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08/06/2024

QUALITIES OF A GREAT WIFE.

1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT.

She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.

2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE.

Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected

3. SHE MULTIPLIES.

She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.

4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED

Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too

5. SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD

She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too

6. SHE'S FUN

Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company

7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP

When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone

8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD

You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued

9. SHE IS CONFIDENT

Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities

10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT

You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out

11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS

She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends.

She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man

12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY

She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good

13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE

She is not afraid to make s*xual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her. She is s*xually exciting. She is faithful to him and respects s*x

14. SHE NURTURES

She takes care and covers children; whether her own or other people's.

15. SHE IS A TEACHER AND A STUDENT

She is one to advice and correct her man with love but also willing to learn and be corrected

16. SHE GIVES GREAT HUGS

Her touch is reassuring and comforting. She leaves you feeling loved and cared for

17. SHE IS NOT INDEPENDENT

Though she is successful, professional, has her own money and is educated; she admits she needs her man.

Being a modern woman doesn't mean she ages alone in her big mansion. She needs to love and be loved

18. SHE DOES NOT DO DRAMA

She values her peace and makes no apologies when she walks away from nonsensical matters.

19. SHE BLESSES AND ADDS VALUE

Everyone who encounters her is positively impacted. She oozes wisdom, uplifts you and speaks to King or Queen in you

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08/06/2024

41 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS AS THEY GROW...✍🏾

1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more.

2: Tell her to step into the FIELD not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.

3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain not her privates to make money.

4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become rich girl.

5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President.

6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.

7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.

8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any Man.

9: Train your daughter that internet never forget or forgive, let her know that the foolish post she makes in the internet can depose her from her post tomorrow.

10: Tell your daughter that time wait for no man, if she waste her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is night time.

11: Tell your daughter that life give back what you give into it, wickedness will be fully repaid.

12: Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing nakedness, it is dressing to look like a Queen.

13: Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a pr******te, tell her to dress to prove she is.

14: Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman.

15: let her know that married men do not love her, they only see her as available s*x toy to satisfy the urge in them.

16: Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God, He can not disappoint her.

17: let your daughter know that beauty without brain makes one look like a Decorated pig.

18: teach your daughter to believe in herself because she is capable of doing whatever she believes she can do.

19: Teach your daughter never to think that wealth is s*xually transmitted. Sleeping with wealthy men will only make her a w***e not wealthy.

20: tell your daughter good look does not make a man a good Man. He can have 6 PACKS and be a PACK of trouble.

21: teach your daughter never to be a Run girl because run girls normally RUN into trouble.

22: Tell your daughter knowing God is not negotiable and being righteous should be her entire Life principle.

23: Tell your daughter time go fast and wait for no one, she should stop thinking she has time to waste, she should get up now before it is too late.

24: Tell your daughter nobody wants to marry a liability, every man is looking for Help-meet not help-eat.

25: Tell your daughter she must have her own sources of income. A woman without her own sources of income will be embarrassed by her husband, in law and even her own Children.

26: Tell your daughter it is not all that glitters that are gold Some May even be a ball of fire.

27: Tell your daughter her body is not for sale but to preserve it for the man that deserve it after her wedding.

28: Tell your daughter failure is not the end but a bend.

29: Tell your daughter there is no height she can not attain, if she can just dare it.

30: Tell your daughter courtship is not marriage, she can still let go any man with red flags.

31: Tell your daughter that a broken courtship is not a divorce she can still get out of relationship at any time before wedding.

32: Tell your daughter she is beautiful, if a guy tells her she is, she will say my Dad told me too.

33: Tell your daughter never to be a runs girl, because this will ruin her future and destiny.

34: Tell your daughter that Marriage is more important than Wedding, she should take more time to prepare for marriage than wedding.

35: Tell your daughter Love is not enough for marriage, commitment, faithfulness, purity, contentment, communication, training etc are needed.

36: Tell your daughters that attitude is more than beauty.

38: Tell your daughter Labour bring favour

39: Tell your daughter she is not to submit to Men but her husband

40: Tell your daughter that marriage choice making may bring PAIN OR GAIN

41: Tell your daughter that it is not all Professors of love that are POSSESSORS OF LOVE, He may say I love you, he might actually mean I love s*x.

05/06/2024

YOUNG MEN TAKE THIS ADVICE SERIOUS.

Dating or marrying a high maintainance jobless woman will leave you broke, useless and depressed most especially when you don't have a good multiple streams of income.

Learn to date women that you can afford, women whose cost of maintenance is not a serious threat to your financial life and freedom.

Be wise.

Know how to differentiate a liability from an asset.

You see a woman who is jobless, no value, no skills, no hand work, nothing nothing, very lazy as hell.

Her sole objective in life is to do anything just to get men's attention so she can find food to eat.

Her survival is hugely dependent on men who sleeps with her for financial rewards.

They are called slay Queens, you see them live a loud life meanwhile, they have no job to account for the sponsorship of that life style.

Dating such women is catastrophic, and fatal disaster to your financial life.

Be wise,

To such women, relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme, they are always ready to date the highest bidder.

Their loyalty is always pledged to the highest bidder.

Dating such as a broke young man will always make you miserable because their love for you will be determined by the depth of your pocket.

You will be responsible for taking care of 100% of their needs and wants and if you can't meet up they either end up cheating on you with a man that can meet up or they dump you.

Your fate with them will always end in damnation.

The pressure she will continue to put on you just for you to fulfill her demand can make you go insane.

They are highly manipulative, they will do anything just for you to give them all the money they need in life.

They don't care how you get it, your struggles or anything all that matters to them is that you MUST meet ALL there needs.

They will hardly compromise their standards.

Very highly entitled bitch.

