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08/05/2024

You know it's funny how people intentionally hurt you and expect you to just overlook it because you are a Christian.

You know people will do unthinkable things to you and if you react, you hear things like nawa ooo SEBI you call yourself a Christian

This is common to self-centered people of the world with the intention to guilt trip you to do their biddings.

But that's not even where I'm going.

I want to talk about fellow christians hurting you and expecting no reaction from you or they expect you to react in a certain way.

If you react then you are the one who is not a Christian, you are not following Christ, you are supposed to just overlook their wrongdoings and move on

Automatic forgiveness without any reaction from you, you must forgive and forget and not react nor hold any grudges nor ill feeling because of course you are a child of God

As if they are not the child of the devil for intentionally provoking someone Christ died for.

See brothers and sisters actions and reactions are equal but opposite, this law is true anywhere in the world take it or leave it.

Now as christians are we supposed to forgive?

Most definitely.

But listen and listen good if you hurt people they are going to react, and you can't dictate how people will react, mbanu it's not possible.

If you are wrong apologize and mean it, be truly sorry. Don't expect automatic ticket to forgiveness.

It doesn't work like that, wether christian or not, people have the right to be angry if you wrong or hurt them.

Let's stop taking away that right from christians, we are not zombies, we feel pain too, we have emotions too, we live in the body "this flesh".

Let's begin to teach accountability in churches, not only forgiveness, let's begin to hold people accountable for their actions instead of just asking the offended to forgive.

Let the offender too be held accountable for their actions that's the balance, if not we will keep raising self-centered, arrogant christians, who believes they can behave anyhow and get away with it.

Let's Stop dictating to christians how they should react to offense, if not we will keep raising pretentious christians, who act normal when infact they harbor grudges in their hearts.

Let's start teaching accountability in churches, if not SEBI the world is chaotic as it is, if we don't start holding people accountable for their actions, get ready for what's about to come.

We will see irresponsibility at its peak. Remember it's supposed to be from the church to the world.

Let's start raising responsible and accountable christians now before it gets out of hand.

If not the chaos we are seeing in the world right now is small compared to the one that is coming, if the church doesn't wake. Selah

Tolulope

07/05/2024

This message is for our sisters especially christian sisters.

Please develop yourself, as you are seeking to grow spiritually, make sure you are growing intellectually too.

It's true you are not of this world however you are in the world.

Don't be oblivion to the world around you, develop yourself

When you develop yourself so much your circle becomes smaller, because nonsense people will effortlessly leave without you chasing them.

Guys or men who cannot hold intelligent conversations will naturally be filtered out of your circle.

And no man will think he is doing you a favor by marrying or being with you.

Ladies please build capacity, be informed, be involved, learn and unlearn, be vast in your knowledge.

Build spiritual capacity, build intellectual capacity, build emotional capacity.

Be stable, don't let every wave of doctrine toss you here and there

Be spiritually stable, be emotionally stable, be intellectually stable.

Be intentional, don't make decisions based on emotions, Be reasonable.

I want to see christian babes shaking the world, business world I want to see us there, tech world, financial sectors, politics, e.t.c

You are a queen behave like one

God bless you

19/04/2024

You know I went to a function today and the man and his family had issues.

The wife wasn't in any way involved ooo, infact no one could say this is what the wife said.

But somehow the husband's siblings still find a way of putting the whole blame on the wife.

The poor girl was not even involved in any way, infact the fight wasn't because of her, so her name wasn't even supposed to be mentioned in the argument at all.

But somehow all the blame was still put her on by the husband's siblings.

All of these siblings are females.

Can we all stop this?

We understand the husband is the head of the family, does it include his family?

Did the wife fall from the sky?

Y'all are forgetting that's a queen where she is coming from.

Baa se beru labi Omo

Stop this madness.

Your brother's wife, is your brother's wife, and the same respect you will accord your brother you should do the same to the wife.

What gave you the right to think that once a woman is married into your family, she automatically becomes an object of ridicule?

You can ride her as you like is what you think?

