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19/02/2019

Emotional infidelity (2)
Job 31:1, Matthew 5:28


We bless the name of our God and father Jesus Christ for the grace to embark on this continuation of our last message. It becomes a necessity to deeply deal with this cancerous factor that destroys many homes.
I trust God to open our hearts so that everyone can every openings that can lead to breaking their homes and do the needful.
Emotional infidelity has become a great weapon that does not only break homes but paralyses destiny. Although, people that are into infidelity does not usually start with such motive but when their friendship with an opposite s*x goes beyond boundary, it leads to this great destroyer.

CHARACTERISTICS
1. When you stop wearing your wedding ring
2. When you begin to have less romantic love and s*x life
3. When you prefer staying outside your home instead of being at home
4. When you think your spouse is policing you around or complaining about you
5. When you are no longer attractive to your spouse: don't because of marriage begin to live an unkept life. Keep yourself tidy and neat. Appreciate each other while you live
6. When you keep secret from your spouse or pass-wording your phone or computer for your spouse.

CAUSES
1. Stress with lifestyle change: it is usually caused by man's anxiousness due to changes that happen to him/her
2. Revenge: it also happens when husband/wife engages in the act with the intention to revenge the unfaithfulness of the spouse. Weak people revenge, strong people forgive while intelligent people ignore. Be an intelligent person.
3. Romantic displeasure: when husband/wife shifts his/her love and attention to the children and focus less on his/her spouse.
4. Outright lust: when you are always engrossed with carnality and immorality.

SOLUTIONS
1. Avoid riding in an automobile with an opposite s*x unless that person is older enough to be your grandparent or young enough to be your grandchild.
2. Don't travel with single opposite s*x always
3. Don't sleep together in a hotel with an opposite s*x in the name of saving money if you need to travel outside your locality
4. Resolve conflicts quickly and move on with life. Don't dwell in the past. Be romantic to your wife
5. Be creative in your expression of love to your spouse and be sensitive to his/her needs
6. Nurture your spirituality together through Bible study, family prayer retreat, etc.


When a man wants to hide from being blamed for his errors, he would say IT IS THE WORK OF THE DEVIL, but the truth remains that not every case is instrumental by the devil. When you start making opening for the devil in your life and home, he is good at finishing the mess for you. Be disciplined and flee as the bible warns (1Cor. 6:18).

18/02/2019

EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY (1)
Job 31:1, Matthew 5:28


The topic of discussion here is both timely and crucial. Our focus is to arrest one of the weapons Satan uses to put homes asunder, which is EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY. This can also mean emotional adultery as described in Matthew 5:28. The two words are crucial and their combinations makes it more sensitive.
Emotional affairs appear to be on the increase while infidelity is a betrayal of ones partner.
Emotional infidelity occurs when one puts another opposite s*x ahead of his/her spouse. This becomes an issue because your emotional feelings belonging to your partner is been stolen by an outsider and when this happens, it causes a great havoc to marriage.


The following are some of the red light (characteristics) of emotional infidelity:
1. Frequency of special and expensive gifts: when an opposite s*x begins to shower you with expensive gifts on a constant basis, know that it is a signal of emotional infidelity.
2. Horrible fights that often begin with small and trivial issues: issues are meant to be discussed and settled as soon as possible. Stop aggravating small issues. Work and walk over them, don't let small issues work you over.
3. Deleting of e-mail, contacts and messages on your phone: when you begin to keep secret away from your spouse, you are no more loyal to your marital vows.
4. When you seem less comfortable around your spouse especially when your phone rings.
5. When you spend unnecessary time on phone or computer especially when your spouse has gone to bed: when you begin to keep late hour to talk to opposite s*x when your husband is already asleep.


1. Mid life crisis: this usually happen to people from age 40
2. Adventure: it occurs due to passion for fresh relationship to try out personality.
3. Social friendship
4. Revenge: infidelity often occurs when one partner wants to revenge what the wrong the other partner has committed.
5. Romantic pleasure and outright lust


With all the cases of infidelity around us, there are solutions. The following are few of the solutions to Infidelity.
1. Prevention and avoidance of whatever can result to emotional infidelity: flee all the appearance of evil.
2. Define all your relationship with opposite s*x.
3. Rekindle and sparkle your love with your spouse.
4. Be open to your spouse on all issues.


Prevention they say is better than cure and only a wise will see danger ahead and avoid it. Whatever that bleeds the heart of God is a poison to our destiny. Emotional infidelity is a poison to your destiny, flee it before it destroy your home, life and destiny

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