17/08/2026
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𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒… 𝐎𝐑 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒?
𝘏𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘨𝘢’𝘵 𝘥𝘪 𝘬𝘢 𝘯𝘢𝘨𝘮𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘭, 𝘥𝘪 𝘮𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘩𝘢𝘯.
𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘢𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘵.
𝘒𝘢𝘩𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘵, 𝘬𝘢𝘩𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘪𝘵 𝘯𝘢 𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯 𝘬𝘰 𝘴𝘢 𝘴𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘭𝘪 𝘬𝘰, 𝘬𝘢𝘩𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘶𝘬𝘩𝘢 𝘢𝘬𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘢.
These are lines from the upcoming movie Always Yours, Never Mine, a movie that has not even reached the cinemas yet. In fact, the movie, will only be shown in cinemas on September 30, 2026. Yet somehow, from a few minutes of a preview, our Parish Priest, Rev. Fr. Rock C. Berdos, found something that would lead us beyond a story of human love and into something much greater: 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐮𝐬.
For the first time in his 24 years as a priest, Fr. Rock showed a movie clip during his homily. And, in true Fr. Rock fashion, he immediately clarified: “Hindi ko pinakita ang video clip na iyan para i-promote ang pelikula.”
Although after mentioning the title, director, and showing date, Father somehow managed to promote it anyway. And as he jokingly reminded everyone, despite the many movies, teleseryes, and even Christmas Station IDs he has used in his homilies, ABS-CBN and Star Cinema still have not paid him.
But beneath the laughter was something profound, beneath the humor was a question far deeper than the movie itself.
The title of the movie is Always Yours, Never Mine. But because of the artistry in the way the words appeared on screen, Fr. Rock noticed that they could also be read differently:
𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐄, 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒.
And suddenly, it was no longer merely a movie title. It became an examination of conscience.
Because if there is Someone who can look at each of us and say without hesitation,
𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒, 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐆𝐨𝐝.
He has been ours when we remembered Him and when we forgot Him.
When we prayed fervently and when prayer became an afterthought.
When we obeyed Him and when we deliberately chose what we knew would take us farther away from Him.
When we loved Him.
When we choose Him. And even when we do not choose Him.
𝐒𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥, 𝐇𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐮𝐬. 𝐇𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐝.
As Fr. Rock reminded us:
“𝐇𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐒𝐢𝐲𝐚 𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐬𝐚𝐬𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐦𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐥 𝐤𝐚𝐡𝐢𝐭 𝐩𝐚 𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐭-𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐚𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐤𝐮𝐤𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠.”
God remains faithful even when we are unfaithful. His mercy is offered to all. And if we look at the way God continues to love us despite our ingratitude, our stubbornness, our repeated sins and failures, Fr. Rock humorously connected it again to the movie:
“Parang pumapasok tuloy iyong linya sa pelikula na, ‘Kahit mukha akong tanga.“
Because that is how extravagant God's love can seem. Because God's love can almost look foolish by the standards of the world.
He keeps choosing people who do not always choose Him.
He forgives people who return to the same sins.
He waits for people who repeatedly walk away.
He continues knocking at hearts that have kept their doors closed and refuse to open.
He continues loving people who sometimes love everything else more than Him.
Not because God is foolish.
But because 𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐒 𝐁𝐄𝐘𝐎𝐍𝐃 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐖𝐄 𝐃𝐄𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐕𝐄.
We see this in the Canaanite woman in the Gospel. She was an outsider, a Gentile, someone who seemingly did not belong.
Yet she persisted:
𝐋𝐨𝐫𝐝, 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐦𝐞.
And mercy crossed every boundary.
As Fr. Rock beautifully said:
“𝐀𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧 𝐧𝐠 𝐃𝐢𝐲𝐨𝐬 𝐚𝐲 𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐲, 𝐤𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐭𝐚𝐬. 𝐇𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐛𝐮𝐤𝐨𝐝, 𝐤𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐠𝐚𝐩. 𝐇𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢 𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐧, 𝐤𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐭.”
That is 𝐆𝐎𝐃’𝐒 𝐀𝐋𝐋-𝐄𝐌𝐁𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄.
But perhaps the uncomfortable part of the homily begins here, the uncomfortable question.
If Jesus tells each of us,
𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒, what does our life tell Him?
Can we honestly say,
𝐋𝐎𝐑𝐃, 𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒?
Not merely on Sundays.
Not only when we kneel inside the adoration chapel or inside the church.
Not because we serve in a ministry, carry a Rosary, post Bible verses, attend Mass, know the right prayers, or publicly professing our faith.
Fr. Rock gave us perhaps one of the most piercing lines of the homily:
“𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐬𝐚𝐛𝐢 𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐠, 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐤𝐢𝐭𝐚 𝐬𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐡𝐚𝐲.”
𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞.
Because we can love God with our lips while wounding Him through the way we treat people.
We can pray before the Blessed Sacrament and later gossip about someone.
We can serve at the altar yet refuse to forgive.
We can speak about mercy but reserve kindness only for people we like.
We can speak about mercy while being merciless toward someone who has hurt us.
We can profess our love for Christ while choosing whom to welcome, whom to help, and whom we believe deserves our kindness.
We can call ourselves Christians while deciding who is worthy of our compassion.
And so perhaps the question today is not simply:
𝐃𝐨 𝐈 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐝?
But:
𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐏𝐄𝐎𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐆𝐍𝐈𝐙𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈 𝐁𝐄𝐋𝐎𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎 𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐘 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐖𝐀𝐘 𝐈 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐌?
Fr. Rock reminded us that when someone is hungry, suffering, devastated by calamity, or simply in need, the Church does not first ask, “Are you Catholic?”
The question is simply: Do you need help?
The need is enough. Because if God's love has no favorites, ours should not either.
𝐒𝐨 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲, 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞.
Who have you ignored, excluded, resented?
Who have you judged?
Who are you finding difficult to forgive?
Who have you decided is no longer worthy of your kindness?
And then look at God, who has never stopped looking at you with mercy, who knows everything about you, including the parts nobody else sees, and still says:
𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐀𝐋𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒.
Perhaps today is our turn to answer Him, not merely with our lips, but with our lives:
𝐋𝐎𝐑𝐃, 𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒.
When loving is difficult and inconvenient, I am Yours.
When forgiveness hurts, I am Yours.
When nobody sees the good I choose to do, I am Yours.
When You ask me to love someone I would rather avoid, I am Yours.
And when I fail, Lord, teach me to return and choose You again.
Until one day, through the way we have loved God and loved one another, may He look at us and say:
“𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐞.”
𝐒𝐚𝐧 𝐀𝐧𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐀𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐥, 𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐨 𝐤𝐚𝐦𝐢.
𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐋𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐕𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐠𝐞, 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬.
𝐉𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐬, 𝐰𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮.
Watch the video of the full homily to reflect more deeply on its message and to experience how Fr. Rock himself delivered this beautiful, humorous, yet deeply challenging reminder of God’s all-embracing love.
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