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21/06/2026

*When Do We Need To Be Reconciled?* — 3 main times the Bible shows us. Reconciliation isn’t just a “nice idea.” It’s urgent.

*1. WE NEEDED RECONCILIATION WITH GOD FIRST* _2 Cor 5:18-19_

*When?* The moment Adam sinned, all humanity became God’s enemy.
Romans 5:10 _"For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son..."_
**Sign You Need It** **Why It’s Urgent** **How It Happens**
1. **Guilt + Fear of God** — You can’t pray, you feel dirty Isaiah 59:2 "Your sins have separated you and God" Accept Jesus. 2 Cor 5:21 He becomes sin for you
2. **No Peace** — Money, s*x, alcohol can’t fill the hole Rom 5:1 "Being justified... we have peace with God" Believe vs 18: "God hath reconciled us". It’s done
3. **Death Can Come Anytime** Heb 9:27 "After this the judgment" 2 Cor 6:2 "NOW is the day of salvation" Not tomorrow
*Key*: This reconciliation happened 2000 years ago on the cross. Your job is to _receive_ it today. If you’ve never said "Jesus, I accept Your peace," you need it right now.

*2. WE NEED TO RECONCILE WITH PEOPLE* _Matthew 5:23-24_

Jesus said: _"If you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you; Leave your gift... first be reconciled to your brother, then come and offer your gift."_

*When?* Before worship, before service, before communion.
**Situation in Motako Church** **God’s Command** **Danger of Delay**
**1. You offended someone** — Insulted worker, cheated in land deal Article 10 Go FIRST. Not after service. Matt 5:24 God rejects your offering, prayer, tithe. 1 Peter 3:7
**2. Someone offended you** — Sister lied about you, brother owes money Matt 18:15 "Go and tell him his fault between you and him alone" Bitterness becomes root Heb 12:15. Destroys YOU, not them
**3. Misunderstanding** — You thought he ignored you, but he was sick Eph 4:26 "Don’t let sun go down on your wrath" Devil gets foothold vs 27. Small issue becomes church split
**4. Court case between believers** 1 Cor 6:1-8 "Why not rather be wronged?" Unbelievers mock church. Vs 6 "brother goes to law against brother"
*Rule of Thumb*: If you can’t take communion with clear conscience toward that person, you need reconciliation TODAY. Not next month.

*3. WE NEED TO RECONCILE OTHERS* _2 Cor 5:18 "ministry of reconciliation"_

*When?* When you see division that destroys God’s name.
**When To Step In** **Why It’s Your Job** **Scripture**
**1. Two families not greeting** in church John 13:35 "By this shall all men know... if ye have love" You have "ministry" vs 18. You’re hired
**2. Pastor vs worker cold war** 1 Cor 1:10 "No divisions among you" God holds you accountable if you keep quiet Ezek 3:18
**3. Husband/wife about to divorce** Mal 2:16 "God hates divorce" You help save 2 souls + children. James 5:20
**4. Youth vs elder tribalism** Gal 3:28 "Neither Jew nor Greek" Church becomes Motako laughingstock if you don’t
*But*: Don’t jump in without Matt 18:15 process. If they don’t want peace, vs 17 says shake off. Rom 12:18 "As much as lies in you, live peaceably".

*4. SIGNS IT’S TIME TO RECONCILE NOW*

1. *Worship is dry* — You sing but heaven is closed. Check Matt 5:23. Who are you malicing?
2. *Prayers not answered* — Mark 11:25 "When ye stand praying, forgive". Unforgiveness blocks prayer.
3. *Constant quarrels at home* — If you fight husband Monday, don’t expect to settle members Tuesday. 1 Tim 3:5.
4. *The Holy Spirit disturbs you* — That name keeps coming to mind during prayer. That’s God saying "Go now."
5. *Before taking communion* — 1 Cor 11:28 "Let a man examine himself". Examine relationships too.

