25/12/2025
12.20.25
Bless the Boarders of Bago City Jail
This experience was entirely new, fun, and memorable for me, as it was my first time visiting a jail. I felt scared and nervous, anxious about what was going to happen, but my feelings shifted when I saw the families of the Persons Deprived of Liberty (PDLs) coming to visit.
I noticed the happiness in their eyes and their longing for connection. As a sensitive person, I tried to control my emotions; I didn't want them to see my pity. Instead, I wanted them to feel the hope, care, and love from us. I wanted them to know that they are not forgotten, even if we don't share the same blood. I wished for them not to lose faith in God, the world, or themselves because of their situation.
During the event, my heart was filled with joy when they sang for us. The lyrics were deep, powerful, and sentimental, and I found great happiness in listening to them. I also saw some PDLs on the second floor vibing and humming along with the song, which made my heart even happier.
When it came time to interact, I felt awkward and shy as we were about to introduce ourselves. However, my partner Aira and I managed it well. We let them play two icebreaker games, which turned out to be a great start because they engaged enthusiastically and seemed to really enjoy it.
During the sharing session, we noticed that some individuals were too shy to share their stories. However, those we connected with surprisingly opened up a bit, sharing fragments of their experiences. Some shared their insights and messages they wanted us to take away: the importance of "Education and Family." They emphasized always choosing family over everything else and pursuing our dreams for the future.
As a student actively working towards my dreams, this impacted me deeply. One PDL advised me to focus on my degree, graduate, and eventually help my family and people like them. Their words about sharing the goodness of God and helping those in need resonated with me.
This was truly a great experience for me. Despite being an introverted person who is not particularly good at interactions, I felt confident during those times, surrounded by individuals who offered no judgment. I genuinely felt their respect and warm welcome.
My only concern is for their families—the PDLs who long for their loved ones outside. I sincerely hope that this Christmas and New Year, they will be remembered by their families.
I am very grateful for this experience and hope to join if there is another opportunity next year.—John Marie Constantino, a third-year college student at Bago City College.