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.I spoke to a friend of mine sometime ago and during the discussion, we deviated into marriage affairs probably becaus...
08/03/2022


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I spoke to a friend of mine sometime ago and during the discussion, we deviated into marriage affairs probably because he was single and I was married.

He narrated how he had been dating a lady for some months but is really getting tired of the relationship.

Me I was like, ''Just for few months and you're already tired? "
Well, trust me na, I wanted to know why.

He said that the way the lady responds to her dad when the dad calls is getting him scared.

Ha! See me ooo, how did she respond ni? He said that the lady was actually so nice and respectful to him though sometimes she gets angry at some issues but she doesn't really flare up the way she does at every little provocation by her dad."

Oppor, I said in my mind " this one dan cast"

You're pretending to be a respectful and nice lady to a man because he wants to marry you but you're insultive to your parents. If he finds out, a reasonable man will get sceptical about you.

Men hear me! Any lady who claims to respect you and disrespect their parents have high tendencies of disrespecting you after marriage.
They haven't passed the test of submission.
For them not to submit to their parents, spiritual parents or mentors is a red flag.

My point!
Ladies, even if you're hot tempered, understand that submission is a assignment to your husband and you must train yourself first in your father's house so as to master the act.

There are women that no matter how much you show them love, once there is a little disagreement, they speak to you as though you never ever showed them love.

Yes, submission comes naturally when you love a woman but women must learn to naturally submit even when it's tough.

RESPECT is another word for LOVE to a man.
Whether he has money or not, give him the respect he needs.

Whether he is learned or not, give him that respect.
As long as he has shown signs of BEING RESPONSIBLE give him respect, he deserves it.

To be continued




I don't know what you've been told about ladies who have become generational voices, impactors, invaluable and a well ...
04/03/2022




I don't know what you've been told about ladies who have become generational voices, impactors, invaluable and a well of wisdom.

You love to be like them right?
Do you think they were snapping and posting pictures with captions like
"Haters, Smell off" and they got to where they are?

Do you think they were changing boyfriend like wrapper and got to that height in life?

Do you think that men who married them won't value, cherish and respect them?

Do you think their single folks are desperate about one huncle to marry them?

No!!!!, They've built themselves to a point where they don't need to pray for a husband, they just need to pray to choose the right one.

Value makes you distinct.
Reasonable men want ladies who have built capacity, a woman they'll be proud to shout "Na me get am!"

Some ladies still wonder why no reasonable man is coming their way, that's because they haven't yet become what a reasonable man wants.

What's your extra oil?
Do you have the womb capacity to birth forth ideas that would transform a man's life?

Do you have the wing that's big enough to shield your territory?

Don't just be the normal kind of lady, be distinct.

You need to be distinct to attract special men to yourself.

Add value!
Keep building!

To be continued...



04/03/2022

It's not by how long you've dated someone, it's by how well you've known them.

For you to know a person, study their focus.

. .You'd agree with me that there's a lady you'll see and you'll automatically love her even when you've not yet known ...
01/03/2022

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You'd agree with me that there's a lady you'll see and you'll automatically love her even when you've not yet known the personality or character.

This happens when a lady looks what we call GORGEOUS.

Being gorgeous is not looking sexy or appealing or seductive or provoking.
Rather it is looking decent with a touch of class.

The first thing that brings a man closer to a lady at first sight is her looks, take it or you still take it.

Every man wants a woman they can walk on the road with even if they're not going to marry you but you look presentable and neat.

Many ladies find it difficult to dress decent. Is it that they don't understand the meaning of decency or they just don't like the appearance.

No reasonable man will want to marry a slt looking lady.
Babe, Na only your type go come for you.

If you dress like ashawo, Na ashawo boys you go find.
You dress like mgbeke, Na kponkios brothers will come for you.. some times you don't even see someone that will ask you 'how far?' in a whole year.

Some ladies are looking 35 when they're just 24.
You don't need so much money to look dazzling.
Thank God for okirika. At least Na foreign cloth. You could look amazingly beautiful wearing that if you don't have money to shop online or go to boutique.
In case you don't know, many boutiques are okirika 1st grade, washed and repackaged.

I no wan spoil anybody market, but sis, we need you to upgrade.

Even if you're on virgin hair, at least comb it well nau, let it not look like a mad man's dada.

Smell nice, perfume is not a sin.
You'll pass somebody and be smelling akara akara, Na only you dey sell akara.

Babe, if you're not married, stop behaving like married old women that have refused to package themselves.

Look sweet! A reasonable man want a reasonable good looking Wife.

To be continued...



Happy new month friends.Make a declaration to takeover the month of march.It's going to be "As He hears you speak"You're...
01/03/2022

Happy new month friends.

Make a declaration to takeover the month of march.

It's going to be "As He hears you speak"

You're in charge.

Just a quick reminder. . #1. Did you choose them by yourself or are they your parents choice.There's a huge difference b...
22/02/2022

Just a quick reminder.

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#1. Did you choose them by yourself or are they your parents choice.

There's a huge difference between "It's my choice" and "It's their choice"

Marriage is to imminimious for someone to coman recommend a sister or a brother and you jollingly go and marry based on the person's words..
I just pity you.

Even if your parents recommended, make sure it's your choice.

#2. Can you handle their weaknesses?

Nobody is void of weaknesses, that's why we say "Nobody is perfect"
But is their imperfection something you can cope with?

Know that people rarely change and anything you don't like about him/her may not change.
May look as if it's changed, but honey if they have their way they'll go back to who they were.

#3 Bros/Sis, when there is financial difficulty, can you cope?

Marriage is not always Rosy, sometimes it just gets thorny.
Bros, when money no dey, you go still love your bae without getting pi**ed off over every little thing?

Sis, when ground no level, shey you go still love and respect that gee without insulting his ancestors.
I just say make I ask. 🚶🚶

#4. What's their personal level of commitment to God?

That the father is a general overseer doesn't mean he/she has a close walk with God.

You must know what interests them.
You don't know a man by studying him, you know a man by studying his focus..

It's from what he/she likes to do that you'll determine..

Marriage is no joke.
Be conscious about your choice because marriage is a choice.

We meeeuve..




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21/02/2022

It's a mind blowing Monday.

May you meet people that Will bring only Joy and blessings to you in Jesus name!
AMEN!!

Enjoyment all the way.. no devil can stop us..We must enter 2022 with dancing.. 💃💃💃
25/12/2021

Enjoyment all the way.. no devil can stop us..

We must enter 2022 with dancing.. 💃💃💃

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