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To God's Glory it was indeed a Success.
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09/10/2024

TOPIC: “CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE AND CULTURAL ISSUES
By BRO. E.G. JOSIAH (EVANG.)

DEFINITION OF TERMS: What is Christian Marriage?

1. The marriage that is conducted in the church and officiating ministers pronouncing the couple married. Hence, some denominations not recognizing any marriage of their members not conducted in their church. The church in this case issues a marriage certificate to authenticate the marriage.

2. Christian marriage to some is the coming together of a Christian man and woman as husband and wife and glorifying God in everything they did to satisfy the demands of the custom. They never compromise their faith to please men.

3. Further still, Christian marriage is just the union of a Christian Man and woman living as husband and wife. These are Christians in marriage relationship.

What can we call the marriage of a Christian to an infidel? “Christian-infidel marriage?”
There is also the S***mic Christian marriage called the gay marriage. Many of us are afraid that greater calamity will befall these countries if they do not repent.

SOME THINGS OUR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD KNOW:

1. Marriage is for adults and adults who are ready.

It is indeed wrong, imprudent, unwise, ill-advised for adolescent (not fully adult) to marry.
There is also some psychological development that must start from the home.
Their personality, accepting responsibility, identifying personal needs and buying same personally.
A gradual desire to have some independence and setting goals they want to attain in physical and spiritual matters.
Then the desire and longing to have their own home. All these start from their father’s home.
The reason why some marry “TIN-TIN” [teenagers] is that they are looking for virgins.
I believe that if Lot could have virgins in a perverse city like S***m and Gomorrah, then we can have even more virgins today.

2. You must make yourself marriageable

Young men and women who possess the fruit of the Spirit in their lives have made themselves marriageable. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. “ Gal 5:22-23.

Some things you do to make yourself marriageable:

Do not form the habit of visiting people of opposite s*x beyond, that which is necessary.
Avoid cheap relationship with opposite s*x. “Marry, no! Leave ‘am, no!” attitude. No matter your sincerity, you will not only make people talk but will scare away true marriage prospects. Such extra-ordinary friendships should be discouraged.
You must help the minds of others to form a good opinion of you by their observation of your words and deeds.
That is, your light must shine and men must see your good works!!! Men will properly observe your movements and from the same GIVE GOD THE GLORY. Matt. 5:16.
Applicants (not hustlers) should not propose marriage. The man must know he is the one to provide for the wife. So if he is not gainfully employed he cannot take care of his marital responsibility.
No “book me down” in marriage. Marriage is for those who are ready.
Before making proposal seek sound advice from parents and brethren. Never jilt your sister.
Resist all false moves, even when proposal has been made. Show prospects to your parents before any serious affection begins. Wait faithfully till all formalities are completed.
I have always advised young men and women intending to marry against the sin of fornication before marriage.
But many have been jilted several times for this weakness and sin.
Some of the ladies see it as a trap and what they have in mind is pregnancy and some have succeeded with it, while to many it had only given them sorrow and regret.
Prayer is the first step in marriage. Be seen to be prayerful. GAP!!!

THE ROLE OF CHRISTIAN PARENTS
Christian parents should truly train their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
The parent should show true Christian principles in giving out their daughters in marriage, since it is the tradition of the bride that prevails in this exercise in Nigeria.
The parents must allow Christian principles to prevail over conflicting customs and traditions; be it the provision of alcoholic beverages, to***co, and animals for sacrifice.
They should discourage high bride price and long list of high demands. They must realize that what is called tradition today was started by one man and it takes another man to stop it.
We as the light in our communities are supposed to have the courage to enlighten men on any tradition that runs counter to God’s will, to bring about the desired change for the better in our various localities.
The list should suggest that the young man coming to marry your daughter is already seen as your son and so you must be considerate.
Fathers should make things easy for young couples.
Some parents say “I have no say in this matter is my people”. If you do not have in your daughter’s marriage while you are alive, then I pity such a father!
I repeat, whatever tradition you are holding on to, was the idea of one man many years ago, change it and tell your people so.
It takes one man to start it and another too to change it.
Fortunately, where I come from my voice as the father overrules a lot of things.

THE ROLE OF THE COUPLES TO BE IN MARRIAGE.
The young man must relate with his parents or guardians well to see that things go well.
Things are easy from this angle because the young man has made his choice which is often respected.
If the parents disagree they must have a very good reason to do so otherwise the man will still tell them I have made my choice, and that settles it.
From the angle of the woman who is about to be married, if she not a full grown adult, the parent may reject man for many flimsy reasons.
Many parents have done that to the detriment of their daughter.
I am saying quickly here as father to all fathers be a good guide to your daughters but do not choose for them.
Allow them to make their choices and pray for them to make right choices so that all may be happy at the end. Nobody but God knows is the best matching maker because he knows the end from the beginning.

THE ROLE OF THE CHURCH IN MARRIAGE.

The church on regular basis must teach on marriage let us not take for granted we know it all!!
The church should be a better guide – have counselling periods with the couples challenging them with the truth about marriage.
Help them to uphold their faith against any form of compromise that is sinful.
The may soon be drifting to making marriage and ordinance of the church as some are already doing.
In Nigeria, there are only two types of marriage: Traditional marriage and State marriage.
In develop countries two adult can go to the registry and be married.
Try that in Nigeria and the woman dies the man will know that state marriage without traditional marriage is no marriage.
The church can rejoice with the couple by singing, praying and admonishing them but have NO RIGHT TO JOIN THEM for it will be illegal.
Some churches say that the church must be informed well in advance and failure will attract discipline – “church laws”!
Let us not make laws where God did not make one!