And if by any chance the husband protects and shields her from you, she automatically becomes your enemy.

You will show her so much hatred, that if she's not strong enough, some don't survive it.

Can we all stop? The wife too has families that adores her, stop behaving like your brother or son is a trophy that the wife won.

The marriage belongs to the wife as much as it belongs to the husband.

And as long as marriage is involved you are a third party, no matter who you are, so act like one.

Your brother's house is not your house, if you visit you are a guest behave like one.

Don't visit your brother's house and be bossing her around, and if she's not the type you can cheat, then you start name callings.

Retrace your steps now, especially females, because you see what goes around comes around.

Some will even go as far as destroying a peaceful home out of silly entitlement mentality, jealousy and hatred.

You see whatever you sow you will reap. You better stop now before it's too late.

Respect, love and adore your brother's wife like you would your brother, she's not your slave, nor your object of scorn and ridicule.

And whatever is happening in their marriage is none of your business. Love your brother and his family and wish them well.

That's your duty as a sibling, if you can help them in any way if they ask do, and if they can help you in any way they will, and if by any chance they can't help you at that moment

Don't make the wife your enemy, especially a good wife.

Everyone is battling one secret battle or the other, don't add to people's pain. Be nice, be good, let love guide your heart.

Your life will be good. God bless you

This is word of advice from me to you

Kolawole Damilola

04/03/2024

How to get out of your Head and live in the reality of God's word.👇👇👇

1. Ephesians 5:19 (King James Bible)
Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord

2. Jude 1:20 (king James Bible)
But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost.

3. Always be in an atmosphere of faith: surround yourself with people that builds faith in you, not people that complains always.

Selah

Kolawole Damilola Tolulope
A child of God

03/03/2024

Hello my people, my people.

EYIN AKORIN HAPPY SUNDAY OOO!!!!

I have been meaning to write this, but I have been kinda busy, (I have been going to and fro checking things out)

Just that I'm not the devil😆😁😁😁😁

Now to the main business of the day, you know, I came across a Facebook post, sometimes last week and the holy ghost used that post to speak to me.

The post was like, "Majority of our problem will be solved if we will learn to get out of the head"
In no particular order

Then right there and then it struck me that, I have been stressing a lot lately because of overthinking.

I will adress this post particularly to the christians, and if you are not a Christian you will still learn from it.

But I will say this word of Paul "Acts 26:29 (KJV) And Paul said, I would to God, that not only thou, but also all that hear me this day, were both almost, and altogether such as I am, except these bonds"

See majority of our problems as human especially christians started with overthinking

These past few weeks has been challenging for me, pressure everywhere, and I must not fail God, I must not fail my children, I must not fail my generation.

So I've been thinking alot, Nigeria's economy is not helping, I have been choked with worry responsibilities and all sort.

Honestly the pressure was getting to me, it took God to show me that post to reset my factory settings.

You know being an introvert, my own overthinking is so bad, that if someone offends me, and I have properly constructed my response in my head

By the time I see the person I won't be able to say it,

Likewise people that live too much in the head can't do too much because they have found comfort in their head.

They, do almost everything in their head,

See every problem, I mean any problem whatsoever begins with thoughts.

Everyone wether christian or not, I want you to think and tell me of any decision you have ever made that didn't start with a thought?

Now as christians we start having problems when we as children of God allows the devil to magnify, our needs, wants, problems, emotions, sins to us as bigger than God.

I know the economy is bad, I know everywhere is tensed, but hear me and hear me well "The just shall live by faith"

I know people might have hurt you in the past, making you to find solace in yourself, thereby overthinking things,

But

I'm putting it you now get out of the head,

I'm putting it to you tonight, GET OUT OF THE HEAD.

start living, start trusting more, There's a better life outside the comfort of your head.

You have the holy ghost, trust Him more, learn to live precept, upon precept, line upon line, a little here, a little there.

I know you have built a castle in your head, but get out come back to reality, get up do something, learn to trust the holy ghost, it's a lot easier with Him by your side.

