20/03/2026
Parable of Ten Virgins tells in Gospel of Matthew 25.
Ten women. Ten lamps. All had light.
But not all had oil.
From the outside, they looked identical. No one in the crowd could tell the difference. They all carried lamps. They all had a flame at first. They all looked ready for the bridegroom.
But the real difference was hidden.
The lamp is what people see.
The oil is what God sees.
The lamp is visible faith—church attendance, worship songs, the words we say, the verses we post, the image of devotion people can easily recognize. Those things are not wrong; they are part of the lamp.
Oil is the private life with God.
It is the prayer no one hears.
The repentance no one applauds.
The obedience when doing the right thing costs something.
The five wise women carried extra oil because they understood something the others didn’t: faith has to last longer than the moment. The flame can start bright for everyone, but only those with oil can keep burning when the night grows long.
Reputation cannot sustain you.
Public spirituality cannot sustain you.
The applause of others cannot sustain you.
Only oil can.
And oil cannot be borrowed.
In the story, the foolish women asked the wise ones to share their oil. But some things in faith cannot be transferred from person to person. You cannot live on someone else’s prayer life. You cannot rely forever on someone else’s devotion, someone else’s conviction, someone else’s relationship with God.
At some point, the flame must be sustained by your own oil.
So the real question is not how bright your lamp looks today.
The question is whether you are cultivating oil in the quiet places of your life.
