20/08/2019
For the WOULD - BE COUPLE
Sometimes in an attempt to have a tushed and polished wedding ceremony, we take people we don't need from the wedding reception into our covenant marriage. This is what gives your uncle the confidence to act like he has an opinion over the matters in your marriage because he sponsored your wedding cake. This is why your relatives act like they are entitled to giving you marriage advice because if not for them you wouldn't have had a venue for your larvish wedding party.
I have met inlaws who intrude into the issues of a newly wed with the entitled mentality of "I sponsored his wedding suit, he knows my opinion has to count."
Oh preserved generation, it is better to have a loud marriage than a loud wedding. Your wedding is supposed to stop certain people from gaining access to your marriage, not open more doors for them to come in.
So, uncle has become the spiritual instructor for your marriage, it's him you take your family issues to for advice. You didn't choose him because you had the leading of the Spirit to do so. You didn't choose him because he has a fantastic marriage with visible evidence worthy of emulation. You choose him because he was the father of the day at your wedding. You choose him because you know he can break kola with N200,000. You choose him as your marriage adviser because you needed someone who can launch the cutting of cake at your wedding with N100,000. You know he isn't full of the spirit, you know he isnt fit to stand as your adviser, but you wanted a suitable chairman of the occasion. This is how we take people we don't need into our marriage, people who are not in God's plan for our marriage, because they fit perfectly into our plans of a LOUD WEDDING.
Oh preserved generation!
I don't know about you, but it ends with me!
This foolishness, this ignorance, it ends with me.
Walking faithlessly into a covenant marriage ends with me!
I will never let worldly expectations distract me from the requirements of my covenant marriage.
Is somebody catching this?