06/08/2018
WHY GOOD WOMEN MARRY BAD
MEN
Someone once asked me, "Why
do good women end up
marrying bad men while spoilt,
rotten brats go home with the
enviable, godly guys?" I smiled.
These "good" women are most
times who psychologists call
sanguines/ phlegmatics. They are
the soft spoken, gracious, easy
going, gentle, always smiling,
never hurt a fly and never angry
type of women. They are the kind
of women who would never
retaliate when anyone hurts
them. They bear pressure sweetly
no matter how boiling it is and
will never oppose you or tell you
NO!
Though these women appear
great on the surface, they have
major weaknesses and the chief
of them is stubbornness. They
have the will of an iron! If they
are virgins as singles, they add
pride to their feathers which
make them self opinionated,
myopic, proud, selective and
adamant, these weaknesses are
the exact reasons they marry
wrong! Almost all san/phleg,
phleg/san women I know marry
wrong husbands and suffer
greatly in the marriage!
Most of them appear religious
though they are shallow and do
not have a deep intimate
relationship with Christ, hear Him
clearly and pick the right man.
Their pride and stubbornness
also make them deaf to
correction and wise counsel.
Though the whole world tell
them the man they are marrying
is wrong for them, they are hell
bent on marrying him! They do
this passively though. They will
smile sweetly, tell you they've
heard what you said and do the
exact opposite. Once a san/
phleg's mind is made up, only the
God of heaven can change it!
In marriage, they continue with
their weaknesses of being proud
and stubborn, driving their
husbands mad and they are
masters at nagging to the point
of infuriating the man who may
end up beating them!
The "bad" women are usually the
cholerics. These are the hard
drivers, goal getters who are
blunt, straight forward and do
not take nonsense! Because they
have practical minds and know
exactly what they want, they go
home with their opposites: the
gentle phlegmatic guys whosgentle phlegmatic guys whose
gentleness melt their hearts
making them submissive and
loving towards their husbands.
Character is what determines
whether someone is good or
bad, it's not the face, charisma or
the personality displayed in
public!
Some women look so gentle and
innocent outside but inside they
are snakes!They are more
wicked than vampires and bite at
any slight provocation!
Some women look tough but are
very soft, accommodating and
tender at heart.
And there are women who are
soft on the surface and still soft
at heart, likewise women who
are hard on the surface and still
wicked at heart. There are good
san/phleg women, likewise bad
cholerics. Let God show you the
real person you are marrying.
You can't use looks to judge who
a good wife is. "For man looks at
the outward appearance but God
looks at the heart". That is why
you seriously need to pray as a
young man to know who God's
will is for your life. If you use
your little brain to pick a bride,
you will fail miserably!
Marriage is not a child's play. Get
close to God and let Him pick the
best for you. You will not
mischoose in Jesus name. God
bless you. Cheers!
MY ADVICE TO THE YOUTH,
Especially Faith Deliverance