Singles' And Young People's Fellowship

11/09/2022

Woman! Woman! Woman!!!

How many times did I call you?

How do you think you can submit to the Holy Spirit and still submit to a man who is not ruled by that same Spirit you have given your all to? How?

I mean, how do you submit to the Holy Spirit and still submit to a man who does not have the Holy Ghost in him?

Isn't that like 'stressing' the borders of the Holy Spirit?

Isn't that like making the Holy Spirit work over time on your case?

Can you imagine how it feels like to be leading a woman forward while her husband is leading her backwards at the same time?

Imagine what would have happened to Mary and her baby if Joseph was spiritually deaf? Or if he was not a man the Holy Spirit could have audience with?

Imagine if he was a man who did not have the spiritual atmosphere that can entertain angels upon which instruction and direction is released?

That would have put so much stress on Mary. That would have made things complicated for her, having to find a way to escape the snares of Herod and escape her husband at the same time.

My sisters, why do you want to do this to yourself?

Why do you want to surrender your vulnerability to a man who has not surrendered his availability to God?

Do you know how it feels to get a GO from God and encounter a STOP from your husband?

And oh my God! One beautiful character about God is how He so much respects the ministry of a husband. He respects the covenant of marriage so much. This is why in other to bring your marriage to perfection, the Holy Spirit has to have dominance over the ministry of a husband.

I mean, what else do you want God to do when He has already commanded you to submit to your husband? So God never Expects you to un-submit to your husband at any time because that will be God going against His own order. This is stretching Him so much, when two becomes ONE but one is deaf and blind to the Spirit!

Mary was at the lowest point in her life at that season. She just had a baby, with so much emotions gushing out of that experience of being a mother, it wasn't easy for her to keep her concentration on God at that point, but then, she had a man who was spiritually available to cover for her.

What is the point of having a husband who cannot hear from God when your own volume is low?

What is the point of having an available husband who is absent before God?

You better sit up fast!

16/08/2022

I want you to stop what you're doing right now and read this with all your heart, your marriage needs it desperately:

In Matthew 25 verse 1;
Why did the wise virgins not lend some oil to the foolish ones since the bridegroom was already around? Why didn't they share? Because by human calculation they might not even be needing the extra oil anymore since the person they've been waiting for have come?

Hmmm, it is because the wise virgins didn't know how long the marriage with the bridegroom will last, they too needed their lamps to burn for as long as it can.

"The oil was not only necessary for the waiting period, they didn't think they wouldn't be needing the oil anymore because the bridegroom has come, the oil was also needed for the thereafter."

Many relationships and marriages have failed because either or both partners thought they wouldn't be needing their oil anymore after they've found each other.

Our marriages fail because we forget to consistently apply the wisdom that helped us win our partner's heart in the first place.

Our relationships become dry and boring because we become too familiar with each other that we think we don't need to learn new things about our partner, or new ways to make our love better.

We Forget to woo each other after our hearts have been won.

Why?

Because we don't need the oil anymore, we empty our vessels, throw away the kegs, and slowly the oil in our lighted lamps begins to dry up and burn out. And before we realize it, the room becomes so dark that we cannot see where our partner is standing anymore..

NEVER LET YOUR OIL DRY UP!
NEVER LET YOUR LAMPS BURN OUT.

You cannot know too much to stop learning new things everyday.

You cannot depend on old tricks in this ever changing world, learn new things, refuel, refill, if possible replace your lamp with a solar system, install an inverter, let it keep burning. Read that book, attend that seminar, take that marriage course together, and most importantly guys, STAY AWAKE!

14/08/2022

I will sing unto the LORD as long as I live: I will sing praise to my God while I have my being. My meditation of him shall be sweet: I will be glad in the LORD. Psalm 104: 33-34

The more you meditate on God's loving kindness, the more you realize how good a Father he is. Every day, when we fellowship and communicate with God, we are exposed to another level of who He is. There is no way getting to know more of God's nature won't have you jumping and singing praises the same way King David sang God's praises in this psalm.

04/07/2022

02/07/2022

*Do you agree?

