14/09/2026
Have you ever felt judged?
As humans, at some point in our lives, we will all have felt judged. Whether this was by ourselves or by another person. If we walk in that judgment, we will continue to feel unresolved shame, bitterness, and may even have a lingering mindset of not being able to earn God's approval; sometimes, when we walk in this mindset, we can even inadvertently project our hurt onto others.
The Apostle Paul was a man who knew what it was to judge people. Before his conversion, he had pronounced judgment on Christians through persecution and supporting executions and by his own admission, he was a man on a mission to enact his judgment on the church.
But then, Paul came face to face with God’s perfect justice. But rather than receiving the human understanding of justice that he had dealt himself, he instead came face to face with God’s justice, which was revealed to be the forgiveness, mercy, and grace in Christ. Because of this, Paul knew just how important it was for believers to reveal Christ’s forgiveness, mercy, and grace as a witness to the measure that they had first received.
In Romans 14:1-12, Paul reminds believers that in Christ they have been called not to judge the actions of other believers by their own understanding. For in Christ, believers have been justified not by what they have done or not done, but through the mercy and grace of God.
This is why it is important as believers to remember that we who were once judged unacceptable have been made acceptable to God, not through anything we have done ourselves but through the cross of Jesus Christ. Now accepted by God, we no longer live for ourselves, but for God, and because God is our master, every person answers directly to God, and not to other humans. For only God knows the state of our hearts, and he holds the right to judge it.
Now, because we have received God’s mercy and grace, we too are called to reflect God’s character of his perfect justice and mercy into the world, to be gracious to one another, forgiving as he has forgiven.
But just how many times should we be forgiving towards one another?
In the parable of the unforgiving servant, in Matthew 18:21-35, Jesus echoes the Beatitudes, revealing that if a person is truly sorry, God will know, as he judges the person's heart, not the outward expression. If that person seeks mercy, then those who show mercy to them are the ones who will inherit the mercy of God. For those who show mercy reflect the character of God.
But will we all reflect God’s character the same way? No! We have each been made uniquely and wonderfully in the image of God. We have different perspectives, thoughts, and opinions, and because of this we have a rich diversity in how we live our lives to honour God. So let us delight in our diversity in the knowledge that in Christ we have been called together and unified as his body. Let the grace we have received be our marker of unity, and let us love one another as he has loved us.