Esther’sgeneration416

08/10/2026

I have this uncle that I’m very close to, and we talk a lot. He tells me things about men and relationships—things that, if a man starts behaving a certain way towards me, I should already understand what is going on.

There is something this uncle of mine always tells me. He says, “Favour, lack of money in marriage can make you cheat on your husband.”

And he would tell me about some of the married women he has been involved with in the past. According to him, some of them come to him because they need financial help. Their children are sick. There are problems at home. Their husbands cannot provide for certain things. And sometimes, these women become willing to submit to him just because he is able to solve their financial problems.

Now, anytime I talk about not settling for less, a lot of people look at me somehow.

But the truth is, I am not willing to become a person I don't want to become because of marriage.

I always tell people that marriage can either make you see heaven or make you feel like you're in hell. And I'm not saying marriage is supposed to be perfect or that there won't be difficult seasons. No. But if I'm getting married, I want to get married with the hope that I can serve God without constantly being pushed into compromising the values I had as a single woman.

I don't want to enter marriage and then discover that marriage has turned me into the exact person I refused to become when I was single.

And it's not even just about cheating on my husband.

For instance, how can I start going back to my ex or somebody I have known in the past to ask for financial help when I'm married?

Honestly, one of the first things I think about is: How will that person look at my husband?

I'm not married yet, but I already have this kind of respect in my heart for my future husband. I wouldn't want someone to look down on my husband because I had to come to that person for help.

Imagine going to someone who knows my husband and saying, “Please, I need money. My child is sick. I need to solve this family problem.”

And then imagine becoming so desperate that you're even willing to compromise your body just to get that help.

How will that person respect my husband afterwards?

These are some of the things I think about.

So when I say I don't want to deliberately enter a marriage where both of us are going to struggle financially, it is not because I am afraid of suffering.

I am not afraid of suffering.

I know that life happens. A man can lose his job. A business can fail. Unexpected things can happen. I understand that.

But there is a difference between going through a difficult season with someone who has vision, capacity, responsibility and a plan for the future, and deliberately entering a marriage with someone when you already know that there is no financial direction and both of you are going to constantly struggle.

Because there are certain circumstances that can arise in a family where money is needed urgently.

And when you're not financially okay, sometimes you will have to beg.

As a single woman, if things become difficult and I don't want to ask anyone for help, I can decide to endure that season. I can manage. I can find another way.

And honestly, as a single woman, I can ask someone from my past for help if I need it. There are people who have been in my life that I have also helped before. There is nothing strange about asking for help when you're single.

But marriage changes certain boundaries.

When I become someone's wife, there are certain things I don't see myself doing anymore.

And the biggest thing is this:

No mother will sit down and watch her child die simply because she doesn't want to ask somebody for help when she knows there is an option available.

That's why I think some of us are scared.

It's not that we are scared of suffering.

We are scared of the kind of decisions extreme financial pressure can force us to make.

We are scared of entering a marriage where our values will constantly be tested by circumstances.

So when I say I don't want to settle for less, please understand what I mean.

I'm not saying I need a man who has everything today.

I'm saying I want to be able to look at the man I'm marrying and see vision, responsibility, capacity, wisdom and potential.

Because I don't just want to marry a man.

I want to marry someone with whom I can build a life without constantly being afraid of what desperation might make either of us become.
Esther’sgeneration416

07/10/2026

Who you become is in your hands

Esther’sgeneration416

06/10/2026

When I started my page, Voice of Zion, I was posting back-to-back content about God—preaching, teaching, encouragement, everything.

But after some time, I noticed that my views were small. The comments were few. The people engaging with the kind of content I was creating were also few.

And honestly, I got discouraged.

I started looking at the numbers. I started wondering, “Is anybody even listening? Is this content making any impact?”

And eventually, I stopped.

But not too long ago, while asking God for divine direction concerning my life in this particular season, God took me back.

He reminded me of something:

“You were doing a good job until you started thinking it was about you, instead of remembering that I sent you to the people I sent you to.”

Then He took me to Ezekiel chapter 3.

God called Ezekiel and gave him a message for a particular people. And one thing became very clear to me from that passage:

Ezekiel's responsibility was to deliver the message. The people's response was not his responsibility.

Whether they listened or refused to listen, whether they accepted the message or rejected it, whether they responded or ignored him—the message still had to be delivered.

And that changed my mentality completely.

I realized that sometimes, we become so obsessed with views, likes, comments, shares, followers and applause that we forget why God sent us in the first place.

If God gives you a message, deliver it.

Even if it feels like you are speaking to an empty room.

Even if only a few people are watching.

Even if nobody comments.

Even if nobody shares it.

Even if the algorithm does not favor it.

Deliver the message.

Because the person who listens is not your responsibility.

The person who changes is not your responsibility.

The number of people who respond is not your responsibility.

Your responsibility is obedience.

God is the One who deals with the heart.

So, as I speak to you today, I am resuming my content.

Whatever inspiration God gives me, I will share it.

Whatever He puts in my heart to teach, I will teach it.

Whatever message He gives me, I will deliver it.

I don't care who listens.

I don't care who reacts.

I don't care how many views it gets.

