13/05/2026
Poverty has deceived many people into confusing provision with purpose.
Money can pay bills, but it cannot automatically produce peace, character, loyalty, wisdom, or covenant alignment.
A wealthy man may have resources and still lack responsibility.
He may have a house and still not know how to build a home.
He may fund your lifestyle and still destroy your destiny.
Marriage was never designed to be built on financial attraction alone. If money is the primary qualification, then the relationship becomes vulnerable the moment wealth changes, pressure comes, or character is tested.
A wise woman should not only ask:
“Does he have money?” But also:
“Does he have discipline?”
“Does he fear God?”
“How does he treat people?”
“Can he lead with wisdom?”
“Is he emotionally mature?”
“Will he still be honorable when life becomes difficult?”
At the same time, financial stability is not irrelevant. Poverty itself creates pressure in marriage. Wisdom is to seek both character and capacity — not one without the other.
The right man is not merely the richest man available.
The right man is the one whose values, vision, character, and direction can sustain a godly and healthy future.
Jesus is Lord
Pastor Timothy S. Pheetamimah
RODIM Int’l Gospel Centre, Magami – Jalingo, Taraba State