"S*x is sweet but there is poison in between the legs" (A Must Read)
Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.
S*x is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected, not every girl has a good spirit,some are demon, some has
poison in between their legs.
Some are killers and destiny destroyers, be careful. Worst is a man who can't control his sexual urge.
A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth.
1. Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only makes you a womanizer, a cheat, sinner and a boy.
2. A man with polygamy should tolerate alot
3. For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.
4. You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the street before girls will love you.
Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with men who sag trousers.
5. Don't use and dump women. Remember the law of karma. Whatever you do, you will receive the reward.
6. If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she can't be your wife don't sleep with her.
7. Do not obey your er****on at all times. Most times your er****ons mislead you to the wrong direction.
Control your er****on. Don't let your er****on control you. If you don't you will have few days on earth with much poverty on you.
You may insult me but it doesn't matter to me now, because am done telling you this.
8. It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sexual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.
9. Do not date a lady because she has sexy curves, b***s and shapes. Those things are just packaging; and
packaging can be very deceptive avoid such, don't fall for what's called the irony of Social Media.
10. Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, its not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and support your future.
11. Do not beat a woman, even if she is not your wife.
12. Real men don't gossip. Learn to keep secret shared with you by a Lady that is what makes you a man enough to enjoy the comfort of a lady.
13. The world only celebrates successful men. Nobody will celebrate you for having many girlfriends.
Therefore, what is the benefit? Waste of energy and waste of protein.
14.Marrying a woman doesn't mean she is your property. Treat her with respect. Make her your queen, love, honour and give her a reason to treat you the same. Remember, what you give is what you get.
Finally Don’t be a cheating man. You’re losing life. You think you are playing the game and winning, but you are actually losing.
You can get over on some women but you can’t fool your Creator. You will reap what you sow, so you better start trying to grow good things.
Juggling women doesn’t make you a man. Being honest, loyal & faithful that's the trademark of a real man.

May God bless us all..

20/02/2022

The number one need of a woman.

05/12/2021

THERE IS NOTHING GOD CANNOT DO FOR YOU.

You are going to marry a partner with big b***s, twelve packs and all the other physical qualities you are looking forward to find in your ideal spouse for marriage, because God has promised to give you the desires of your heart. ~ Psalm 37:4

God says He is going to give you that beard gang, tall, fair skinned and charming man you have always been asking for in the place of prayer, because whatsoever you ask of Him you will receive.~ Matthew 7:7

He says He is capable of giving you a wife from the desired denomination you are believing God to marry from. He says He will bless you with a husband from that tribe you have been dreaming to marry from, because you cannot ask your Father for bread and He will give you a stone. ~ Luke 11:11

He has already made a promise to bless you with a husband who will be financially able to provide for the family, and a wife who understands her assignment as the help suitable for you in all ramifications, because the blessing of the Lord enriches and adds no sorrow. ~ Proverbs 10:22

There is nothing God cannot do for you if you ask Him in faith, absolutely nothing.

But in the same way, is there something you cannot do for God also?
What if God has other plans for you that are different from the desires you have proposed?

What if God leads you to someone from a different denomination, is there anything too difficult for you to do for Him?

If God brings someone who is the opposite of what you are hoping for, can what you cannot do for God exist?

Many times we are just selfish, everything cannot be about what God can do for you, and what He has promised you in His word. How about what you can do for Him?

Sometimes God will require you to make a contribution to the purpose He has designed for your marriage by making some adjustments to your expectations in other to accommodate His vision.

02/12/2021

STAY AWAKE!

I want you to stop what you're doing right now and read this with all your heart and soul, your marriage needs it desperately:

In Matthew twenty five verse number one;
Why did the wise virgins not lend some oil to the foolish ones since the bridegroom was already around? Why didn't they share? Because by human calculation they might not even be needing the extra oil anymore since the person they've been waiting for have come?

Hmmm, it is because the wise virgins didn't know how long the marriage with the bridegroom will last, they too needed their lamps to burn for as long as it can.

Please catch this anyone;

"The oil was not only necessary for the waiting period, they didn't think they wouldn't be needing the oil anymore because the bridegroom has come, the oil was also needed for the thereafter."

