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Theme: A family with Godly Values Preacher: Apostle Godwin

20/06/2024

Topic: online school of marriage
Time: Jun 22, 2024 07:00 PM Amsterdam

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05/05/2024

*FOOD FOR THOUGHT*

Elumelu's mom is 96 years.
Otedola's mom is 102 years.
Jonathan's mom is 87 years.
Saraki's mom is 88 years.
Yaradua's mom is 98 years.
Dangote's mom is 89 years.

Where are their fathers? Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought, guys!

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you.
Change or upgrade your wardrobe every 2 years

Feel good and look good

Reconcile with any known enemy

Call your friends on phones every day during work and after working hours.
Listen to good music
Live a day at a time

Call me if you don't have a friend, I will bridge the gap,
I hope i’m talking sense to you?
Enjoy night and sleep tight.
A blessed weekend to you.

Summarily...
Men please try not to die, biko mbok e jo.

23/04/2024

*MATURITY AND SENSES REQUIRED FOR MARRIED MEN*

So when I got back from work this evening, my wife told me that she quarrelled with my neighbour's wife. I was very shocked. This was the first time such a thing was happening. Both women had lived in peace since we parked in.

So I asked her what the problem was. My wife told me it was because of the rope where we dry clothes. My wife wanted to dry her clothes and my neighbor's wife wanted to dry her own clothes.

One thing one thing led to confrontation, and small thing one person said you insulted me and something something led to quarrel.

The husband of my neighbour's wife returned as I was still talking with my wife. And the hot-tempered wife of my neighbour began to shout at her husband.

"You better go and warn her husband to warn her. Go and warn the husband to warn his wife or else."

My wife wanted to go out to confront her but I held her back.

"I am home now. Don't go outside."

"If you won't allow me to go, then you better go out and tell her husband to tell his wife to shut her mouth or else I will come for her. Go now and tell him. Go and tell him o."

My wife was angry. She entered the bedroom in anger.

I opened the parlour door to peep outside, at that moment I saw my neighbour also opening the door to come out. I thought the man was coming to warn me as his wife instructed. But he didn't. He came to me and said.

"Uncle Praises, I am sure you have heard about the drama."

I nodded.

"Yes, I have."

"My wife is very wild. I will not sleep this night if I don't do what she wants. She has asked me to warn you. I don't know if we can just act the drama small. I will warn you and you will beg me to calm down. So I can go in and sleep well."

"Ha no na. If you warn me and I start begging you, you will be sleeping well in your house and my wife will think I don't have power. She will insult me all night for begging you. Your wife will think you are more superior."

"So what do we do now?"

"Let us warn each other. You will warn me and I will warn you. When we warn each other seriously, we then go inside the house and we both can sleep. That way both women will know we stood for them."

My neighbour agreed and we started the fire.

I warned him very seriously. He also started warning me. Soon we were shouting at the top of our voices. His wife came out of the house and my wife also came out. He ran to carry Hoe, I followed the backyard and brought a machete. My wife started begging me to go inside. His wife was also begging him to drop the hoe.

That was how we both entered inside the house and locked the door.

There was silence in the compound.

My wife kept rubbing my chest and telling me to calm down. While she was still rubbing my chest and head my neighbor sent me a text.

"It worked o. Thank you, sir."

I told my wife to fetch me cold water to drink.

When she stood up, I replied back.

"You owe me a bottle of drink."

I was still typing my message when my wife shouted from the kitchen.

"But Abayomi, you have hot temper o. Small quarrel women are having, you carried machete."

*DON'T LET THE OTHER GENDER SEND YOU TO EARLY GRAVE*

01/04/2024

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE SUBMIT TO YOU

1. Submit to God as a husband. This will diminish your pride

2. Have a vision of love that you communicate to her that she can submit to

3. Give her clarity and security. Make her know that she is your priority and focus. When a woman knows that her position is not treatened, she feels safe and pours herself to the relationship

4. Be admirable. She will proudly follow your lead when you bear admirable qualities and character

5. Love her up and water her emotions. Women respond to love by giving love

6. Do not dictate or Lord over her. Show her gentleness and consistency. Let her walk by your side not suppressed under you

7. Protect her as she gives you her all. Don't be her enemy or make her feel exposed to attacks and she will build with you and help you

8. Do not silence her voice. She should feel at home enough to contribute her thoughts and ideas. Submission is not slavery

9. Avoid advice from men who are intimidating or taking their wives for granted. She is your responsibility, don't be misled

HOW TO SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND

1. Submit to God as a wife. This will teach you humility

2. Be hundred percent commited, not displaying double mindedness. Participate in the marriage, don't leave everything to him. Use your voice and your greatness as a helper

3. Do not demean him or belittle the man that he is based on his achievements or compare him with others

4. Communicate that you are proud of him and you believe in him. Don't show him you might be more excited with or prefer another man

5. Inspire him and encourage him. Shouting at him or constantly complaining will not bring out the best in him but only discourages him

6. Be gentle with him. Speak with a tone of peace and love. Respect him in private and in public

7. Protect him and cover him. Don't gossip about him with others. Don't mock him or give ammunition to others to bring him down

