21/02/2026
ADVICE.
It's so crazy that some people will not stand with you when you are struggling, they will not call, they will not visit, they will not even ask what is wrong, but the day something happens to you, they will be the first to type long message, they will be the first to post your pictures, they will speak as if they know your heart,
You see this life is strange, the same people who refuse to support your small beginning will stand in the front of everybody to say they've always believe in you, the same people who ignored your pain will suddenly become the voice of Sympathy not because they love you deeply but because 'PUBLIC EMOTION IS EASIER THAN PRIVATE SACRIFICE"
So as long as you are still building your life, do not forget to live inside it.
Eat well when you can,and rest when your body asks.
Visit the places your heart keep asking for.
Wear your good clothes now and then, because happiness is not only for the future, it's also for today because when a person leaves this world, control ends, of course other people will carry your story the way they like, some will exaggerate, some will rewrite it, some people will go ahead to use your name to open doors that were closed to you when your were alive.
Listen! Life rewards the living and not the memory.
So WORK HARD YES !
INVEST YES!
Also allow yourself to experience what you are building, do not postpone your entire joy because a person should not become important after silence.
Pst Kola salutes.