School Of Marriage GFA

08/05/2026

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DON'T LET THE DEVIL SNEAK INTO YOUR GARDEN OF LOVE!
(Keep Your Spouse Close to Your Heart next to God)

There's nothing like being intimate. Be your spouse's best friend. Learn to be open, sincere, loving, forgiving, caring always. It's not about whose responsibility it should be always, sometimes it's about who has it and understands how to lift the other up. You can't sow good seeds with grudges, and hatred or hurts.

Try sowing good seeds in such a way that in few years time, you would see something that captures a good memory of your past together. Many couples hate to see the memories of their past from their present state. You can't have genuine love and be selfish. If you or your spouse, or both of you are selfish to each other, it simply means, that the serpent has creeped into your love garden. Couple can have s*x and still not be intimate! Love doesn't demand responsibility, it does it. Love does not wait, it acts! Love doesn't wait to be awakened to love, it goes out to spark the love of the one that's gone cold. And the benefits are mutual.

Unfortunately and unknowingly to many couples whose marriages are no longer tasting sweet as it used to be - their children are not only watching, but developing with warped understanding of true marriage and family love. This is the most scary part in marriage. Satan, circumstances, and the failures become tutors - reshaping and deforming the children; it becomes, "I am of Acquilla, I am of Priscilla!"

It's never too late to learn if people can go back to the Holy Spirit, the Best Teacher. Humility is the keyword that is needed for a great change. It makes you say "I am sorry" to God first, and then to your spouse too.

May you find the wisdom to drive that wicked stranger, the devil out of your marriage now, in Jesus name.
Read Eccl 4:9-12

Shalom

03/05/2026

, but ?

"Without the help of the Lordit is useless to build a homeor ..." (Psalms 127:1)

When you are no longer needed in the office .....after you have expended the worth of your education and certificate at the workplace.....and your employers have finished using your intellect, intelligence, blood-energy and your wealth of experience to build their companies or parastatals, what kind of home will you be retiring or welcomed to - by the same family you have failed to raise and caused deep pains?

May you not sit at the later part of your old age, to sing the song of "Had I known!"

21/03/2026

LET GOD FIX YOUR MARRIAGE
God is still in the business of mending the brokenhearted, setting the captives free, and transforming bad relationships into dynamic havens of love, joy, and commitment. Just hand over the issues to Jesus, and follow His directions.

Don't put your feelings or decisions ahead of God's Word.

"Harden not your heart, As in the provocation, and as in the day of temptation in the wilderness:" (Psalm 95:8 KJV)

What you are going through right now may be your own wilderness! The voices you hear right now sensitizing your pains and feelings against God's will is actually a temptation. Listen to God's voice. He is speaking quietly to your heart.

“Whatever He says to you, do it.” (John 2:5 NKJV)

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; [6] In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV)

"...: for there shall be a performance of those things which were told (you) from the Lord" (Luke 1:45 KJV)

Shalom

17/03/2026

(Part 1)
No MOG can effectively do the work of God without graduating from the School of PATIENCE! "Patience is counting down before blasting off."

I recall a story that Derek Prince (late) shared about how he wanted to blast a woman who came from a faraway place to enroll her daughter in a school in one of the African countries where he was the Principal at the time. There was no more space for enrollment; and this woman continued to pester him for a long time - to allow her daughter in. Several explanations from Derek Prince met, the deaf ears of this woman, and as he got provoked and wanted to raise his voice in anger, God said to him, "BE CAREFUL, SHE IS A CHILD OF GOD."

Wow!

Does this show that God cares and loves those who hurt you? Many ministers are in trouble with God because of the carnal ways they have responded to those who hurt them - thus, hurting them back.

Imagine how many times we have treated many who we never knew were God's children! What about the ones that we know that are children of God?

James 3:15, 17 NKJV
[15] This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic.
[17] But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy.

If there's anything you must take revenge on, deal with the devil and the situation (mess), not directly on persons. ...for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities etc (Eph 6:12)

This story with its lessons has never left me for over four decades now. This revelation has shaped my Christian life ever since. It has taught me how to keep "BLASTING-ANGER" down with PATIENCE afloat.

Proverbs 2:6 NKJV
[6] For the Lord gives wisdom; From His mouth come knowledge and understanding.

Ephesians 4:26, 31-32 NKJV
[26] “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath,
[31] Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. [32] And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

May God grant you understanding

14/02/2026

@ in church to spark up our love @ Valentine's day

14/02/2026

has turned love into lust, giving into getting, & lasting commitment into "no strings attached." Don't fall for it

14/02/2026

AND ! Pls don't make a fuss over gifts or no gifts from each of you, or your carnal friends because of !

AS CHRISTIANS OUR LOVE SURPASSES . IT ISN'T TIED TO ANY LOCATION, DATE OR TO THE 3RD CENTURY CHRISTIAN MATYR WHO WAS EXECUTED FOR CONDUCTING MARRIAGES SECRETLY AGAINST THE DECREE OF THE EMPEROR OF THEIR DAYS! OUR OWN KIND OF LOVE, CHRIST'S LOVE (Rom 5:5b; JN 3:16), AGAPĒ/PHILEO IS EMBEDDED AND CELEBRATED IN THE RESURRECTED CHRIST. IN THIS LOVE, SEXUAL LOVE AND ROMANCE IS HOLY FOR THE MARRIED; ROMANCE & SEXUAL IMMORALITY ARE FORBIDDEN. FORNICATION IS COMPLETELY ALIEN (FORBIDDEN) FOR SINGLES WHO ARE TRULY BORN AGAIN. DON'T BE A VICTIM OF SATAN'S TRAP HIDDEN IN VALENTINE'S CELEBRATION! IF YOU MUST SHOW LOVE, LET YOUR MOTIVE BE PURE, NOTHING SINFUL, NOTHING EXPLOITATIVE. FOR COUPLES, BE APPRECIATIVE OF YOUR SPOUSE'S CARE. DON'T USE YOUR BODY TO APPRECIATE ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN NICE TO YOU OTHER THAN YOUR SPOUSE.

VALENTINE'S CELEBRATION CAN'T SOLVE ISSUES THAT HAVE EATEN UP COUPLES MARRIAGE/TOGETHERNESS. TO THIS EFFECT, AND AS OUR CUSTOM IS, WE ARE ORGANIZING COUPLES BREAKFAST ON FEB. 14TH, THEMED, "SWEET LOVE, AND SINGLES LOVE FEAST ON 15, FEB." WE HAVE A SURE LEGACY FROM OUR PASTORS, PASTOR TAIWO & BIMBO ODUKOYA, TO HELP COUPLES BUILD A STRONG HOME FOR CHRIST. (SEE FLYERS ATTACHED)

14/02/2026

IF PPLE CAN FIGHT FOR THEIR BUSINESS TO SURVIVE, WHY DO THEY CREATE OPTIONS OUTSIDE GOD'S WILL WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE?

09/02/2026