25/03/2026
PEACE OVER PAIN, GROWTH OVER TOXICITY...
Don't spend the best years of your life trying to prove loyalty to someone who finds delight on hurting you...
Loyalty is a great virtue, it takes a bless person to be loyal, but in the wrong place it becomes a trap, when you give your energy, time, heart, peace and a few to mention to a toxic person, you are draining yourself.
And never try to change a toxic person , that's not your job, thats the job of the Holy spirit, you could pray for them but leave them in the hands of God, the master changer.
The definition of love is not to lead one in to constant pain, confusion , emotional exhaustion, that you've even lost your identity. A little I know about love, love is meant to build, not break you, the bound should strengthen you and not break you and not destroy your sense of worth.
If the relationship consistently leaves you feeling less than who God says you are it is time to take a step out, and revaluate your life....
Toxic and wicked people benefit from your loyalty but never intentions of honoring it, they do their best to keep you small, they take everything you do for granted, a toxic person sees forgiveness as weakness, your act of gratitude for foolishness as though you don't have better plans for the future.
Write this in your heart, your life is too valuable to be wasted on a toxic person.
Scripture Reads in Proverbs 4:23 TPT; So above all, guard your heart, for they affect all that you are. pay attention the welfare of your inner most being, for from their flows the well spring of life.
Guarding your heart means to know when to walk away, good people are the most misuse people, no every relationship should be built on, some need to scatter from the foundation...
You cannot keep close company why toxicity and expect to remain whole. A wise man said who you allow into your life is either or subtracting.
Now the scripture reads in 2 Thea 3;1: Now may the Lord of peace pour into you His peace in every circumstance and in every possible way.
If all you are experiencing is the opposite of peace, then that's not Gods best for you, Gods best is meant to position you for the best.
Loyalty is beautiful but not when it's killing you, choose you, choose healing and choose the best God has for you.
Walking away is not weakness, it is wisdom. even Jesus went to were He was honoured and desired, He never went after the pharisees, you will find yourself best in the place of honour, come out of toxicity.
There are places and people you should separate from, Leave them behind so you can step into the best God has for you, you deserve relationship, people , connection that will make you feel Gods love not less of yourself, not pains, every now and then always crying. take a step out today, and watch how God would decorate you with the best.
Choose peace, choose self love, choose your growth, you're too young and bless to be caught up in toxicity, As a guy or lady don't waste your best years trying to be loyal to a toxic person.
HELP HAS COME
JESUS IS THE ANSWER !
Prosper T Asine
2026
Nothing works against us
