13/08/2026
2026 AREA WOMEN'S RALLY SERMON
Theme: Women are Help Mates
Preacher: Apostle U. J. Charles
Texts:Genesis 2:18; 1 Samuel 25; 1 Kings 17; 2 Kings 4; Luke 23:28; Acts 9; Matthew 8; 2 Timothy 1:5
EXCERPTS FROM THE SERMON
From the beginning of creation, God demonstrated that women have a significant place in His divine programme. The woman was not created as an afterthought or as an inferior being. She was deliberately created by God with a purpose.
In Genesis 2:18, God said:
“It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
The expression “help meet” speaks of a suitable helper, one who provides support, strength, companionship and assistance in fulfilling God's purpose.
Therefore, when we speak of a woman as a helper, we are not describing someone who is insignificant. A godly helper can become a source of strength, wisdom, preservation, encouragement and even deliverance.
Throughout Scripture, we see women occupying this important position. Some helped their husbands, some helped their families, some helped God's servants, and others helped advance God's work.
The question, therefore, is not whether women have a role to play. The question is:
Are we, as women, fulfilling the purpose for which God has positioned us?
1. GOD CREATED WOMEN TO HELP AND SUPPORT
The first biblical foundation for understanding the role of a woman is found in creation.
God Himself declared: “I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18
The woman was created with the capacity to contribute meaningfully to God's purpose.
A helper does not necessarily mean someone who is lesser. In fact, the Bible repeatedly uses the concept of "help" in describing God's own assistance to His people.
A woman can therefore be a helper to her husband, children, family, church, other women, God's servants, and to the wider community.
A godly woman should not ask only, “What can I receive?”
She should also ask: “Whom can I help?”
There is a blessing attached to becoming a source of support to others.
2. ABIGAIL: A WOMAN WHO STOOD IN THE GAP
One of the clearest examples of a woman functioning as a helper is Abigail in 1st Samuel 25.
Abigail was married to Nabal, a wealthy but foolish and harsh man. When Nabal offended David and his men, David became angry and prepared to respond.
The situation was heading toward disaster, but Abigail intervened. She did not wait for the situation to destroy her household. She acted wisely, humbly and courageously. She went to David, spoke with wisdom, presented gifts and pleaded for mercy. Her intervention prevented bloodshed.
This is the power of a woman who understands her position as a helper.Abigail stood in the gap. She became a bridge between conflict and peace.She became an instrument through which disaster was prevented.
A woman can use her wisdom to preserve what others may have destroyed through foolishness.
Sometimes the strength of a woman is not demonstrated by how loudly she speaks, but by the wisdom with which she handles difficult situations.
Abigail's intervention did not make her weak.It made her influential.
3. A WOMAN CAN BRING BLESSING INTO HER HOUSE
Scripture contains several examples of women whose presence became a blessing to others.
Consider the widow of Zarephath in 1st Kings 17.
At a time of severe famine, she encountered Elijah. Though she had very little, she responded to the word of God through the prophet. Her obedience became connected to the preservation of her household.
Similarly, in 2nd Kings 4, we find the Shunammite woman who demonstrated hospitality toward Elisha.She recognized the man of God and created a place for him.Her kindness and hospitality became connected with a great blessing in her life.
These women demonstrate an important principle that what a woman carries can affect the atmosphere and destiny of her household.
A woman can carry encouragement, wisdom, hospitality, prayer, peace, faith, and through these qualities, she can become a blessing to those around her.
4. WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS PLAYED IMPORTANT ROLES IN GOD'S WORK
The Bible does not present women as spectators in God's programme.
Women were present and active throughout biblical history.
In Luke 23:28, Jesus addressed the women who followed Him.
In Acts 9, we encounter women who were part of the Christian community and whose lives demonstrated the importance of service and good works.
One outstanding example is Tabitha (Dorcas), who was known for her good works and acts of kindness. Her life had touched many people. When she died, the widows who had benefited from her kindness mourned her deeply and showed the garments she had made.
