18/02/2020
SECRETS OF WOMANHOOD!!!đ„
1.A GOOD WOMAN IS A HAPPY WOMAN!!!
Deep within the heart of every good woman is a sincere desire to be the very best woman she can be.A good woman wants to be strong, stable, and have good character. She longs to be a person of substance, possessing all the qualities of the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31. Her goal is to be a wonderful wife and mother, and a faithful friend and neighbor. Most of all, there is a continual yearning within her being to bring delight to her heavenly Father. For every woman, this desire is the key to great victory and peace.
To achieve any kind of real and lasting happiness, a woman must put God first. The Lord must be her first love; and she must depend upon Him for everything. Her faith must be an active faith which she lives dailyânot just on Sunday morning. Her daily prayer life must reflect her total dependence upon God to change her own heart, her husband, her children, and her circumstances. A wise woman understands that human love can never measure up to or take the place of her first love which is Christ Himself. She also realizes that her own love, even at its best, is inadequate unless she is drawing her resources from the One who is the very essence of love. This woman knows without any doubt that true happiness can only come from her deep love and dependence upon God.
*The Bible has much to say about the qualities of goodness that must be woven into the heart of a woman of God. Bible women were not born good; they were formed into good women by many long, difficult trials, but only as they yielded, submitted, and allowed God to work deep within them. So, too, must it be with women of today. We cannot expect to attain unto the qualities of a good woman by our own strength. Only the qualities of Christ working within us can bring us into goodness.*
*2.A HAPPY WOMAN IS A FULFILLED WOMAN!!!*
*Women function in many areas of life and do very well. But as we study the Word of God, we see a definite pattern emerging. Great Bible women (and also those of lesser position) usually had a supporting role as a wife, mother, or homemaker. It would seem, also, that in most cases, this was her greatest calling in life. This is the place where she received the most fulfillment, because this is the place God had chosen for her. Therefore, as we study women of the Bible, we can learn from them valuable lessons that will inspire, convict, and challenge us to become better wives, mothers, and homemakers.*
*God has created women for a specific purpose. In a positive way, she is to influence, encourage,produce, and nurture a godly atmosphere in her home. The world needs good, happy, fulfilled women who know and understand that they were born to bring pleasure to another; who gladly yield their own will and preferences when necessary, and who know what it means to sacrifice for the sake of others, even when it leads to their own discomfort.*
*3.A FULFILLED WOMAN IS A VIRTUOUS WOMAN!!!*
*True fulfillment comes from being a virtuous woman like the woman of Proverbs 31. This is a woman at her best. What is a virtuous woman? Virtue defined is a Hebrew word that means âstrength,power, or stability.â It comes from the same root word that is used for the character of good judges.*
*In the time of the judges, these men were able men, qualified for the business for which they were called. They were men of truth who feared the Lord (Ex. 38:21). So, too, is the virtuous woman.*
*She is a woman of spirit, and her spirit has command of her soul. She is pious, industrious, and fears the Lord. She is a helpmate to her husband, and resolute and firm in the principles of justice.*
*Proverbs 31:10 asks, âWho can find a virtuous woman?â This suggests to us that virtuous women are hard to find, and that many who seem to be virtuous, really are not. Yet, the more rare, certainly the more they are to be valued. Proverbs chapter 31 aptly describes her. She has a value âfar above rubies.â She is praised by her children who ârise up and call her blessed.â Her preeminence is clear, for Proverbs also tells us that among other women she âexcels them all.â Her secret to spiritual success is that she is âa woman who fears the Lord.â This is the beginning of wisdom (Job 28:28).*
*What are the qualities of a virtuous woman?*
*First and foremost she is a good woman. She is a morally pure woman. The fear of the Lord completes and crowns her character. In all she does, she is truly a spiritual person who is guided and governed by God and His principles. The fear of God reigns in her heart and has become the beauty of her soul. She is proficient in all she does, and a diligent workerââshe worketh willingly with her hands.â She is prudentâshe considereth ⊠and then buyeth.â She behaves uprightlyââstrength and honor are her clothing.â*
*Secondly, a good woman is a good wife:*
*She makes it her business to please her husband. Although she is a woman of spirit herself, her desire is toward her husband. She will desire to know his mind so that she may accommodate him and make him happy. She understands her husbandâs role as the head of the home and welcomes this protection. She possesses a quiet spirit, and her husband is confident that she will speak and act appropriately on behalf of all of their affairs. She is discreet in conversations regarding her husband so that her husband is never damaged or reproached. She continually,shows her love to him, not in just a physical way, but by not crossing his will or provoking his anger.She encourages her husband often, not just when she feels like it. By her cheerfulness, she makes him cheerful. She strives to be all that her husband needs her to be. She seeks her husbandâs goodââshe will do him good all the days of her life.â She keeps his confidenceââthe heart of her husband doth safely trust in her.â She aids his reputationââher husband is known at the gates.â*
*Thirdly, she is a good mother:*
*She loves her home and has satisfaction in serving in any way she can. She hates idleness. She is careful to fill up her time so that none of it is lost. She applies herself only to the business that is proper for her, for she is submitted to her husband and that which he desires from her. She strives to work with her hands so that she can get the best and the cheapest prices for clothing and household items. Most importantly, she does all these tasks with cheerfulness and with purpose. She never thinks that being a homemaker is robbing her of liberty or individuality.*
*She knows what skill she has that will bring the largest return back to her family. She does not meddle in the affairs of others, for she realizes that she has only enough time and energy to deal with her own. She dresses her family wisely: âshe is not afraid of snow for her household.â She feeds her family well: âshe rises up and giveth meat to her household.â She shops sensibly: âshe bringeth food from afar.â She knows her labors bring benefits: âshe perceives her merchandise is good.â She is never idle: âshe looketh well to the ways of her household.â She loves her home and gives her allââher candle goes not out by night.â*
*Fourthly, the virtuous woman is a good neighbor:*
*She is discreet and obliging in all conversations.She is dependable, honest, and not over-talkative. When she does open her mouth, it is filled with wisdom. She understands the need for a quiet spirit but also realizes that this does not always mean a quiet tone or a whisper. She is not a sheepish person, but aggressive in a good sense. At times the virtuous woman knows she must become as bold as a lion. Yet, she conducts herself by the rules of wisdom. She gives good advice to others, not with the authority of a dictator or as one who is always teaching others, but with the affection of a friend. She is also governed by the law of kindness which flows from her mouth continually. The law of love is written within her heart. Together, her wisdom and her kindness puts a quiet authority in all she does and says. She is confident and hopeful, and her words command respect as well as complianceââhow forcible are right words.â (cf. Job 6:26).*
*A virtuous woman is important and priceless to God. She is a rare treasure. Actually, God looks for these qualities in the lives of all His people. Christ is developing a bride for Himself. May God help us to model our lives after this woman who typifies the Bride of Christ.*