Let Him lead just follow effortlesssly without asking questions, or thinking about anything, you will see you will enjoy more you will have more peace.

And if peradventure you don't know the person of Holy ghost I will advice you to go and know him, because this present day Nigeria you will need Him.

Once again God wants you to get out of the head, and live in the spirit more. SELAH

KOLAWOLE TOLULOPE
A child of God

l promised to speak on this so yeah, let's get started. Grab some popcorns because this is gonna be a long speach.Now, l...
07/10/2023

l promised to speak on this so yeah, let's get started. Grab some popcorns because this is gonna be a long speach.

Now, let me ask this boy, because obviously it's only a boy that can think like this.

A man, a real man won't utter such nonsense from his mouth.

Was the woman eating sand before she met her husband?

because according to the boy, the wife must have been feeding on air before she met her husband right?

you know degraded thinking like this is worrysome.

you know I once heard a guy said"the greatest scam is marriage because, how will a guy be begging a woman to marry him only for him to be the one spending on her"

marriage is designed for only a woman to enjoy? you say what?

you say what again? should we talk about what women pass through in marriage? should we start counting counting to juggle your memory?

A woman will change her name after marriage, do you know what that means? A whole change of identity.

or should we talk about the fact that women practically leave their family because of marriage, infact they
will practically tell us that our in-laws are now our parents ooo.

if your family needs help and your in-laws needs help you are expected to tend to them first if you don't you aren't well trained.

should we go on to? women constantly fighting for the love and attention of their husbands, and if by any chance you have a husband that loves and respect you, his family will have a problem with it.

or should we talk about how a wife is expected to slave for her in-laws forgetting that "base beru labi Omo"

Abi is it the pregnancy, or childbearing, or breastfeeding, or fighting postpartum depression, or stressing to still look good for your hubby after everything pregnancy has done to your body.

should we talk about delay in child bearing, the wife is automatically the problem? and the pressure mounted on the wife to get pregnant else she will have a co-wife soon.

and if by any chance the husband dies have you seen the way his family behaves?

okay let me ask you, how many times have you heard the wife's family fighting the husband over property even if the wife is richer than the husband.

But everyday we hear of mad in-laws fighting for the property with the wife of the deceased even when their son had nothing when they got married.

the list is endless.

some guys will even be clamouring for 50 50 in marriage. is it?

You don't want to spend on your woman abi, there's no house chore a woman can do that you can't do right? okay no problem.

You will carry pregnancy by yourself right? okay we know you can't abi?
why don't you breast feed the baby, that's way easier right?

The list is endless but let's just stop here

marriage is never and will never be 50/50 neither is marriage designed for a woman to enjoy, at least not here in Africa.

The problem with those guys complaining Is that they placed the value of a human's life on money. They think money is everything.

No, money is not everything, money won't keep you company money won't ensure the continuity of your lineage, a woman, that woman you are disrespecting, is the one that ensures you are still relevant even after your death.

This is the balance let everyone know and understand their roles in marriage, then, nobody will feel too burdened in marriage.

The man is the source, the head, protector, and the provider.

The woman, is the support system, the adviser, the guide, the encourager, the groomer, the home maker and she ensures continuity.

So, next time you see a man complaining about his role as a man just know he is irresponsible..

likewise, anytime you see a woman claiming she is self sufficient also know that there's a problem somewhere.

Lastly, I will say marriages will be good if each individuals will learn to be a better person for themselves.

Damilola Tolulope
A child of God

17/09/2023

It so happened that the two Babers I have taken my sons to, for their haircuts in this area are professional nonsense cutters.

So I said let me give it a try now, last last if it yiwos, they will barb skin.

Na so I pick the clipper up I called my first son, he refused, their aunt too supported him, asking me if I want to spoil his hair, he ran away, like "this woman don't spoil my hair abeg."

The second had enough faith in me and sat down with one mind I started cutting, after several shaping and all I got the perfect shape I wanted.

Now the doubting Thomas later came telling me to cut his own too. I saa cut it for him after several shakara.

What did I learn from this my story?