I don't care whether the numbers are big or small.

All I know is that the message of God must be passed across.

Acts 1:8 says:

«“But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me…”»

I am not here primarily to become popular.

I am here to be a witness.

And if God has sent me, then I must go.

If He has given me a message, then I must speak.

If He has given me a platform, then I must use it.

The message must be delivered.

And the response?

That is God's responsibility.
Esther’sgeneration416

05/10/2026

05/10/2026

Know the nature of God
Dunamis International Gospel Centre
Dr. Paul Enenche
Esther’sgeneration416

05/10/2026

One lesson I learned from the movie Love and Run is this:produce by Joshua Clinton

The devil doesn’t just strike a family randomly. He first looks, searches, and discovers a loophole.

Look at what happened in the movie.

Calista entered a family that already had a very strong bond. She realized that simply coming into the family and trying to scatter them would not be easy. So, she started looking for their weaknesses.

First, she discovered Daniel’s desperation to become the CEO of his father’s company. She knew how badly he wanted that position, so she used that desire against him.

She told him that the company had been willed to his eldest brother. She understood that this information would trigger his insecurity and desperation.

Then she discovered that the eldest brother had feelings for her. So she used that too.

She told him that Daniel was also in love with her and even lied that Daniel was threatening her job and trying to get their mother to sack her.

She gathered information about each person, studied their weaknesses, and used those weaknesses against them.

Notice something:

She didn't attack the family first. She attacked what was holding the family together.

The family had love.
They had unity.
They had trust.
They had a strong bond.

So she knew that if she could break the trust between the brothers, they would begin fighting among themselves. And once everyone stopped looking out for one another, she could strike deeper.

And eventually, she made the accusation against their father.

That was the beginning of an even greater breakdown.

This movie reminded me that sometimes, the enemy doesn't need to destroy you directly. If he can create division within you, your family, your relationships, or your community, you may end up destroying what was once protecting you.

That is why we must guard our hearts, our relationships, our families, and our unity.

Not every information you receive should be believed immediately.
Not every accusation should be acted upon immediately.
Not every emotion should be allowed to control your decisions.

Discernment is important.

And there is another lesson I took from this movie:

Life is not all about revenge.

Sometimes, when you dig deeper and deeper because you want revenge, you may eventually discover things you wish you had never known. And some things, once discovered, can change you forever.

Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was right. But sometimes, choosing revenge can cost you more than the person you're trying to hurt.

Honestly, this movie is a 10/10 for me.

Well done, Joshua Clayton. 👏🏽
Joshua Clinton

03/10/2026

Not every problem requires you binding devil,sometimes do this
Dr. Paul Enenche
Dunamis International Gospel Centre

03/10/2026

By the wisdom of God,arise and take your place
Dr. Paul Enenche
Dunamis International Gospel Centre

28/09/2026

When I gave my life to Christ, I had a lot of flaws.

And till today, there is one thing I can boldly say I conquered, and by God’s grace, I have never gone back to it: listening to secular music.

Before I became a believer, I didn't really have a standard when it came to music. I listened to gospel songs, secular songs—basically anything that was trending and that I liked. I even used some of those songs for my videos and posts. I was just living randomly.

But when I encountered Christ, I began to discover that there were certain things in my life that did not align with God’s standards.

Yet, knowing something was wrong didn't automatically make me stop.

I continued listening to secular music until one faithful day in church, when Pastor Paul Enenche was preaching and quoted Romans 10:17:

“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”

That statement struck something in me.

I went home and began to meditate on it.

I started asking myself: What am I constantly allowing into my spirit? What am I repeatedly hearing? What am I feeding myself with?

And I began noticing something.

There were times I listened to certain secular songs and noticed that my mind and even my dreams seemed affected. But when I consistently listened to godly music and messages, I noticed that I experienced a greater sense of peace and my mind was being directed toward God.

That made me realize something:

What you consistently consume can influence what eventually manifests through you.

So from that moment, I began withdrawing from secular music.

And today, if there is one area of my life where I can say, “God helped me overcome this, and I have not gone back,” it is this.

I genuinely enjoy gospel music now.

And this is what I came to tell someone today:

Be careful about what you constantly consume.

If you consistently read the Word of God, sooner or later, the Word will begin to shape the way you think, speak, respond, and live.

If you consistently listen to godly messages, your understanding begins to change.

Even outside Christianity, whatever you constantly expose yourself to can influence your thoughts, values, language, and behavior. That is why you must be intentional about what you allow to become your daily diet.

The Bible says:

“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” — Romans 10:17

You cannot continually fill yourself with something and expect it to have no influence on you.

So, child of God, stick with God. Stick with His Word.

Listen to godly music.
Listen to messages that draw you closer to Christ.
Read the Scriptures.
Meditate on the Word.

And gradually, you will begin to see the Word producing fruit in your life.

Before you know it, you will begin to manifest Christ consciously and even unconsciously.

God bless you, and have a wonderful weekend.

A generation that loves her Father. 🤍

Peace.
Esther’sgeneration416
Dr. Paul Enenche
Dunamis International Gospel Centre

26/09/2026

Tell me one thing you know about this man