05/05/2021
One of the greatest mistakes we make as men is to bask in the euphoria of victory when our Woman suddenly stops complaining or nagging. We celebrate our phantom victory, ignorantly mistaking her silence to mean that she has been subdued or she has finally accepted what was making her complain or nag.
Listen,
A woman is known to nag and fight over a man for whom she has feelings for, she moves to protect her territory at the slightest sign of encroachment. She wants him to be perfect, she tries to make him fit into her fantasy image of Mr right. A wise man shouldn’t be worried when the nagging is going on, however, you should be very worried if the fighting and nagging suddenly stops.
If she suddenly starts to ignore the things that used to make her quarrel and fight, pay closer attention and move to make things right before you loose her for good.
✍️When a woman stops nagging or complaining, one or two things may have happened. She has either fallen out of love for you and does not care about you or what you do anymore or she is talking to or planning to start talking to someone else. She may not be cheating yet, she may not even be planning to cheat, but she is certainly ready to talk to someone who has the patience to listen to her whine about the time and energy she has put into the marriage or relationship.
Your Relationship will now depend on the temperament, motive and character of the person she talks to. A woman is naturally very patient and will usually give you many clear signs and warnings before cheating.
If you pay attention, you will notice her frustration gradually fade away leaving an unusually peaceful and very confident disposition, at that point she is trying to convince herself that she can do without you, you will also begin to notice some bold independent moves, if she didn’t keep friends, you will begin to see some around her, she may also start to dress differently, paying particular attention to her looks and appearance, wearing a bit more makeup and so on.
She may not leave you especially if there are children involved, but at this stage she certainly does not have feelings for you anymore, she has the capacity to pretend until death do you path. When the nagging suddenly stops, the only way to ensure she doesn’t do something silly, which will hurt you and hurt her as well is to talk to her, you may have to woo her all over again.
Make sure you make a note of the the things she use to complain about and work on it.
Leave pride out of your relationship and do all you can to ensure it doesn’t break, you will be happy you did. A very high percentage of Broken Relationship regret the extra mile they didn’t go, they wonder if they gave up too soon, don’t let that be your story, the pride you swallow today will transcend into the celebration of silver and golden jubilee of your Relationship in future.
Don’t be in a hurry to give up, no Relationship is perfect, stop and think, you may be moved to forgive, compromise and keep your home intact. {VICE VERSA}
Written By Victor Willz Firdance
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