*5. WHEN NOT TO FORCE RECONCILIATION*

1. *Abuse/Danger*: If person will beat you, reconcile with police + elder present. Rom 13:4. Don’t be fool.
2. *Unrepentant Sin*: If brother is sleeping with someone’s wife and refuses to stop, Matt 18:17 "tell it to church". Don’t pretend peace.
3. *They Refuse*: Rom 12:18 "as much as lies in YOU". Do your part, then release. You’re not Holy Spirit.

*6. URGENCY: WHY TODAY?*

1. *Tomorrow not promised* — Prov 27:1. The person may die. You’ll live with "I should have said sorry".
2. *Sin multiplies* — Small quarrel today = church split next year. Song of Sol 2:15 "little foxes spoil vines".
3. *God’s blessing waits* — Psalm 133:1,3 "Where brethren dwell in unity... there the Lord commanded blessing". No unity, no blessing.

*Motako Test*: Look at your Article 7:7 "Settle disputes among members". If land case, quarry fight, or wife/husband case has lasted 30+ days, you’re already disobeying Scripture. Reconciliation is overdue.

*One Verse to Remember*:
2 Cor 6:2 _"Behold, NOW is the accepted time; behold, NOW is the day of salvation"_ — applies to getting saved AND making peace.

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*So check yourself right now:*
1. *With God*: Are you truly born again? If not, reconcile today.
2. *With People*: Who came to your mind reading this? That’s who.
3. *For Others*: Which 2 people in church need you to step in this week?

Tell me which category is pressing on you, and I’ll give you exact words + steps to start the reconciliation in next 24hrs.

21/06/2026

*Reconciling Others* — this is Kingdom work. 2 Corinthians 5:18 says God "has given us the ministry of reconciliation." But if you do it with wrong attitude, you create 3 fights instead of settling 1.

In Motako church, with land disputes, tipper drivers vs community, husband vs wife, elder vs pastor — a reconciler is more valuable than gold.

*1. BIBLICAL ATTITUDES OF A TRUE RECONCILER*
**Right Attitude** **What It Means** **Scripture** **Wrong Attitude That Makes It Worse**
**1. Neutral, Not Judge** You’re referee, not Supreme Court. No side before hearing Prov 18:17 "first to present his case seems right, till another comes" **Biased**: "I know Bro John, he can’t lie." You’ve lost Sis Mary already
**2. Peacemaker, Not Peacefaker** Aim for true peace, not just "shut up and greet" Matt 5:9 "Blessed are the peacemakers" **Cover-up Agent**: Forces handshake but heart still bitter. Eph 4:26
**3. Listener, Not Lecturer** 80% ears, 20% mouth. Let them empty pain first James 1:19 "quick to hear, slow to speak" **Preacher**: Quotes 10 verses before they finish talking. They feel judged
**4. Confidential, Not Carrier** What’s said in reconciliation dies there Prov 11:13 "talebearer reveals secrets" **Gossip**: "You won’t believe what Bro Tunde told me..." Now whole church knows
**5. Patient, Not Pusher** Some wounds take 3 sittings. Don’t rush "forgive now!" Gal 6:9 "due season" **Forcer**: "The Bible says forgive, so forgive now!" Causes fake forgiveness
**6. Humble, Not Holy** Don’t act superior. "I’ve never quarrel" attitude offends Gal 6:1 "restore in spirit of meekness, considering yourself" **Proud**: "If I was you, I won’t quarrel over land." You’ve lost both
**7. Prayerful, Not Political** Battles are spiritual. Fast first, talk second Eph 6:12 "we wrestle not against flesh" **Carnal**: Uses logic, Article 7, constitution only. No prayer = no power
*2. 7-STEP PROCESS TO RECONCILE OTHERS* _Matt 18:15-17 Model_

*Step 1: Pray First — 1 Day*
Before you call them, fast 6am-12pm. Ask: "Lord, am I the right person? Give me Your words." If you have malice with either party, don’t start. Remove log from your eye Matt 7:5.