No 1; I learnt that if we, because of doubt or fear of the unknown not take the bold step, I mean the first step we will never know how far we can go.

No 2; I learnt that the first step is always the hardest, it gets better with Time, confidence is built over time. Every great project started with an "if" or "what if". If we don't move to the other side of the mountain we will never the blessing that awaits us.

No 3; I learnt that we deny ourselves a lot of things from God because of lack faith.

My first son had to come to me repeatedly before I answered him the following day, meanwhile the one who had enough faith in me to sit down and allow mommy cut his hair against all odds and warnings, got his hair cut first.

Think about all the goodies and the privileges you have missed because of your doubt and lack of faith.

Imagine where you would have been, the problem with "us" christians nowadays is that we are too learned, we think we know too much, so when little instructions come we try to figure it out on our head like my first son.

I implore us to be like my baby boy who trusted mum even when it doesn't make sense. That's what faith is, trusting God, even when it doesn't make sense.

We will enjoy God more when we totally trust Him, total and absolute faith in God who sees the end from the beginning.

God is not like me, I was unsure of the outcome, but God is always sure of the outcome. Always, always sure.

Have faith in God. Sella

Tolulope the barber
Goodnews always.

THE CHAOTIC CHAOS "Nigeria will not see my end "  This was his last statement two hours before Nigeria saw his end. .......
20/10/2022

THE CHAOTIC CHAOS

"Nigeria will not see my end " This was his last statement two hours before Nigeria saw his end.
........................................................................

I have been seeing the 20/10/2020 post on people's walls, status updates, everywhere

If you are a Nigerian you must be aware of what happened in Lagos on that fateful day.

Youths clamoring for freedom in their country were murdered in cold blood by the Government meant to protect them.

Anyway, let's not go into that details because, it's too sad, and to say nobody has been punished for that makes it "more sadder" if there is an English like that.

Since then it has been clear to Nigerians that this country is no longer a haven for anybody.

And imagine the kidnappings rate, it is so alarming.

Looking at all the happenings, I have concluded that only those who God protects are safe in this country.

And as we continue to lift our eyes to heaven, God's protection is sure over us.

If you are living your life outside God, be sure you are on your own and the devil can do to you, whatever he likes anytime.

If you are not under the shadow of the Almighty, I encourage you to do so, only then will He hide you under His pavilion.

If you want to be the apple of God's eyes, say after me.

LORD JESUS I BELIEVE IN THE DEATH, BURIAL, AND RESURRECTION OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST.

I BELIEVE JESUS DIED FOR MY JUSTIFICATION.

I BELIEVE I NOW HAVE THE HOLY GHOST THAT DIRECTS MY PATH AND SAVES ME FROM TROUBLE.

THANK YOU LORD JESUS FOR SAVING ME

If you have said those prayers from your heart, guess what! You are now a child of God, and you now have the Holy Spirit that leads you out of trouble.

If you have done that truthfully

contact any of these numbers

08064560110
07067150909
08145387128

You will be directed to a Bible-believing church

Ps: Remember, He that keeps us does not sleep nor slumber.

18/10/2022

YOUR MONEY GOES WHERE YOUR HEART IS

So you can spend 500,000 on jack yet you can’t give me 50,000 for my surgery right?

Tolu has started again today ooo.

What is it this time?

Okay you want to know let me tell you exactly what happened;

Oge and Jacob were in a serious relationship, about to get married.

But Jacob has one habit, and that habit was that, he makes promises he can’t keep.

He might tell Oge he would buy her something and the next minute be like I forgot now.

That has been going on for a while until, Oge got sick, her appendix burst and if you have experienced that you can relate with the pain.

Oge was scheduled for surgery and Jacob promised to foot the bills.
… … … …
Fast forward to the day of the surgery Jacob bailed out on his fiancé as usual.

The surgery needs to be done urgently before it poses threat to Oge’s life

It was Oge’s friend Segun that came to her rescue. He foot the bills without hesitation.

You will ask me, what about Jacob right?
I asked too

Jacob said he couldn’t show up because he forgot, that Oge should have reminded him.

