Breakfast Hour with God

19/08/2024

*She asked a question in a general Group on a WhatsApp platform*.
I responded to the question professionally.

She tagged my response and typed: *"you're an idiot"*

Upon thinking through her response, I calmly replied: *"Thanks so much. Now that you have pointed out my attention to this idiotic part of me, I'll surely work on it, God bless you my dear..."*

*And the whole platform shook. Over 118 people commented. They were so surprised by my calm response. Of course she was terribly bashed to the extent that she "left" the Group.*

*An hour later she called me to apologise* for how stupid she's been etc. I forgave her and we became friends.

Then I later ended up handling her premarital counselling sessions.

Two days ago, on my Birthday, she and her husband surprised me with a gift worth over $10,000. This was a year after she called me an idiot.

*Life Lessons from this experience:*

*1. MATURITY:* Your reaction to negative feedbacks or situations shows how mature you are.

*2. CHOICE:* You have the power of choice whenever anybody does or says anything offensive to you.

*3. SELF CONTROL:* If someone calls you anything negative and you lose yourself and begin to fight or shout or do anything terrible, you only prove them right.

*4. SILENCE IS GOLDEN:* It is better to keep quiet and let people think you're a fool, than to open your mouth to enable them confirm you're truly a fool.

*5. DISCERNMENT:* You cannot throw both the baby and the dirty water away from the bathing bowl because the baby had pooed in the bath water.

*6. POSITIVE POWER:* You have the power to win people through your maturity and composure and not through overly being more sanctimonious than the person.

*7. POSITIVE IMPACT:* Life is all about people. If I had responded to her negatively, I would have lost a friend forever.

*8. WISDOM:* There are people who are sent to you by God to help your journey in life to be worthwhile, your meeting point might be at a fighting point. Be wise, even when you're angry.

*9. HUMILITY:* She was humble enough to call and apologized.

*10. RECONCILIATION:* Maybe there's someone you need to reconcile with today, go ahead and do just that.

We can all get Better with Ourselves, with these 10 key lessons.

Check yourself, how do you react to actions?

19/08/2024

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings
5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE -

01/04/2023

APRIL FOOL!!!
Am yet to be convinced about the word "April Fool" who is fooling who? Can somebody just tell me. When you indulged yourself in this act you become a great liar and the bible made me to understand in the book of Revelation 21:8 KJV
But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Brethren, why should you choose hell and discard heaven by mere joke that turned you to be a liar before your maker? Life and death is placed before you today, the first day in the month of April, the month that symbolized the death and resurrection of our Saviour who died so that you will not taste the second death, Think well about this as for me and my household we choose life so that we can live forever in eternity.
Are you still engaging your self among the fools who are heading towards hell. Pls, rethink, and retrace your steps back to JESUS the saviour of the world and He will surely save you and you will make it to heaven.
STOP TELLING LIES UNDER THE DISGUISE OF APRIL FOOL AND WATCH WHAT YOU USE YOUR TONGUE TO SAY AND CLEAN YOUR HEART WITH THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS.
Welcome to the new month and be blessed in Jesus name.

16/12/2021

Hi friends, sorry for our silence for awhile, we shall be out afresh by 2022.

Sharing the words of God

20/03/2020

Psalm 91:1-16 KJV
He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. [2] I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust. [3] Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence. [4] He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler. [5] Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day; [6] Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday. [7] A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee. [8] Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked. [9] Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation; [10] There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling. [11] For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways. [12] They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone. [13] Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shalt thou trample under feet. [14] Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name. [15] He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him. [16] With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.

This is our spiritual immunization and it will work for us as we recite it everyday with our family. God will keep us safe because we are his people. Fear not, for God will surely deal with Corona Virus for our sake. The blood of Jesus will defend and protect us all in his matchless name.

