17/10/2026
๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ
๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด. ๐๐ฆ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ. ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ฆ.
Oxford Dictionary may disagree, but the heart speaks a different language.
And in that language, these four words are synonyms for one word:
"๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ"
Let me ask youโฆ
If love had to prove itself in court, what would it say?
A Saudi judge faced a case that must have made that question feel very real.
Two brothers went to court.
Not over land or an inheritance their father had left behind.
They went to court over their mother.
Each insisting that he should be the one to care for their elderly mother.
The older brother had remained unmarried and had spent much of his life with her.
The younger brother had a family and a household that he believed could offer her more support.
Both wanted her. Neither wanted to let go.
The judge eventually asked the mother to choose.
She smiled and replied:
โThey are both my eyes; one is my left eye, and the other is my right. You decide which eye I should use.โ
SubhanaLlah
There are things no courtroom can weigh.
No judge can place a mother's love on a scale.
No ruling can explain what it means to be carried before you can walk, to be fed before you can feed yourself, or to be loved through years when you are too young to understand what that love costs.
Yet sometimes, we grow old enough to understand everything except the value of the person who gave us so much.
Here is the strange thing about mothers:
They can spend twenty years worrying about a child who has grown tall enough to look down at them.
You could be a doctor, a professor, a man with a salary and a house of your own. But to her, some part of you will always be that little child she once carried on her back.
And somehow, she never seems to get tired of it.
You get older. Her concern doesn't.
Imagine dear readerโฆ
If mum had kept a record of everything she ever did for you.
Imagine if she sent you the bill today.
No, don't rush to do the math. You canโt
There is no amount you could transfer, no gift you could buy, no number of years you could spend caring for her could ever fully repay what she gave you.
But perhaps the greatest tragedy is not that we can never repay our mothers.
It is that we sometimes fail to realize what we have been given while we still have it.
There is a reason the Prophet ๏ทบ, when asked who deserved the best companionship, named the mother first. Then again. And again. Three times before he mentioned the father.
Three times, dear reader.
As though one mention could not carry the weight of her sacrifice.
And somewhere in that repetition is a question we ought to sit with: if the Messenger of Allah gave her that place, what place have we given her in our own lives?
๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด. ๐๐ฆ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ. ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ฆ.
Four words.
Still, not enough.
And I wonder, what would change if we carried those words into our daily lives?
Would we stop acting as though loving our mothers is something we can always do later?
If your mother is still alive...
Please, don't make her compete with your notifications, your plans, your friends, or the endless demands of a world that will never be satisfied with your time.
The world can wait a little.
Call her, even when you have nothing important to say.
Sit with her. Listen to her. Let her feel, without having to ask, that she still matters deeply to you.
And if she has already gone back to Allah, then remember her with the one gift you can still send her:
Sincere du'ฤ.
Ask Allah to forgive her and envelop her in mercy.
Let your own obedience and good deeds become part of the legacy she leaves behind.
๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด. ๐๐ฆ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ. ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ฆ.
May Allah have mercy on our mothers, the living and the departed; and grant them the highest place in Jannah.
Aameen.
By: Abdul-mumin
Editor-in-chief โ๐ผ
ยฉ๏ธ ๐๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ, ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ก ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐ก๐