*Step 2: See Each Person Separately — Day 2-3*
_Attitude_: No recording, no 3rd party yet.
_Ask_: "Tell me what happened. How did it make you feel?"
_Don’t_: "But he said you..." You’re not post office yet.
_Goal_: Drain poison. People often calm down 50% after being heard.

*Step 3: Find the Real Issue*
Fight about church money? Real issue = pride.
Fight about land? Real issue = fear of poverty.
Fight about seat? Real issue = disrespect.
_Attitude_: Discern, don’t just hear. 1 Cor 2:15.

*Step 4: Find Common Ground*
"Bro A, you said you want peace at home. Sis B, you also said kids are suffering. See, you both want same thing."
_Attitude_: Build bridge from shared values.

*Step 5: Bring Them Together — Day 4*
_Rules_:
1. *Venue*: Neutral ground. Not his house, not her shop. Pastor’s office or Article 6 Meeting Room.
2. *Ground Rules*: No shouting, no phone, no "you always". Each speaks 5min uninterrupted.
3. *Your Role*: Say "I’m not judge. I’m brother who wants Matt 5:23-24 obeyed."

*Step 6: Guide to Solution, Not Decide for Them*
_Wrong_: "Okay, Bro A, give him ₦50k and end it."
_Right_: "Bro A, what can you do to show goodwill? Sis B, what do you need to heal?" Let them own it.
_Scripture_: Philemon 1:14 "without your consent I would do nothing".

*Step 7: Seal + Follow-Up*
1. *Pray together* — laying on of hands kills demon of strife.
2. *Document* — If money/land involved, write simple agreement. Both sign. Article 7:7.
3. *Follow-up 2 weeks later* — "How is it now?" 90% of reconciliation fails here.

*3. DANGERS FOR RECONCILERS IN MOTAKO CHURCH*
**Trap** **How It Happens** **Result** **Escape Route**
**1. Taking Sides** You’re landlord’s friend, so tenant feels you’re biased Tenant leaves church, calls you corrupt Prov 24:23. Declare your relationship first: "I know you both, but God is my Judge today"
**2. Becoming Enemy** Both parties now hate you: "You told him my secret" You quit reconciling. Church stays divided Job 42:10. Pray for both even if they insult you
**3. Spiritual Attack** Demon of division fights you at home after settling others Your wife starts quarrel next day Eph 6:18. Cover yourself in blood. Don’t reconcile without prayer
**4. Burnout** You settle 5 cases weekly. No time for your family Your home starts fighting Mark 6:31. Jesus withdrew. Limit: 1 major case per month
**5. Pride** "Without me this church will scatter" God resists you. 1 Peter 5:5 Remember: Joseph reconciled brothers, but God did it Gen 50:20
*4. SPECIAL CASES: HOW TO HANDLE THEM*

1. *Husband vs Wife*: Never meet wife alone at night. Go with female elder like Pastor Vigil Policy. Malachi 2:16 God hates divorce. Fight for marriage.
2. *Youth vs Elder*: Don’t say "respect your elder" only. Ask elder: "Sir, how can we honor this youth’s idea?" 1 Tim 5:1.
3. *Money Matter*: Involve Financial Sec Article 8. No verbal agreement. Money destroys faster than adultery.
4. *Church Split Threat*: Acts 15:39 Paul & Barnabas separated. Sometimes peace = godly division. Don’t force unity where God is pruning.
5. *One Party Refuses*: Matt 18:17 "tell it to church". If still no, "let him be to you as heathen". You’ve done your part. Rom 12:18 "as much as lies in you".

*5. QUALIFICATIONS TO BE A RECONCILER* _Titus 1:7-9 for elders applies_

1. *Your own home must be in peace* 1 Tim 3:5. Kids can’t be fighting while you settle others.
2. *No record of gossip* — Church must trust your mouth.
3. *Not quick-tempered* — If you slap your wife, don’t touch marriage cases.
4. *Full of Holy Spirit + Wisdom* Acts 6:3. Stephen’s standard.