15/10/2018

LIVE RIGHT
God has plan for every life. We have not only come into this world to grow, go to school, come out in flying colours; get good jobs; settle into marriage; build houses, acquire wealth and fame and then wait for death. If that were all, then life would only be miserable. Remember we are co-labourers with Jesus in the vine yard of our father(God) in fulfilling His plans and purpose in this world, and He has placed His gifts in our lves to help accomplish His goals. If we go on to live our lives by the goals we have set for ourselves, we will be living the wrong life. We are to live by God's own goals and standard for our lives. However, His plans are usually too big or too difficult for us to handle or comprehend but He is God and He always has a way through those difficulties.
Then, What is the way out? It is to LIVE RIGHT, allowing Christ to dwell in us. The Bible says Eph 4:31 KJV '' Let all bitterness, and wrath and anger, and clamour and evil speaking, be put away from you with all malice'' The apostles tried, but they could not match God's standard which are deposited in His son, Jesus Christ who lived in total submission to the will of the Father, impacting the whole world with God's power. Acts 10:38 KJV
How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for God was with him.
He said, ''father, not my will but yours be done' God showed through Jesus that His standard for us is perfection and we cannot achieve that by ourselves. What He requires from us therefore is to humble ourselves and allow Him to bring out His perfect will in us.
Philippians 4:8 KJV
Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Remain Right with God.
Jesus is coming soon!!!

28/08/2018

I refused to be a fool

08/05/2018

THE DOWN FALL OF A MAN..........
1 Corinthians 10:12-13 KJV
Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. [13] There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

Everyman born into this contemporary world has one trial or temptation to face but if your grace is not sufficient to keep you falling into temptation and you eventually fell, you need not die in it.
Imagine, both Peter and Judas Iscariot fell into temptation, but Peter quickly repented and showed genuine repentance and he forged ahead, but Judas failed to forged ahead even when he realised his sinful act he decided to die in it.
Also, in the book of Judges 16:30 KJV
And Samson said, Let me die with the Philistines. And he bowed himself with all his might; and the house fell upon the lords, and upon all the people that were therein. So the dead which he slew at his death were more than they which he slew in his life.
Samson is another good example, after he fell into his temptation rather than asking for God's grace upon him to rise up and shine again he decided to die with his enemies and in his temptation.
David too had a bitter experience several times but he always prayed to rise and overcome his temptation little wonders that God called him "man of His own heart"
Permit me to mention Joseph as a youth who got into temptation rather than wait to fall in he took to his heels and ran away from it.
Jesus too had His own share from it but He refused to fall in and He became victorious no wonders this bible quotation spoke volume of His victory over the devil. John 16:33 KJV
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
Brethren, where are you now?
1) Have you fallen already? If yes! that's not your end, strengthen up, rise up, cry unto your maker He would deliver you, you are a permanent project in His hand, He can not afford to abandoned you. He will continue to work in you, by you and with you until His aims and objectives are fulfilled.
2) May be you are about falling in? Noooo, say it loud and violently of course that's the only language that Satan understand. Then, be ready to flee from that vicinity and be safe to pray to God.

When a man falls people tends to rejoice over them, whereas the saying goes thus "the fall of a man is not the end of his life if only he is ready to rise and forge ahead". It is a pity such people read the bible with little or no understanding. Bible says
1 Corinthians 10:12 KJV
Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.
All I am saying is everyone has his own strength and weaknesses, but never take the grace of God for granted. Romans 6:1-2 KJV
What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? [2] God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?
Shall we pray please;
1) My father, my father thank you for everything in my life and for the benefits of life I enjoy everyday.
2) My father, my father please as from today take absolute control over my life.
3) Father, by your mercy please forgive all my iniquities.
4) Father, please oh Lord lift me out from the valley of sin and set my feet on a leveled land.
5) Help me Lord to encourage myself like David and to be courageous like Joshua.
Thank you Jesus for the grace to survive the gimmicks of enemies in Jesus mighty name I prayed. Shalom.

19/02/2018

Favor is the currency by which you do little and obtain great results; It is that factor by what others are struggling and sweating to accomplish, are get done by you almost effortlessly. lt is favor that causes someone to be singled out of a multitude for special and pleasant treatment. Divine favor makes someone to be willing to sacrifice their convenience to make you comfortable.
Have you ever experience this in your life? If yes, congratulations more are still coming your ways.
If No, take these steps; Praise Him, Worship Him, Obey Him totally, Preach Jesus, Live Holy and be full of Faith. This season, this week, this month, this year is your set time to be divinely favored.
Psalm 102:13 KJV
Thou shalt arise, and have mercy upon Zion: for the time to favour her, yea, the set time, is come.
May the God heaven and earth favour us all in Jesus mighty name. SHALOM!!!