13/06/2023
I hear a lot of people say, relationship don't work for them. I think reverse should be the case, "you don't work for relationship ".
You want a relationship to work for you when you are not ready to work for that relationship, it will continue failing until you have made up your mind to work for your relationship.
No relationship can be sustained when you have refused to work for it.
Every day you are praying asking God for the right partner when you are the one who should pray to be the right partner.
You admire and adore other couples living in peace and harmony and you keep asking why is your own case different.
Have you also pondered why that relationship you admire so much has stood the test of time?
Everything you admire, there is a price tag attached to it.
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE GOING INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP.
*Am I romantically attracted to him/her?
*Is he/she someone I can be proud of?
*Is he/she someone I can be committed to?
*Can I submit to him?
*Do I really love him/her?
E.t.c
Most times our relationship fail because we don't even know the reason why we got into it in the first place.
Most people go into relationship without a reason and expect a result, it doesn't work that way.
A sustainable relationship demands your total commitment.
Don't build a relationship when you are not yet ready to be committed.
And try not to repeat those mistakes that made you failed in your previous relationships.
Many will say, what will be mine will be mine regardless.
This statement has also destroyed many relationships.
What will be yours will be yours only when you are ready to make it yours.
GOOD PEOPLE ALSO HAVE LIMITS.
I Am Apostle Prosper Ifeanyichukwu Joseph
The Living ancestor
I remain: