27/08/2020
No! Don't conclude yet!
When l was a single, l do ask myself many questions, why my mum do somethings, it really baffles me. But you know what, we can't even fight back just cos ready-made answers are always with her.
My mum will give us food, and she don't want to hear," l want more" 😅😅èéh, want more ke? 😝😝😝. By the time she turn her face toward you,🙄🙄🙄you just go mute 🤭🤭🤭.
And am always like, cant someone just ask for more food ni, in our own house.
And within a twinkle of an eye, you just see people coming in unannounced, and my mum will bring out the same food she refuse to serve us, serve them all the food. Ahh??? 🙆♀🙆♀🤦♀. You know you just become speechless.
I never understand why my mum loves given, and serving people all the time, and you know what, This just get me annoyed.
Until l got married 8years ago, and this things becomes so real to me, l just discovered that, people flows in and out of my house, people that really needs help and need to be feed, l have no choice but to meet the needs of all this people,and l have watched my children as well, they look at me with so much amazement, l guess what they thinking, like "what's happening to this woman"😂😘😍
Sister, don't ever judge anyone, especially when you are not in their shoes, have seen people accuse me, "Ah mama, you didn't even check on us, you did not even ask if we have eaten, Mama, can't you see dis , see that"
Do you know that most times when these people accuse me, l cry and cry, You know why! Cos, l sleep without food most time even with my little kids, Most times l can't even afford airtime of #100,and yet someone would call and accuse me of not checking on them, l have lived without a dine for weeks rolling to month, and yet l have seen pple calling me names because l could not give them the money, they asked from me.
Learn to be calm when things happen, learn to be calm when people fails you,yeah, learn to calm down, when people could not fulfill there promises again. Please be calm, yes be calm, learn the act of been calm.
Things most times are not always the ways you see then,most times we all just dress well and apply makeup, not because we are buoyant or happy, but just to make someone smile when they see me, believing surely that God is good, to give hope that person, who is loosing it. Don't believe all those post of pictures on people's Facebook, Instagram etc pages, many of them are just doing that to be relevant, just to hear people's accolades, and to beat down boredom etc.
Don't use their physical appearance to judge, they might not be where you think they are, calm down sister.
They might not be what you think they are, yeah!
Don't judge! Don't think for them!! Don't conclude yet!!!
Have a Blessed day.
