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Horse Ministry*Horse Riding*Pony Care *Equine Self Awareness Facilitation* 🩷Love is patient🩷Love is kind🩷 Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.🩷Love never fails
🐎🩷✝️ 1 Corinthians 13:4,7-8 ✝️🩷🐎

10/06/2026

Pearl 🩷

Evening Lesson
10/06/2026

Evening Lesson

A beautiful sunny day today. Lots happening here on a Tuesday. With a disability session in the morning, ladies prayer g...
09/06/2026

A beautiful sunny day today. Lots happening here on a Tuesday. With a disability session in the morning, ladies prayer group, and then a kids lesson after school.

08/06/2026

Alaska and her little rider working on the trot

07/06/2026

Rosie and her little rider doing so well!
This is 3 short sessions together 🩷🦄

06/06/2026

Known and Gently Led
"O Lord, you have searched me and known me. You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar.
You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways."
Psalm 139:1–3

A skilled horse communicator understands that behavior is often the visible expression of something deeper. A horse may appear resistant, distracted, reactive, or shut down, but an experienced eye looks beyond the symptoms. They watch the horse's movement, posture, breathing, facial expressions, and energy. They ask, Where is the tension coming from? What is this horse trying to tell me?

For the last week I've been watching my new pony, Rosie, settle into her new home. She has been carrying a great deal of tension in her body. Everything around her is different. She has left behind familiar surroundings, said goodbye to her foal, and is now learning to live among new horses, chickens, sheep, and goats. Every day brings new sights, sounds, and experiences. As I work with her, I've learned that everything must be quiet and slow. If I move too quickly or ask too much, her tension increases. So I watch carefully. I pay attention to how she carries herself, where she holds tightness in her body, how she responds to her surroundings, and what she is trying to communicate. My goal is not simply to make Rosie do what I ask, but to understand what she is feeling so I can help her find confidence, relaxation, and trust in this new season of her life.

The goal is not to force compliance. The goal is understanding.

Psalm 139 reveals that God knows us perfectly.

The Lord does not merely observe our actions; He understands the roots beneath them. He knows the anxieties we carry, the disappointments we hide, the wounds that influence our reactions, and the fears that shape our choices. Before we can fully identify what is causing our tension, He already knows.

He searches our path. He is acquainted with all our ways.

God does not approach us with frustration when we struggle. He is not surprised by our fears or confused by our inconsistency. Like a master trainer who understands the whole horse, God sees the whole person.

And He guides us through His Holy Spirit.

Scripture often associates the Holy Spirit with a dove—a picture of gentleness, peace, and sensitivity. A dove does not force its way into a situation with aggression. It settles softly.
In the same way, the Holy Spirit gently reveals areas of tension in our hearts. He does not condemn us for our anxiety; He lovingly leads us through it.

Often, we want God to simply remove our struggles. Instead, He patiently teaches us how to walk in freedom. He shows us where fear has tightened our hearts. He reminds us of truth when anxiety tries to control us.
He teaches us to trust His voice rather than our worries.

As a horse learns to soften into the guidance of a trusted handler, we learn to yield to the leading of the Spirit. The result is not merely better behavior; it is transformation. We become more relaxed in God's presence, more focused on His voice, and more free in the way we move through life.

Today, if you feel burdened by anxiety or tension, remember that God already knows exactly where it comes from. He sees what others cannot see. He understands what you struggle to put into words. And through His gentle Spirit, He is leading you toward greater freedom, trust, and peace.

Prayer
Father, thank You that You know me completely. You see beneath my actions and understand the places where fear, anxiety, and tension have taken root. Help me to trust Your loving knowledge of me. Holy Spirit, gently reveal what is holding me back and teach me to follow Your leading. Like a horse learning to relax into the guidance of a trusted trainer, help me to surrender to Your care and move freely in the peace You provide.

In Jesus Name
Amen

Elle

Thought I'd get a nice Pic of all 3 ponies together....Get a Kaimanawa they said... It'll be fun they said...Put shoes o...
06/06/2026

Thought I'd get a nice Pic of all 3 ponies together....
Get a Kaimanawa they said... It'll be fun they said...
Put shoes on a horse they said.... It'll be better for the horse they said...

In other news, it's definitely time to build a hitching rail..

Devotional: The Gentle HarnessScripture: "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, ...
05/06/2026

Devotional: The Gentle Harness

Scripture: "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." — Matthew 11:29-30

When Jesus spoke about an easy yoke and a light burden, His listeners understood the language of working animals. Today, I want to share a few thoughts of those words through the eyes of my Standardbred harness horse.

