10/07/2017
EXPERIENCING A REAL LASTING :-
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Whenever s*x is being taught during couples summit, one of the major concerns of every man is how to last long or longer in bed during love making. So many wives are really concerned about the inability of their husbands to last on bed also, through teachings and personal counseling, many thousands of men have been help have testimony in that area.
While it is very good & also a sense of fulfillment for a man to last long on bed during s*x because that's one of the ways s*xual enjoyment& satisfaction is measured in the world of men mostly. But I will like us all to know that, there are other important places where we must strive to last. Many men are proud that they can last 25minutes-45mins on bed but the same men cannot last 10mins on their knees in the place of prayer.
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Sir, how long can you last on your knees in prayer? How long can you last in studying the Bible without dozing off there? How long can you last in your patience with your wife before you loose your temper (I myself am working on this area of my life, because l am a perfectionist) and get angry with her when she misbehaves? Sir, how long have you lasted in keeping of your marital vows you made on your wedding day not to have s*x with any other woman, either solo s*x, chat s*x, phone s*x or carnal s*x, apart from your wife? How long can you last in the presence of God during service?
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Are you one of those men that get late to service on Sunday & you will still be showing your pastor your wrist watch; indirectly tell him to round off his message because you want to rush again out of the service. No wonder many destinies are crushed because they always rush out of God's presence. You can't sit down comfortably for 2 hours in church without walking out of God because you have an appointment elsewhere.
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Becoming a lasting husband is more than just lasting on the bed. If you really want to be a lasting husband, strive for ability to last in all other areas I have mentioned too. No body lasts in the hand of God and in destiny fulfillment just by lasting on bed. Your marital joy& your best in life cannot last if the only place you last is on the bed.
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Ladies,while you are concerned about your husband lasting on bed to satisfy you s*xually, please, be concerned about him lasting in other areas I have mentioned.
Single ladies, don't be carried away with the foolishness that is common in our days, ladies looking for guys that can last on bed as guys that are 'husband materials' for them...A story was told me by my wife of a sister that refused to marry early because she was in search of a muscled brother that can take her to bed and satisfy her as long as possible..If the only place he can last is on bed,and if that is why you want to marry him, your home, your children are in danger, you might not have a lasting joy in that marriage and your dreams might be aborted soon.
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Don't just be a man that lasts long on bed, be a man that lasts long in every good things that pertain to life& godliness, to be a Total lasting husband; you must last before God!
Be challenged as it has also challenged me.
*REPENT!*