*Test*: Ask 2 people: "If I had quarrel, will I call you to settle it?" If they hesitate, work on your attitude first.

*6. QUICK PHRASES THAT HELP RECONCILIATION*

Instead of "You’re wrong", say: *"Help me understand your view"*
Instead of "Forgive and forget", say: *"What will healing look like for you?"*
Instead of "It’s not a big deal", say: *"I see this hurt you deeply"*
Instead of "Move on", say: *"How can we walk together again?"*

*Key Verse*: 2 Corinthians 5:19 — "God was in Christ reconciling the world... and has committed to us the word of reconciliation"
_If God reconciled us while we were enemies Rom 5:10, we can reconcile others._

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*For Motako*: With Article 10 land fights, quarry disputes, and Article 7 member conflicts, train 3 elders + 2 deaconesses as official reconcilers. Add to Bye-Law: "Reconciliation Team reports to Pastor only. No fee charged."

*What’s your situation now?*
1. Two families in church not greeting?
2. Worker vs Pastor beef?
3. Couple about to divorce?
4. Land case tearing church?

Tell me the type, and I’ll give you exact words to start + Scriptures to use for that case.

01/02/2026

Happy New Month Fans

01/02/2026

40days PRAYER AND FASTING (Fast as God give you strength. 12, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm.

WELCOME TO OUR SPECIAL PROGRAMME FOR THIS YEARS 40DAYS POWER PRAYER.
May the Lord Almighty 6 our supplication and bless us after this prayer.

Congratulations, CHRIST FANS CLUB INTL.
Psalm 145, 136, 128, 149, 150, 113 all 1 to end
PRAYER POINT

1. COLLECTING BACK OUR POSSESSIONS FROM THE DARKWORLD.
2. DESTROYING THOSE GOVERNING OVER OUR POSSESSIONS .
3. THE POWER TO RECIEVE OUR POSSESSIONS BACK.

Possessions 💰 generally mean things you own or have control over. Can be physical stuff like phones, cars, or houses, or even intangible things like ideas or rights.

God bless

01/02/2026

WELCOME TO OUR SPECIAL PROGRAMME FOR THIS YEARS 40DAYS POWER PRAYER.
May the Lord Almighty 6 our supplication and bless us after this prayer.

Congratulations, CHRIST FANS CLUB INTL.
Psalm 145, 136, 128, 149, 150, 113 all 1 to end
PRAYER POINT

1. COLLECTING BACK OUR POSSESSIONS FROM THE DARKWORLD.
2. DESTROYING THOSE GOVERNING OVER OUR POSSESSIONS .
3. THE POWER TO RECIEVE OUR POSSESSIONS BACK.

Possessions 💰 generally mean things you own or have control over. Can be physical stuff like phones, cars, or houses, or even intangible things like ideas or rights.

God bless

23/01/2026

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18/01/2026

Special Thanksgiving Service ChristPerfection Pentecostal Church

Topic: Those who will not be ashamed
Text : Mark 2 vs 1 to 12

Three people you need to move with this year
You need God
You need people
So therefore, you need sharpener person or people. Those that you share things on common
Those that think positively and rightly. PROV. 11 VS 14
1Sam 23 vs 16 work together to achieve your goals
2. The rebuker. Those that ùùuùrebuk to . Allow people to tell you where you are faulty. Ready to learn and adapt.
3. You need mentor. Ready to learn and teach. Be teachable
4. Burden bearer , supporter

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God take control of this country in your hands. Expose the evils behind the problems we are facing in Nigeria. Amen

08/11/2025

Send this message to all churches and to religious leaders. This Sunday, before commencement of the service
A special prayer for this nation, Nigeria
God should send His angels to destroy the departments of evil controlling this nation, and peace should reign (share this message). Thanks God bless

08/10/2025

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