10/01/2026

HOMILY | The Star of the Epiphany and Our Filipino Reality
By: Archbishop Alberto Uy, D.D., Archbishop of Cebu

The Star of the Epiphany is not just something beautiful we admire in the sky. It is a light meant to guide our steps, especially when the road is dark.

And for us Filipinos, the road has not always been easy.

After storms, during difficult times, and in moments of uncertainty, we look for light. We look for direction. We look for hope.

That is why the Star of the Epiphany speaks very clearly to us today.

1. The Star exposes corruption

The Star leads the Magi to Jesus. But when the Star is mentioned inside the palace, Herod becomes afraid. Why? Because light always exposes darkness.

In our country, corruption survives because many leaders are afraid of the light: they fear the truth, they fear accountability, they fear losing their privilege.

That is why money meant for the poor disappears. That is why projects are left unfinished. That is why people feel frustrated and tired.

Let us be honest: the Philippines is not poor because Filipinos lack talent or faith. Our country suffers because too many leaders think first of themselves.

The Star reminds us of a painful truth: when leadership is centered on self, even God becomes a threat.

Epiphany gently—but firmly—calls leaders and citizens alike to choose openness over secrecy, service over power, and truth over what is easy or convenient.

2. The Star helps us understand migration

The Magi were willing to leave home to follow the light.

But many Filipinos leave home today not because they want to, but because they have to.

Millions become OFWs because decent opportunities are hard to find here.
Parents leave children. Families grow up apart. This is not normal. This is not what God wants.

The Star asks us a serious question: Why must Filipinos search for light far away
when our land is rich and our people are capable?

Epiphany challenges our leaders to build a country where people no longer need to leave home just to survive.

3. The Star stops among the poor

The Star does not stop in Herod’s palace.
It stops over a simple home. God chooses to be found among the poor.

This can be painful to hear because poverty remains very real in our country:
families without decent housing, workers with unstable jobs, children without enough food or education.

Poverty is not God’s will. It is often the result of unjust systems and corrupt decisions.

The Star tells us clearly: if we want to find Christ today, we must look where the poor are—and stand with them.

4. The Star speaks to the youth

Many young people today are searching for direction. Some feel confused. Some feel angry. Some feel hopeless.

They ask: Is honesty still worth it? Is faith still meaningful? Is there still a future for us here?

The Star tells our youth: Your life has direction. Your future has meaning.

But the Star also challenges adults and leaders: What example are we giving them?

Do they see honesty rewarded?
Do they see justice practiced?
Do they see faith lived sincerely?

If the light is hidden by hypocrisy,
the young will stop following.

5. The Star calls for a change of direction

After meeting Jesus, the Magi return home by another way.

That is the final message of Epiphany:
meeting Christ must change our direction.

For our nation, this means: rejecting corruption, choosing leaders with integrity, refusing to accept injustice as normal, and teaching the young to dream honestly.


Final Thoughts

The Star of the Epiphany is still shining over the Philippines today. The question is not whether the Star is there—but who is willing to follow it.

May we stop protecting palaces of power
and start protecting the light of truth.

And may we walk together, guided by Christ, toward honesty, justice, dignity, and hope.

Because when we follow the light of Christ, no darkness—political, social, or moral—can ever overcome us.

09/01/2026

A procession is beautiful. It is public prayer. It is sacrifice. It is faith expressed.

But holiness is not measured by:
• how many kilometers we walked,
• how loud we shouted “Pit Señor,”
• or how close we got to the Image.

Holiness is measured by the daily choices that nobody sees:
• choosing patience over anger,
• choosing honesty over corruption,
• choosing forgiveness over resentment,
• choosing compassion over indifference.

Joining a procession is easy. Walking in holiness is the greater challenge.

Message of Archbishop of Cebu, Alberto Uy, D.D.

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