My mare, Pearl, raced over one hundred times before I bought her after retirement. For most of her life, she knew pressure. She knew schedules, expectations, performance goals, and the demand to pull a sulky around the track. Like many racehorses, she learned that pressure meant work and that work required effort, compliance, and endurance.

When Pearl came into my life she taught me that true horsemanship isn't about applying pressure until a horse submits. It's about learning to listen. It's about noticing the tension behind the behavior, the worry behind the resistance, and the needs hidden beneath the performance.

Many of us carry trauma in the same way a retired racehorse carries old patterns. We become accustomed to pressure. We expect demands. We brace ourselves for the next challenge. We learn to survive by pulling harder, running faster, and staying alert.

Trauma teaches us that our safety depends on our performance.

But Jesus offers something radically different.

He does not tighten the harness and demand more effort. He does not stand behind us with a whip, urging us forward. Instead, He comes alongside us with gentleness. He invites us into relationship before responsibility.

"My yoke is easy."

What if Jesus is saying that healing was never meant to come through force?

What if the exhausted parts of your soul don't need more discipline, more striving, or more pressure?

What if they need what Pearl needed?

Patience.

Safety.

Understanding.

Freedom to rediscover who they are apart from performance. And she loves to run, she loves to to jump on the trailer and go on an adventure. Now. With us. But she had to learn that when we go somewhere it's relaxed, and she is safe.

Pearl taught me was that healing often happens when expectations are released. When I stopped trying to make her fit my plans and started paying attention to her needs, trust began to grow. She became freer to express herself. I became better at listening.

I wonder if Jesus does the same with us.

He sees the places where life has harnessed us with fear, shame, perfectionism, and survival. Yet He doesn't force those wounds into healing. He creates an environment where healing can happen. He walks with us patiently until our hearts learn they are safe again.

His burden is light because He carries what we were never meant to carry alone.

His yoke is easy because it is built on love, not pressure.

And sometimes the first step toward healing is simply believing that God is more interested in our wholeness than our performance.

Prayer
Jesus, I confess that I often live as though everything depends on me. Like a horse pulling against a heavy harness, I strain under burdens You never asked me to carry. Thank You for Your gentleness. Thank You that You do not heal through force, fear, or pressure.
Teach me to trust You more deeply. Help me release the expectation that I must perform to be worthy of love. Show me how to listen to the needs of my own heart and to Your gentle voice.
Heal the places in me that are still braced for pressure. Teach me to walk beside You instead of striving ahead of You. May I discover the freedom of being loved, the rest of being known, and the peace of carrying only what You have asked me to carry.

In Jesus Name
Amen.

Reflection Questions:
*Are you living from relationship or from pressure?
*What burden are you carrying today that Jesus never asked you to pull alone?

Blessings
Elle

The Posture of Freedom: Finding Balance in the Saddle"I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt so that you w...
04/06/2026

The Posture of Freedom: Finding Balance in the Saddle

"I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt so that you would no longer be slaves to the Egyptians; I broke the bars of your yoke and enabled you to walk with heads held high." – Leviticus 26:13

When a horse carries a rider, it constantly reads the rider's body weight, muscle tension, and balance. If you collapse your lower back, round your shoulders, or look down at the dirt, your horse must physically compensate for your crookedness. A slumped rider creates a heavy, unbalanced horse.In ancient times, a slumped, bent-over posture was the universal sign of a slave. Slave labor physically forces a body to bend down under heavy burdens. But in Leviticus, God tells His people that He broke their chains specifically so they could walk קוֹמְמִיּוּת (Qomamiyut)—a Hebrew word meaning "uprightness," "standing tall," or having a perfectly straight spine.

God's design for your body is a stacked, aligned posture that reflects your dignity and freedom.The same rule applies in the saddle. When you sit up straight, align your spine, and look up over your horse's ears, something incredible happens. Your physical alignment gives your horse the freedom to balance its own body. A confident, upright rider allows the horse to move with grace, power, and rhythm.

Don't ride under the weight of yesterday's burdens, guilt, or anxiety. Drop your shoulders, stack your spine, and lift your chin. Ride in Qomamiyut—the posture of freedom. When you carry yourself with the confidence of who you are in Christ, your horse will feel the balance, and you will both move forward in perfect harmony.

Prayer for today.
Thankyou Lord that I can stand and ride tall with my head held high in you. That you are the God who saves, sets free, and restores me for your Name and glory. Lord would you help me to walk in your freedom and favour, not weighed down by burdens or fears. Help me Lord to ride with peace and purpose for your glory.
In Jesus Name
Amen

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