SOME MARRIAGES PRACTICES THAT SHOULD NOT BE ENCOURAGE:

Idolatry – ancestral worship
Offering of to***co and alcoholic beverage.
Some traditions promote fornication before marriage.
Some inherit father’s or brother’s wife. They have a justification – keeping the children in the family.
Some capture the girl but if caught will be beaten. Successful men make good husbands.
Bride circumcision a must for every bride and very expensive. Medical science!!

SOME QUESTIONS WE FAIL ASK OURSELVES BEFORE MARRIAGE

Does this person think about how to meet family needs and grow to be a better person?
Do both of you have set goals – physically and spiritually?
Do you have the willingness to grow to be a better person?
Are you going into marriage believing that some negative behaviours of this person will change and sure you can put up with it?
Have you considered the question of education of yourselves for a better tomorrow?
Do you know that when you marry you now have three families – the man’s family, woman’s family and the new family?
What do you know about each other’s friends? How good or bad are they?
What about his work or profession?
What about his hobby or hobbies?
Are you thinking of cohabiting before marriage?
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04/08/2024

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22/07/2024

Malachi & Robbing God
Travis Main (Church of Christ Articles)

The book of Malachi is written to the Israelites who have returned from captivity in Babylon. Israel had been taken into captivity around 586 BC by the Babylonians as punishment from God for their disobedience to His law given at Sinai. As prophesied, after 70 years, the Medo-Persians allowed Israel to return to their homeland and rebuild the temple. They completed this with God’s blessing and then rebuilt Jerusalem as well. The writing of Malachi occurs approximately 75-100 years after the initiation of the aforementioned rebuilding.

In chapter one, the prophet Malachi declared God had shown Israel His love by favoring them since the time of their forefather Jacob. Sadly, Israel did not honor God and could not acknowledge their ungrateful behaviors. Their sacrifices to God were blind, sick, and lame beasts, unacceptable even to earthly officials. They were weary of properly reverencing the God of heaven who had returned them to the Promised Land. Perhaps they believed worship and service to God was simply a matter of convenience? They overlooked God’s loving commands and viewed their actions as right in their own eyes.

In chapter 2, Malachi condemned the priests and people of Israel for failing to preserve the word of God, teach the Law, and keep His commandments (vs. 7-9). The prophet declared they were married to worldliness. A Godly marriage seeks Godly offspring, and this is produced by two Godly parents, not a union of one serving worldliness and the other devoted to holiness. The Bible never speaks well of marriage between believers and unbelievers (Genesis 6; Exodus 34; 1 Kings 10; Ezra 10; 2 Corinthians 6). Israel had been commanded to not take foreign wives. The spiritual understanding is: do not associate with that in opposition to God. In the Christian Dispensation, God has sanctified the union of a believer and unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:12-14), but he does not authorize or accept worldliness in service to Him (Colossians 3:17).

Chapter 3 (with the previous atrocities in view) discusses the prophecy of John the immerser, the coming of Christ, the establishment of spiritual Judah and Jerusalem (the church), and the ultimate destruction of those who were behaving in the manner of physical Israel. Therefore, God, through Malachi, called Israel to repent and stop robbing Him. Israel failed to recognize their sin and questioned a need to return to God. Of course, the robbing occurred through Israel not giving the Lord what He had commanded in the form of spiritual and physical service as required by the Law of Moses (Deuteronomy 10:12). It is the idea of “robbing God” that we want to now take a moment to consider and apply to our lives today.

While it would be easy to focus upon how the world is robbing God, they are a secondary concern for the moment. (1) They are not as likely to be reading these words. (2) It is improper service by those recognized as God’s people that is in view with the concept of robbery in Malachi. Are Churches robbing God today? As with physical Israel, it is certain most Christians would respond in the negative. How could a person be condemned by declaring Christ, assembling, singing, giving, partaking of the Lord’s Supper, praying, and listening to His Word? The answer is broken up into two aspects: spirit and truth (John 4:24). God has always desired that worship and service to him be from the heart and according to His command. Herein is where failure to adhere to God’s authority is found.

Perhaps the “truth” of our service to God is easiest to determine as to whether or not it is seen as robbery. Regarding assembled worship: is it occurring when and how God has directed (Acts 20:7)? Is there reverence or a visible lack of honor that would be frowned upon by even a man expecting something above what is common (1 Peter 1:16)? Is there singing or playing (Ephesians 5:19)? Is a component of assembly missing altogether (such as intermittent partaking of the Lord’s Supper rather than each first day of the week – 1 Corinthians 11:26)? Is prayer focused upon God or upon man (Luke 18:11)? Is it God’s Word being shared or the teachings and traditions of man (Galatians 1:6-10)? These behaviors can be keenly addressed and examined against the scriptures to determine if the offering will be considered acceptable or robbery in God’s eyes.

The state of our “spirit” in serving God is more difficult to ascertain. Man is not God who can read the heart (Jeremiah 17:10). However, it is true actions and words are a good indicator of what is in the heart (Luke 6:45). If one finds worship “boring,” then we have a warning sign. If the individual embraces sinful activities or promotes sinful activity as acceptable, there is likely a heart problem (1 Corinthians 15:33). If the commands of God are suggested to be too restrictive or legalistic, the spirit may likely not be engaged. If what is good and holy is belittled or mocked, then the soul of that individual is probably not tuned to following God, but instead is seeking out the desires of the flesh. When a person comes to God and is transformed, it is because there has been a mental change, and he desires to follow Christ (Romans 12:1-2). The old man has died. The new man is a possession of Christ. Not being a living sacrifice to Him is robbery.

The final portion of Malachi Chapter 3 and then Chapter 4, affirms that those who have “discerned between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth Him not” will be cared for by God. However, those who do not turn to God will be trodden down. Extended from physical Israel to the whole world, this is a promise that God, who is faithful, considers those who rob Him and fail to honor Him as He is due shall be held accountable.
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