Her life teaches us something powerful. A woman's usefulness is not measured only by what she possesses, but also by the lives she touches. A woman may not stand behind a pulpit every day, but she can preach through her character, kindness, generosity, service, prayer, through the way she raises her children, and through the way she supports God's work.
5. THE POWER OF A GODLY WOMAN'S INFLUENCE
The influence of a woman can extend beyond herself.
In 2 Timothy 1:5, Paul remembered the sincere faith that first lived in Timothy's grandmother Lois and his mother Eunice.
This shows us that faith can be transferred through godly influence and example.
A mother can influence the spiritual direction of her children. A grandmother can influence generations. A wife can encourage her husband. A sister can strengthen another sister. A woman in the church can encourage younger women to remain faithful to God.
Therefore, women should never underestimate the influence God has placed in them.Your life may be preaching to people even when your mouth is silent.
6. A HELPER IS NOT A SLAVE
When we say that a woman is a helper, we must understand the biblical meaning correctly. Being a helper does not mean that a woman has no value, voice, wisdom or dignity. A helper contributes. A helper strengthens.A helper supports. A helper brings wisdom. A helper works together with others toward a meaningful purpose.
The biblical picture is therefore not one of oppression but of purposeful partnership. A godly woman should understand her value while also understanding her responsibility. She should not seek merely to be celebrated; she should seek to be useful.
She should not only ask to be served; she should also learn to serve.
7. WOMEN SHOULD RETURN TO THEIR PLACE OF PURPOSE
One of the strongest lessons is the call for women to return to their place as helpers.
This does not mean returning to a place of inferiority.
It means returning to a place of purpose, service, wisdom, godliness and influence.
The world may define success differently, but God's standard remains important.
A woman should ask:
1. Am I a source of peace or constant conflict?
2. Do I encourage or discourage?
3. Do I build people up or tear them down?
4. Do I use my influence wisely?
5. Am I helping my family fulfil God's purpose?
6. Am I contributing positively to the work of God?
7. Am I becoming a blessing to other women?
8. What legacy am I leaving behind?
The answer to these questions should cause every woman to examine herself.
8. WOMEN SHOULD HELP OTHER WOMEN
The theme is not only about women helping men. Women must also learn to help one another. Older women should guide younger women. Experienced women should encourage those who are coming behind them.Women should pray for one another instead of competing unnecessarily. Women should celebrate one another instead of destroying one another. Women should correct one another in love. Women should support one another through difficult seasons.
The church becomes stronger when women understand that they are not competitors but co-labourers in God's work.
9. THE BLESSING OF BEING A HELPER
There is a blessing in being useful to God and to people. Abigail's intervention preserved her household from disaster. The widow of Zarephath experienced God's provision. The Shunammite woman experienced God's intervention. Dorcas became remembered for her good works. Lois and Eunice left a spiritual legacy through Timothy.
These examples demonstrate that a woman's contribution may produce effects far beyond what she initially imagines.
You may help someone today without realizing that your act of kindness will change that person's life tomorrow.
Therefore, do not despise your place of service.Your service matters. Your prayers matter.Your encouragement matters. Your wisdom matters. Your generosity matters. Your example matters.
CONCLUSION
God did not create women without purpose.
From creation to the New Testament church, Scripture presents women who helped, supported, encouraged, served, protected, taught, influenced and strengthened others.
Abigail teaches us the power of wisdom.
The widow of Zarephath teaches us obedience and faith.
The Shunammite woman teaches us hospitality and generosity.
Dorcas teaches us service and good works.
Lois and Eunice teach us the power of godly influence.
Therefore, every woman should discover her God-given place and use her gifts for the glory of God.Being a helper is not a position of weakness. It is a position of purpose.
A woman who understands her purpose can become a blessing to her home, her church, her community and generations yet unborn.
