29/01/2021
So helpful to our christian faith youths..
VIRGINITY VS S*XUAL PURITY
I made the decision to remain a virgin from my childhood and that no matter what happened I vowed to keep my virginity.
Growing up, I got involved in several impure acts but I bothered less since I was able to keep my virginity INTACT, I was more concerned with remaining a virgin and not being s*xually pure, technically I was a virgin but s*xually DEFILED!
I struggled with remaining pure, from what I saw in the media to what I watched in the movies, everything around me was enough to keep me impure. I became curious about po*******hy, s*x and its pleasure, my mind was filled with lust, I wanted to have a taste and this dragged me into po*******hy and ma********on but technically I was a VIRGIN.
I got involved in several ungodly relationships but I protected the H***N with all I had yet I was not s*xually pure!
It cost me my relationship with GOD and I struggled to be free from the chains of addiction, I remained bound until MERCY said NO.
Virginity they say is the pride of a woman and this is why godly parents wish to raise daughters who can remain virgins until marriage so they can proudly say I trained her well but is it enough to remain a virgin yet impure?
We raise the flags of virginity but yet we struggle with secret sins of immorality, we struggle with po*******hy and musturbation, we still lust in our hearts, if the world claps for us for remaining virgins can God also smile at us for remaining pure?
PURITY is a different fight, virginity alone does not define purity, purity is above keeping the H***N intact, stopping the PE*******ON, not being involved in the S*X. We capitalize on the s*x but it is more than abstaining from s*x but from immoral acts!
When they ask virgins to stand up you bodly stand raising your hands for the congregation to see but yet in the dark you let him hold you tightly, grab your ass, run his fingers through your va**na so technically you are still a virgin!
You stop him from pe*******on but you go naked for him, let him touch everywhere, suck everything,oral s*x you have done, a**l s*x you have done but you remained a virgin, technically you are a virgin but you are defiled!
You are a s*xual purity advocate, so because you think it is about remaining a virgin, you condemn those who made the mistake, insult single mothers and raise your shoulder high yet you touch your self in the dark to satisfy your s*xual urges, technically you are still a virgin but defiled!
We have abused the presence of s*xual purity and replaced it with the presence of the h***n, we think virginity is the landmark of purity and the gateway to heaven, you may be positive to the virginity test yet lack God's commendation.
What of God's commendation, if we recieve all the praise for keeping our virginity can God commend us for remaining pure?
For your body is HIS temple and should remain clean and pure for him to abide, it is more than abstaining from s*x but abstaining from everything immoral and impure, abstaining from po*******hy, movies with naked adults, music videos proclaiming nudity.
It starts from keeping your mind free from lust and lustful desires, keeping your eyes off nudity and stopping the movement of that brother or sisters hand.
It starts from minding the books you read, the songs you listen to, the movies you watch and keeping your conversations pure, for if you say you abstain from s*x but discuss s*x it is like adding fuel to the fire you are trying to quench!
Let us fight with all we have, the fight of purity starts from the mind, putting on the whole armor of God, wearing the helmet of salvation, standing on guard ready to conquer those desires as they try to lead us into temptation, leaving every toxic relationship and fighting for our position as SONS OF GOD!
This is a fight, a fight from the mind, with studying the word and travailing on our knees, for if we decide to stand with s*xual purity we must be ready to fight for purity!
If you are defiled already, just as MERCY said NO and God saved me from addiction and impurity, if you can open your heart asking God for help He is willing to save and redeem you right now❤
©The journey of A Christian Lady
