Love ,singles and married - L.S.M

25/01/2026

𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗖𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗢𝗳𝗳 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗘𝘅𝗲𝘀

People often say:

💬 “We’re just friends now.”

💬 “There are no feelings anymore.”

💬 “I’m mature enough to handle it.”

💬 “We ended on good terms.”

💬 “I don’t want unnecessary drama.”

💬 “Cutting off feels insecure or controlling.”

💬 “We’ve known each other for years.”

💬 “Nothing inappropriate is happening.”

💬 “I shouldn’t have to erase my past.”

💬 “My partner should trust me.”

On the surface, many of these sound reasonable.

But wisdom asks deeper questions… 🤔

𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗮 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿 — 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂? 👇

Drop your thoughts in the comments — let’s have a respectful conversation. 🗣️💭

12/12/2025

𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝘆 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 — 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀. 👇

𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗦𝗬 𝗔𝗧 𝗛𝗢𝗠𝗘
𝑆ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑌𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑇ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ𝑡𝑠…

A young woman told her husband:

“𝐼 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑝𝑜𝑜𝑟.”

Not because she loves poverty — but because the moneyed version of him became a stranger.

He now ignores her feelings.
He comes home whenever he wants.
He hides under “business meetings” to see other women.
And as long as he drops money at home, he believes he has fulfilled all duties.

She once thought money would fix everything.
Growing up poor, she pressured him endlessly:

“We need more money.”
“Do something.”
“Try harder.”

And he did.
But in doing so, he entered shady deals he would never disclose.

Now the money has come.
But peace has gone.

Was money the problem?
No.
Money only exposed the real issue — 𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿.

A woman should inspire her man, not pressure him.
But a man who loses his integrity to gain money has already lost far more.

At the end of the day:

𝗔 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝗼𝗿𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆.

“The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.”
— Proverbs 19:22

10/12/2025

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07/12/2025

Money is not evil. Money and Marriage are friends. However, if you don't have the right money mindset, you'll turn it into an enemy of your relationship and marriage.

07/12/2025

𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗣𝗔𝗬 𝗥𝗘𝗡𝗧.
Love doesn’t.

Emotional love is beautiful, but it does not pay bills, raise children, or build stability.

If you’re thinking marriage, 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗞 𝗠𝗢𝗡𝗘𝗬 𝗧𝗢𝗢.

𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗱 — 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆.

You don’t need to be a millionaire.
You don’t need to impress anybody.

But you DO need:

• 𝗮 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲
• 𝗮 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻
• 𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻
• 𝗮 𝗯𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱
• 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆𝗹𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻

Marriages break not because love failed —
but because finance was ignored.

𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀.
𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲.

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05/12/2025

Marry based on facts and principles, not feelings alone.

Marriage is work, not luck - it's discretion, not merely emotion.

27/06/2025

Fun dating is taking from your future. Intentional and smart dating secures your future.

You are booking dating appointments to catch fun but you don't have books on relationships and marriage to date the right person, date right, marry the right person and marry right.

Let me help you before it's too late.

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07/03/2025

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28/02/2024

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26/06/2023

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