Family Defence Prayer Conference

01/10/2013

26/09/2013

7 words for a long
and happy marriage
Yes Dear
I am sorry
It's my fault.

26/09/2013

A successful marriage is based
On give & take:

Where husband gives money,
Gifts, dresses n wife takes it

&

Where wife gives advices, lectures,
Tensions & husband takes it..!!

30/08/2013

SOME WAYS TO WAKE YOUR AILING MARRIAGE
1. Recognize that your marriage needs healing, resurrection, improvement est. unless you come to terms with reality, you won’t make any headway.
2. Identify the areas you need healing
(a). Communication in the home? Does it flow or are you having network problems? Is your line congested or busy? Don’t wait to try later insist on breakthrough
(b). Sexuality?
(c). Financial Problems-Management or scarcity?
(d). Dominance?
(e). Separations as a result of business, Job, House etc?
(f). No intimacy? Abandonment, Rejection, Ejection, Dejection?
(g). Interferences by in laws, friends, relations, neighbors or house help?
(h). Childlessness, second wife/husband?
(i). Health problems and lack of care?
3. Begin prayer and fasting today
(a). Give your life to Jesus now and confess all your sins.
(b). Dedicate yourself to reading the bible
(c). seek counsel from matured people of god whose marriage are good examples.
4. Call for family meeting today
(a). Apologize for whatever role you must have wrongly played
(b). seek for the opinion of other stakeholders for family.
(c). Hear them patiently and bring your anger under control
(d). Do not allow the meeting to end in stalement – the devil is a liar.
(e). Be ready to put in everything to make sure that peace reigns. Be ready to sacrifice your rights.
(f). Be consistent in your search for healing, peace, love, victory, breakthrough and reunion.

28/08/2013

3 common problems that leads to Crises in marriage

1. Many children (3+)

Big families are more common in some under developing countries of the world
but still the number of kids in the family must be well thought and planned by couples.

Problems that may arise from this aside from the budget is the lost of privacy and personal space.
Couple may suffer working for the family and kids need alone forgetting about their own needs.

As they strive hard to support the family,
couples forget enjoying each other companionship
and having a little fun that gradually become the cause for marriage in crisis.

Later in their marriage life they will find that they are growing
apart and do not love each other anymore.

The emotions just died down.

2. Being too conscious about what other people say

Image or reputation is everything.
Partners do want to please everybody especially the other people looking at them.

Husbands sometimes are too keen with their status,
image, and what others think that they consider them as more important than
what their own spouse thinks that lead to marriage in crisis.

Gathering comments for decision or plain discussion is good but if you make it as the main basis of your decision rather than your partner then you need to revisit discussions and events and realize that you have ignored your partner fully.

Marriage involves making decisions as partners first considering other people opinions.

Always remember that other people do not govern your life nor strive to work for the success and well-being of your family but you and your partner do need to work so the relationship and the marriage may survive.

3. Too proud to accept wife's opinion

People who are too proud to accept mistakes about their opinions do not listen to their partners but simply make their words a rule in the house.

This will lead to the wife having no participation in the decision-making about things in the house,
the kids, and the marriage.

This situation may survive for a limited number of years
but not for the life of the marriage because ignoring your partner opinion
will make her feel ignored, less valued,
and naturally make her feel upset that it begins to break her confidence
and psychologically influences her self-worth. The husband may think that this behavior is normal since he thinks of himself as head of the family.

Try to revisit some major decisions and events in your life
and you will know that you are the only one making the decision
and your wife is trying hard to make a little life of her own.
This leads to a marriage in crisis that deliberately set you apart from your partner.

Then your partner tries to cope up her breaking self-worth crisis by building a separate life of her own even if you are still living together.

The moment she regains her self-worth and confidence she will ultimately decide to leave you especially if she is successful with her career or business and unknowingly you have never been a part of it.