Many relationships and marriages have failed because either or both partners thought they wouldn't be needing their oil anymore after they've found each other.

Our marriages fail because we forget to consistently apply the wisdom that helped us win our partner's heart in the first place.

Our relationships become dry and boring because we become too familiar with each other that we think we don't need to learn new things about our partner, or new ways to make our love better.

We Forget to woo each other after our hearts have been won.

Why?

Because we don't need the oil anymore, we empty our vessels, throw away the kegs, and slowly the oil in our lighted lamps begins to dry up and burn out. And before we realize it, the room becomes so dark that we cannot see where our partner is standing anymore..

NEVER LET YOUR OIL DRY UP!
NEVER LET YOUR LAMPS BURN OUT.

You cannot know too much to stop learning new things everyday. You cannot depend on old tricks in this ever changing world, learn new things, refuel, refill, if possible replace your lamp with a solar system, install an inverter, let it keep burning. Read that book, attend that seminar, take that marriage course together, and most importantly guys, STAY AWAKE!

Tonight I feel so burdened, I don't know. Would like to stay up and pray for anyone who needs strength to keep their lamps burning, whether single, dating or married. If you would like to take the decision to stay awake from this moment, leave a prayer request in the comments let me agree with you. It is DONE!

30/11/2021

THE FIRST YEAR OF MARRIAGE IS THE HARDEST!

Please listen to me now that you are still waiting to marry, and for new couples who just recently got married too;

Do not give anyone the permission to sow the seed of fear into your heart and mind with all those funny claims that the first year of marriage is usually the toughest for every couple bla bla bla.

It doesn't matter how long that person has been married for, that's a lie straight from the pit of hell. Or maybe they are right, because that demonic theory applies only to their own marriage, not mine, and definitely not yours.

In our first year of marriage I was busy looking out for what people have said is hard, till today I have still not seen.

So many fears built into the heart of couples during courtship;

You will fight very well.
He will slap you very hard.
You will disagree with him alot and keep Malice.
It is tough, tougher, toughest in the first year.

Thats how you will listen to this load of fear and by your own hand destroy your marriage because you are looking for what does not exist. Many times you are even the one creating the problems you are looking for in your marriage.

A couple came to me for counselling and one of the them said she's feeling depressed because her husband is too quiet for her liking, he doesn't talk back or encourage the quarrel she tries to instigate. That somebody told her during courtship that if her husband does not beat her up once in a while or provoke her to anger he does not love her.

You can see how these theories of men are destroying marriages.

Or should I say how people are using their own personal experiences to define the standards and expectations of your marriage for you.

Some of these theories stem from their own unwillingness and laziness to work on their marriage, so they walk around saying marriage is hard, not knowing that actually, they are the ones who were too soft to handle their differences.

A wife will go and start looking through her innocent husband's phone because someone told her all men cheat, and if he doesn't cheat he doesn't love you that much, nonsense talk.

Another woman hid her husband's car keys during an argument just to see how he will react, cos she heard if he beats her their love will become stronger. Meanwhile other people's marriages are stronger than Mount Everest without anyone laying a finger on anybody or provoking the other to anger.

Husband's now develop wonderful strategies on how to attack and belittle their wives before his family after the wedding, because they learnt that generally wives hate their mother inlaws, so your wife is secretly harbouring the wish that your mother should kick the bucket.

And stop following all these social media pages that spread bad news about marriage everyday. I know you want to learn from the failures of others, but how many successes of others have you learnt from?

Everyday you are on JORO and other pages on IG with people confessing and planting seeds of destruction in your heart all in the disguise of "Please Hide my identity". Meanwhile, your true identity in Christ Jesus which has been openly revealed to you in the Scriptures have never opened it to study.

Guys, FAITH comes by HEARING and hearing by the WORD OF GOD, the Bible says.

That's also the same way fear and destruction comes, by the rubbish you hear and embrace as your own reality.

Look, whether in your First year, second year or last year, your marriage will be hard if you are too soft to work on it.

I speak to you like a father.