Their expectations in relationships always outweighs their contributions, they do 2% something from you and expect you to do 98% something for them and if you fail to meet up they start giving you attitude.

It's not wise for you to date or marry such woman.

When you want to date, look for a submissive woman who is not materialistic, not much of seeking validations both on social media or real life, a woman who understands the value of hard work, a woman with skills and hand work.

Find a woman who can help you and Also supports you by helping herself, a woman who is an asset, with virtues.

A woman who knows that relationship is a team sport, a partnership program where people compromise just to look out for each other in the areas of their vulnerabilities as best as the can do.

And establish relationship or marriage with with her.

But to the other woman PIPE AND SWIPE.

Let them rot in the street of hell.

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20/05/2024

The Most Bitter Truth of Life.

1. You weren’t born to just pay bills and die.

2. You don’t get to the top by following the rules.

3. Networking will get you a job faster than your degree will.

4. Results happen overtime and not overnight.

5. Wealth is more than just money.

6. Nobody cares about your degree when you drive a Lamborghini.

7. Society will judge you no matter what.

8. Hard times teach you valuable lessons.

9. The best revenge is massive success.

10. If you can’t manage stress, you will never manage success.

11. Financial freedom has a priceless view.

12. Money isn’t everything but everything requires money.

13. No one is coming to save you. This life is 100% your responsibility.

14. Risk is the price you pay for opportunity.

15. Focusing on yourself will make you feel unstoppable.

16. Doctors won’t make you healthy. Save yourself.

17. Your perception is your power.

18. Holding on to the past drain your energy.

19. If you are not losing friends, you are not growing up.

20. The biggest wall you will ever climb is the one you build in your mind.

EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

15/05/2024

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:
1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.
2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.
3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.
4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.
5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.
6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.
7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.
8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.
9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.
10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.
11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.
12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.
13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.
14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.
15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.
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16/04/2024

Charlie Chaplin die>d age 88.
He left us with four statements:

(1) Nothing is eternal in this world, not even our problems.
(2) I like to walk in the rain because no one can see my tears.
(3) The most wasted day in life is the day we don't laugh.
(4) The six best doctors in the world...
1. sunshine,
2. Rest,
3. Exercise,
4. diet,
5. Self-esteem
6. friends.
Keep them in all stages of your life and enjoy a healthy life...
If you see the moon you will see the beauty of God.....
If you see the sun you will see the power of God.
If you look in the mirror, you will see God's best creation.
Believe it then.
We are all tourists, God is our travel agent who already made our itineraries, bookings and destinations...
Trust him and enjoy LIFE.
Life is just a journey!
Live today!!!!

Above all...love humanity

10/04/2024

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES :
1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

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3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip.

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.
Hope this will help you look at life positively.

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16/12/2023

You have a great destiny so, listen wisely to these three words and from now on be careful where you step your legs🤨.

1) If everyone knows where you are going, you will never arrive: let them believe that you sleep and work in silence.

2) Never expect anything from anyone. If you are already healthy, nothing will stop you from succeeding! Even if you are at the bottom of the abyss, know that NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE TO HE WHO BELIEVES. The firmament is waiting for you😊

3) Your direction is more important than your speed: do you understand that? Read twice more. Many of you are going very fast but have no direction.

4) (bonus) The pressure of those who are already eating their harvest must not make you eat your seed. Be wise!

31/10/2023

Beware Of Loans With Interest !

🎙️The Messenger of Allaah [ﷺ] said:

«الربا اثنان وسبعون باباً، أدناها مثل إتيان الرجل أمه...»

❝Interest has seventy two doors [i.e. types] and the lowest of them is equivalent to a man having in*******se with his own mother...❞

📚[As-Saheehah of al-Albānī, (No. 1871) | Translated By Abū Ruqayyah 'Abd us-Samad]

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26/10/2023

LETTER FROM A SINGLE MOTHER 😪😪😪😪😪

If not for the Adagbe, Ada*o, Adasun, Adaji some women are going through, trust me, most of our opposite gender (Men) that think they’re rich today might not be able to withstand some of us financially, Sùgbón kadara ñkó ?

The money some single mum spent on their children alone is enough to build a beautiful house and live comfortable for the rest of their life, sugbon, Ayanmo ñkó ???

O n bere ibi oja gbe n ta, O bere lowo ori.

Owo ile, mummy ni
Owo School, mummy ni
Owo ounje, mummy ni
Medical, mummy ni
Pocket money, mummy ni
Subscription…..mummy ni
Owo Nepa, mummy ni
Owo a*o, owo bata etc etc
Mummy yi noni….. habah kilode

If you’re fortunate to have a husband that pays 50% out of all these, wake up in the middle of the night, kneel down and start prophecizing good things into the life of your husband.

If you have not been doing this, start doing it from now. You’re blessed to have him.

And if you're a single mum and u have a man supporting you in any little way he can, please hold the Man tight and put him in prayers everyday, not every man do this, some only call your kids their own with mouth only without support you, so if you are lucky to have one dat support you always, don't use your bad or I don't care altitude to send him away.

If you’re living with your husband and he pays 50% and you’re still nagging and complaining, my dear sister, take a walk and visit your friend that is single and ask her what she’s going through with her precious children,it takes the grace of God.

Having a responsible man that takes good care of his home is a blessing to the wife, please DO NOT TAKE THIS FOR GRANTED………IGBORO TI DARU.KO SI OKO MO O, JIGOLO LO KU
The Society has been destroyed, no more real husband,
No matter how much you’re able to save in a month, if you’re the only one responsible for the upbringing of the children, walai, hunmmmmmmm…….account yen o ni balance.

May we all live long to eat the fruit of our labour....
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