28/08/2013

Ten Factors That Causes Relationship To Break
1. Being Suspicious
This factor has really make lots of relationship in our world today to break, because when you are relationship with your spouse and you don't trust the person, there is tendency that the relationship won't last, because in every relationship where there is no trust i don't know how the relationship would last.
2. Lack Of Respect
We lack respect for our spouse, we talk anyhow, we use abusive word on our spouse, you might say a word and forget but the person you said it to will not never forget it. Therefore we have to respect our spouse.
3. Jealousy
Jealousy is one of the thing that breaks relationship in our world today. Jealousy is deadly that it can make someone to be a murderer, you always want your spouse to be with you always and don't want any other lady around your spouse if you are a guy you don't want other guys around your spouse, when you see your spouse with any other person you will be jealous and start acting strange to your spouse causing problems to the relationship. So give your spouse freedom to relate to whosoever he or she wish to relate with.
4. Nagging.
When you both are having a little misunderstanding you start shouting and vibrating, you won't calm down settle the issue peacefully, you prefer shout calling the attention of the people around you. The issue both of you will sit down and settle now people will come and settle it for you. How do you think you spouse will feel, it is a disgrace for an outsiders to settle issues between you and your spouse.
5. Classical Complainer
A classical complainer is a person who complains too much he or she complains at everything or mistake that occurs; he or she believes that he or she is perfect so every other person are wrong. It is good to appreciate and not complain, if even the person, make him or her feel good, later you can correct the person secretly and he or she will appreciate it..

21/08/2013

Assemblies Of God Okoko 1 Is Inviting You To a Program.
The International Family Defence Prayer conference
Theme: Generation Of Restorers.
Date: 6th-11th Jan.2014
Venue - Healing And Deliverance Camp Omu Isoko Mowe Ogun State
For Inquires:
Call Or Contact - Assemblies of God, 56 Akoberu Street Sabo Road, Okokomaiko,Lagos, Nigeria.
Tel: +2348034137240 Or +2348038542917
Email: [email protected]
Register Today At Assemblies of God Okoko 1
Don't Miss This Program Because It Will Change your Life For Good. We Shall Have A lot Of Guest Speakers From Different Countries To Minister. So Don't Miss It.
Register Today.

21/08/2013

Things That God Cannot Do ?
God cannot sin. The Bible says He is without sin and that He is just, holy, righteous and undefiled. He is pure and good and therefore could not ever sin. Because God is sinless and holy, He cannot allow sin (even one) into Heaven. The Bible says we have all sinned and fallen short of God’s standard. What is sin? What is that standard? The Bible says it’s “The Ten Commandments.”
God cannot stop loving you. He’s given you everything you hold precious. Your life, your family, your job, and everything else that’s good in your life. Jesus said broad is the road that leads to destruction and many go that way, but narrow is the path and small is the gate that leads to life and few there are that find it. God loves you more than you can imagine and He doesn't want you to spend eternity in Hell. Since God cannot just let you go for the sins you've committed, He made a way for you to be forgiven. It’s not His will for you to perish and He wants you in Heaven so much He did something amazing, remarkable, and unthinkable! Instead of making us take the punishment we deserve, He took the punishment for our sins on Himself that we may be forgiven. The Bible says He made Him who knew no sin, sin for us and that He illustrated His love towards us in that Christ died for us while we were still sinners. The Bible says He so loved the world He gave His one and only Son that whoever would put their faith and trust in Him would not perish but have everlasting life. That means if you will humbly confess and then forsake (turn away from your sins) and put your full faith and trust in Jesus, God will forgive you of all your sins and give you what you don’t deserve, everlasting life in Heaven, thanks to His Son and your Savior, Jesus Christ.

21/08/2013

Accepting Jesus Christ as my personal Savior has been the best decision I have ever made. As a young child, I accepted Jesus Christ into my heart and he has always been there for me. I would like you to accept Jesus Christ as your pesonal Savior if you haven't already for five reasons: life is too hard to go it alone, God is real and he loves us more than we'll ever know, there is life after death and I hope you spend it in Heaven, we live in uncertain times, and we have all sinned and need a Savior to forgive us.

Life is too hard to go it alone. From stress to work to heartbreak, no one has an easy life. Even though there are those who seem to have it all because they are rich or really beautiful, we all face challenges in life. We all need help at times. Jesus Christ is the Son of God, but they both work together. And, they are more than willing to help us when we need it.

God is real and he loves us more than we'll ever know. It says in the Bible that God loves us with an everlasting love. As I've grown in my relationship with God, I experience more and more of his love everyday. I have experienced God's comfort through prayer and studying the Bible.

There is life after death, and I hope you and anyone who reads this will spend it in Heaven. I pray that me, all my loved ones, and every single person that would believe in Jesus Christ gets to go to Heaven. I am not a Bible professor, scientist, or pastor. All I am is a Christian. So, the best evidence I can give you of Heaven is my testimony. Heaven is real, and if you haven't accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Savior I hope you do. So, you can spend eternity in Heaven. By the way, many people have written books about Heaven. I haven't read these, but I heard that they are good and I hope you enjoy them: Heaven is Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back and Heaven is Real: Lessons On Earthly Joy--What Happened After 90 Minutes In Heaven.