Oge then told me how her fiance bought a chain of 500, 000 for Jackson his dog a day before her surgery.

So Oge asked me do you think He loves me.

…………..

You? Yes you now, What do you think?

As the “ 4 d mama ke” that I am
I asked Oge, if segun was interested in her, she said yes

my next question,

Why Jacob? She said her parents didn’t like Segun because of tribal differences.

I told her Jacob doesn’t love her, he just needs to get married to a figure head

She was shocked.

I told her when someone truly cares about you if they made a promise to you they don't have to be reminded before fulfilling the promise.

Secondly he would have at least showed up, he didn’t.

That simply means he didn’t value you enough to spare his time for you.

In summary I told her she was not in his thoughts, nor his heart. To him she was more like a trophy.

Well what happened between oge and Jacob is a story for another day..

……………………..

Now to the main business;

Do you know that three things defines our value system.(I mean what we love or cherish)

1. what we spend our money on

2. What we spend our time/attention on

3. What we think of 70% of our time.

And then we go out of our way to please or satisfy those we love even when it is not convenient for us.

But no matter how much we love anyone, to die for them is a no-no

Well, guess what! someone did.

His name! Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
He died for you, He died for me.

He died for the sin of the whole world so that you and I can become the righteousness of God.

He died, He was buried and on the third day, He rose for our justification.

So what will it be, will you be like oge? Who chose Jacob over Segun despite knowing the extent of Segun's love for her?

Or will you change your mind and choose the real love of Christ.

“for we know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, even though He was rich yet He became poor, that we might through His poverty become rich”

Oh, what height of love!

Why not come unto Jesus all ye that are weary and burdened He will give you rest.

So, do you want to experience this love? If so, say after me

LORD JESUS I BELIEVE THAT YOU DIED, WAS BURIED, AND ROSE ON THE THIRD DAY FOR MY JUSTIFICATION.

I BELIEVE I AM NOW A CHILD OF GOD THROUGH FAITH IN CHRIST JESUS.

HENCEFORTH I LIVE IN THE REALITY OF THE LOVE OF GOD TOWARDS ME.

If you have done this truthfully, well guess what you are now a child of God, a member of the body of Christ.

I would have said you should join any bible believing church in your area, but how would know a bible believing church?

So I will say you can contact any of these numbers

08064560110
07067150909
08145387128

You will be referred to a bible believing church that we are sure of in your area.

Ps: God is still in the business of saving men. Let him save you too.

You are a work in progress:Listen to this, Gideon doesn't look like he was going to save the Israelites from the midiani...
17/09/2022

You are a work in progress:

Listen to this, Gideon doesn't look like he was going to save the Israelites from the midianites ( judges,6:11-).

Neither was Esther qualified to be the queen at that time.

And what about David? He was no where near it. He was off the equation totally. He was not qualified.

Is God leading you to do something? and you are feeling unworthy or not qualified, inadequate or not ready or prepared.

I don't know who this word is for, but God said I should tell you that; He( God) chooses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise (1cor:1:27)

God doesn't call the best, the qualified, or the worthy. He qualifies the called.

So instead of looking at your inadequacies, while not look unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him, endured the cross, despise the shame, and is set at the right hand of the father.

If God is leading you, why not look unto Him. Follow Him, step by step, precept upon precept, line upon line, here a little and there a little (isa 28: 10&11)

Follow Him and trust the process, and before you know it, you will be surprised at the result.

So take a step of faith, don't look at your present circumstances, just trust Him, and follow His leadings.

I leave you with the word of the angel to Gideon " go in this thy might".

God's word empowered by God's Spirit to produce supernatural results of salvation.December 9 & 10 is the date for our cr...
01/12/2021

God's word empowered by God's Spirit to produce supernatural results of salvation.

December 9 & 10 is the date for our crusade in Oroki Oyo, we desire that God's message of forgiveness be brought to hardened criminals and therefore we will go.

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15/06/2021

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But He would not leave you without revealing your identity which is your purpose to you...

He would never leave you stranded.

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