8. Do not talk lowly of him or at him just because you have money, you are successful, you come from a privileged family or you think you are too beautiful to get any man. Do not bring about a gender war

9. Avoid women who give wrong advice of fighting your husband to teach him a hard lesson, having a don't care attitude and who are not pro-marriage
Classes dismissed 😔

21/03/2024

When you marry the wrong partner,
the devil will stop disturbing you. Because you have already employed his staff.🙄🙄🙄🙄

13/03/2024

*True Meaning of MR & MRS*

*MR/MRS*
Do you know the meaning of *Mr* & *Mrs*?
If your answer is no, now let me tell you the meaning,
MR means *Matured and Responsible.*

MRS mean: *Matured, Responsible and Submissive.*

Are you truly *MR* in your home???

Are you truly *MRS* in your home???

Please meditate on this and make amendment to enjoy a *Happy Home.*
*May Almighty God bless our households.*

07/02/2024

TYPES OF HUSBANDS:

1: BACHELOR HUSBAND
Does things on his own without consulting wife. Hangs out a lot with friends more than wife. Not serious about marriage life.

2: ACIDIC HUSBAND.
Is always boiling like acid and always angry violent, moody, dominating and very dangerous.

3: SLAVE HUSBAND
Wants to be treated like a King but treats Wife like a Slave. Likes wife to perform old tradition respect and hates being called by their first name.

4: GENERAL HUSBAND
Husband for every woman. loves and cares for girlfriends more than his wife. Likes giving money to girlfriends and has more female friends.

5: DRY HUSBAND
Very moody and stingy, doesn't consider wife's interest, doesn't make the relationship enjoyable. Has no sense of humor.

6: PANADOL HUSBAND
Uses wife as problem solver, only loves wife when in need of something from her. He's clever and knows wife's weaknesses and capitalizes on that to get relief from wife.

7: PARASITE HUSBAND.
Lazy and only loves wife for the sake of money. Uses wife's money on girlfriends. No initiative and does not help wife with house responsibilities.

8: BABY HUSBAND
Irresponsible and childish and can't make decisions on his own without asking his mother or relatives; subjects wife to relatives dictates thereby running to them when things go wrong.

9: VISITING HUSBAND
Not always at home, comes as a visitor. Provides family all material things but has no time for them.

10: CARING HUSBAND
Caring and loving; he provides material and emotional needs and makes time for family. He guides home spiritually. Very responsible and treats wife as partner and helper.

ADVICE TO FAITHFUL BRIDE TO BE.
Make sure you study your guy very well and know the group he belong before saying i do so that you will not regret later.
Let’s share to educate others 🙏

Classes dismissed

17/12/2023

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR...✍🏾

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11.Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite s*x on the days you are h***y.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual s*xual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

FLEE from all appearance of evil is what the Bible says.

What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose, don't smell it!

Don't start what you cannot finish!

Avoid all emotional and s*xual affairs, they will destroy your marriage!

May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret ...
Classes dismissed 😀

16/12/2023

ARGUMENT:

1. Some people don't want a reply. They want an ARGUMENT.Giving them your attention just promotes them. Discern.

2. Sometimes holding your tongue doesn't mean you LOST the ARGUMENT. It could mean you SAVED the relationship.

3. There's no point in arguing with someone that's already convinced of their ARGUMENT... even if they ARE wrong.

4. At some point an ARGUMENT becomes pointless. Both sides need to agree to disagree shake hands & move on.

5. If nobody will listen and nobody wants to learn, it's not a conversation ,it's an ARGUMENT.

6. Never make winning an ARGUMENT more important than maintaining the relationships you need. Be Wise!

7. Don't always argue. People will run from you. Times are too hard for people to hang around persons who inundate them with needless ARGUMENTS.

8. Just because you got the last word in that matter doesn't mean you won the ARGUMENT. It just means someone had sense enough to stop talking before you did.

9. People that are small in revelation, are usually big in ARGUMENT. Don't argue with blind and less insightful people. Be merciful. They can't see what you are seeing.

10. After all is said and done, make yourself too busy to engage in needless ARGUMENTS that lead to nowhere.

It's your turn, keep smiling and laughing because the Joy of the Lord in your strength

14/12/2023

Been saying this:

Women will hardly disrespect a man who first respects himself, unless she's a narcissist or generally rude.

Most men DEMAND respect because they think that just being a male automatically makes them superior to women and therefore must be respected no matter what.

A man will speak rudely or arrogantly to a woman. The moment she rebukes him, she's disrespectful. They expect the woman to absorb insults and disrespect in order to prove herself worthy of marriage.

Unfortunately, it is damaged and unintelligent men who reason this way.

There are responsible and well behaved men who understand that in order to be respected, one must first respect himself. Real men know that respect is earned: it is reciprocal.

I'm glad some women know their worth. They don't take lightly to insults and won't hesitate to rebuke any man who does not respect himself towards them.

Such women usually attract the attention of REAL MEN, not men in diapers...

Classes dismissed 😔